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Why Are Men so Obsessed with Adult Dolls with Big Butts?

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The obsession with curvaceous beauty is not a new phenomenon. Throughout history, society’s beauty standards have evolved and different body types have grown in popularity. The popularity of big-ass adult dolls, especially TPE sex dolls, has skyrocketed in recent years. Let’s explore some possible reasons behind this obsession.

  1. Physical attractiveness plays an important role in relationships.

Men naturally like visual stimulation, and a sexy butt is visually attractive to many. The curves and proportions of the big butt sex doll can evoke a sense of sensuality and seduction, satisfying fantasy and desire.

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  1. Cultural influences and media representations contribute to the idealization of certain body types.

Pop culture, music videos and social media platforms often feature women with prominent buttocks, creating a social standard of beauty. Adult love dolls with big asses offer a way for individuals to indulge their fantasies and mimic ideal aesthetics.

  1. Physical experience with a big booty sex doll can enhance overall sexual encounters.

The buttocks are the erogenous zones that provide pleasure and stimulation during intimate moments. The soft, realistic texture of the TPE sex dolls creates a realistic tactile experience that adds to the appeal of these adult love dolls.

  1. It is important to note that individual preferences vary widely.

While some men may find big butts especially alluring, others may be attracted to different physical features. The beauty of the adult doll industry is its diversity, catering to a variety of tastes and needs.

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  1. Emotional and psychological aspects should not be neglected either.

For some, owning a TPE sex doll with large butts can provide a sense of companionship and intimacy. These dolls can provide a nonjudgmental space to explore a person’s desires and fulfill emotional needs. The love and care given to these dolls can be therapeutic and satisfying for some.

However, it is critical to approach this topic with sensitivity and respect. The obsession with adult dolls should not diminish the value of real human connection and relationships. While adult love dolls can provide temporary companionship and fulfill certain wishes, they shouldn’t be a substitute for a real emotional connection with another human being.

TPE sex dolls give individuals the opportunity to explore their fantasies in an immersive experience that comes to life. It’s important to approach this topic with an open mind and acknowledge that personal preferences can vary widely. Ultimately, understanding and respecting personal choice is the key to using an adult love doll. Remember that consent, privacy, and ethical considerations should always take precedence. As with any form of adult entertainment, it’s important to behave responsibly and respectfully.

If you’re considering buying a TPE sex doll with big butts, or any other type of adult sex doll, researching reputable and trustworthy manufacturers and retailers is a must. Make sure the doll is made of high-quality materials, such as medical-grade TPE, for durability and safety.

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Also, take into account your personal preferences and wishes. While large buttocks may be a key feature for some, it’s important to consider other aspects of doll appearance and function, such as the face, body proportions, and customization options. Remember that each doll is unique and it is important to find the one that best suits your preferences.

Proper hygiene and cleanliness are essential when owning an adult love doll. Follow the manufacturer’s cleaning and maintenance guidelines, which may include using mild soap or specific cleaning products. Thoroughly clean and dry doll regularly to prevent the growth of bacteria or mold.

Sensation Play- Aural Pleasures

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The Sound Of Your Voice

If the sight of something can light a fire within us, than the sound of it has the power to warm our soul. In our musical catalog of senses, I classify hearing as the classical repertoire. There’s no denying the seductive power of sound. A whisper. A groan. A love song. Hearing your name followed by the words “I love you.” Sound is like an inner massage; cells in your body respond to vibrations and release energy.

Music, laughter and words have power to heal and arouse.

As the auditory cortex receives sound messages with the frontal and parietal lobes, the brain identifies these and defines the direction and distance of these sounds by merging information received from both ears. It’s a highly complicated exchange of information involving intricate instruments. The malleus, incus and stapes (otherwise known as the hammer, anvil and stirrup) are the smallest bones in the human body and are full size at birth. All three together could fit on a penny.

“Sound is the vocabulary of nature.” – Pierre Schaeffer

Using sound in healing has been gaining momentum in the medical industry. “I believe that sound can play a role in virtually any medical disorder, since it redresses imbalances on every level of physiologic functioning,” writes Dr. Mitchell Gaynor in his book The Healing
Power of Sound: Recovery from Life-Threatening Illness Using Sound, Voice and Music.

Furthermore, Dr. Gaynor sees sound beginning to play a large part in the trend of mindful medicine, where the whole person is treated, not just the part that is injured. Just as physical ailments can be caused by emotional distress, our bodies respond to positive emotions with better health, which can be brought about with sound-based therapy that shapes and shifts our mood.

For instance, if you’re sitting in a park on a quiet day, how is your mood affected by the sudden chirping of birds or children laughing nearby versus the explosive blare of a car alarm going off? Or consider the various sounds in your local gym. Compare the differences in music between an intense aerobics class and a meditative yoga class. Whether our conscious mind is aware of it or not, our bodies take cues, emotional and otherwise, from these auditory messages.

Speaking of music, this incredible art form is strongly associated with the brain’s reward system. According to Robert Zatorre, professor of neurology and neurosurgery at the Montreal Neurological Institute, this reward system is that part of the brain that gives value to things and lets us know if they are important for survival. Music also releases the pleasure chemical dopamine in the brain and imaging has revealed that this is similar to how the brain responds to food and sex. “I think there’s enough evidence to say that musical experience, musical exposure, musical training, all of those things change your brain,” says Dr. Charles Limb, of Johns Hopkins University. “It allows you to think in a way that you used to not think, and it also trains a lot of other cognitive facilities that have nothing to do with music.”

Given the healing and mood-enhancing powers of music, it can be an important element to bring into your love life. Bill Lamb is a music journalist who has been covering the world of pop music since 1999. He says that most of us can think of particular songs we associate with the love relationships of our lives. Many couples bond over a particular song, one that
they picked for their wedding dance, or one that was playing during a romantic or exciting
adventure. Take the time to revisit your favorite music as a couple and share the happy
memories it brings up.

Communicating Love

It’s important to pay attention to the sounds of your surroundings, especially as you work to build or rebuild your relationship. Reducing distractions can be hugely beneficial (which is easier said than done if you have kids in the house!). It’s also important to become aware of the tone and volume of your own speaking voice. Never underestimate the power of a kind whisper of affection to your partner. Admiration is one of the best compliments you can give someone you care about. It literally means a feeling of pleasure and approval. Telling your partner what a great job they’ve done or how much you respect and appreciate
decisions they’ve made boosts their self-esteem and opens them up to trusting you with important decisions and events. Your gift keeps on giving as your partner’s brain releases the neurochemical oxytocin which wires the brain to seek opportunities to trust and get more of that safe feeling.

NEURO-CISE: SOUND, DUO

“Our biological rhythms are the symphony of the cosmos, music embedded deep within us to which we dance, even when we can’t name the tune.” – Dr. Deepak Chopra

One of the most important language adjustments you can make is to use open-ended questions that invite a dialogue instead of a one-word answer. Specific questions can reveal how your partner is feeling. For example, instead of asking, “Weren’t you annoyed that
the service was so slow at the restaurant?” to which your partner could just say, “Yes,” re-phrase to ask, “What did you think about the restaurant, even though the service was so slow?” This will invite a full sentence answer where you can continue the conversation for as long as you want. Here are some more examples:

♥ What do you feel about…?
♥ What do you think about…?
♥ What do you like about…?
♥ What do you dislike about…?
♥ What do you want to do about…?
♥ What might happen if you…?
♥ What do you wish would happen if you…?

One couple I counseled had what they described as “relationship- threatening communication issues,” and it turned out that the woman rarely allowed her partner space to voice his opinion. Of course he could have offered it up freely, but given the prompts
for a “yes” or “no” answer, he always took the bait. Then she would become resentful that he didn’t engage in conversation. Simply by incorporating these open-ended questions, their communication issues dissipated.

Compliments are also a great way to show appreciation for your partner because everyone needs to be reminded of all the things that make them lovable. It makes them feel valued. Take some time to do a Love List of all the things you love about each other mentally, physically, emotionally, spiritually and sexually. Then take turns reading your list to each other. I use this exercise in my office and love to watch couples react to compliments they haven’t heard in years.

Talk Dirty To Me

Lovemaking creates its own form of communication, and one of the best ways to enhance the experience is through erotic talk. Talking Dirty talk is one of the most powerful forms of seduction, and it can make your love life more exciting, more creative, and more fun. It
offers a great starting point for other sexual behavior, and has several benefits all on its own:

♥ It helps escape reality
♥ It safely tests sexual boundaries
♥ It increases arousal
♥ It can intensify orgasm
♥ It’s fun and naughty

Erotic talk is a great escape from your daily routine, work issues, family problems and other life obstacles that bring you stress. Describe your wants and desires, and guess at theirs, utilizing all the senses you can. Imagine what turns you both on, whether it’s a sight, sound, smell, taste, or touch. Keep in mind that, in general, women enjoy implicit fantasies with lots of context and foreplay while men like visually-loaded scenes and explicit action. And remember it’s not always about using X-rated words and descriptions. Sometimes the hottest thing to say is a well-placed “yes” against your partner’s ear.

If you’re intimidated or embarrassed by erotic talk, especially if you’ve been a shy or silent lover in the past, a great way to begin testing the waters is to read erotic literature to your partner. That way you can get comfortable using naughty words and see what does and
doesn’t work for you both. It’s easier to begin with someone else’s words!

NEURO-CISE: SOUND, SOLO

No matter how good your opening line is, it’s not going to work if you don’t use the proper delivery. Here are some basic rules that will help you to connect with strangers.

♥ Be yourself and don’t try to impress by acting like someone else.
♥ Try to make him or her smile or even laugh to get their brain to release feel-good endorphins.
♥ Say his or her name once you find out what it is, as this will you an immediate advantage, since it grabs the person’s full attention.
♥ Use words of a sensory nature such as, “I hear that” or “I can only imagine it” and “I feel the same way.”

Make sure to use an appropriate line for the environment you are in. For example, a friendly approach like, “Hi my name is ______, How are you doing today?” can work anywhere from the supermarket to the carwash. A seductive approach, like “You are the sexiest person here tonight” can be effective at a bar or a nightclub, especially if romantic music is playing in the background. A humorous approach might work almost anywhere from a dog park to a bus stop, but not in a hospital where your target date may be visiting someone close to them who is very ill. If you have a dog, one of my favorite lines is “My dog would like to meet your dog, but she/he is very shy.”

Alternatively, I recommend giving an open-ended compliment such as, “That’s a nice bag, where did you get it?” which lets the person know they have a good sense of style and you can then keep the conversation going with positive feedback.

Remember to say something. Anything is better than nothing!

Start by commenting on the other person or the environment, and then sustain the conversation by asking questions and close by getting their phone number.

Sexpert Panel: INTIMATE COMMUNICATION: with Special Guest: Dr. Emily Morse

Our Next Sexpert Panel hosted & sponsored by Loveology University® is Wednesday, June 23, 2021 @ 12PM Pacific Time!

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INTIMATE COMMUNICATION: Before, During and After Lovemaking (with Special Guest: Dr. Emily Morse)

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Wednesday, June 23, 2021 @ 12PM Pacific Time

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Our Panelists Are:
Dr. Ava Cadell, Dr. Emily Morse, Dr. Shannon Chavez, Carol & David, Dr. Megan Stubbs, Dr. Sara Nasserzadeh, Dr. Hernando Chaves

What You Can Expect:

The Sexpert Panel will talk candidly, as if you were meeting face to face over drinks and discuss fully and openly the most intimate details of topics you are interested in.

Best of all, renowned Sexperts will share their wisdom to help ease your concerns, lower your inhibitions and transport you to sexual empowerment.. 

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One lucky attendee will be chosen to win Loveology University’s Certified Relationship Coach Program. A winner will be chosen at random at the end of the event. You must be in attendance to claim the prize.

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Meet our Moderator and Panelists

MODERATOR
Dr. Ava Cadell, Clinical Sexologist, Author & Founder of LoveUniv.com

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Dr. Ava is a Clinical Sexologist and AASECT Certified Sex Counselor, author of eleven books and global speaker (who has travelled to four continents giving lectures on love, romance, relationships, intimacy and sexuality). Dr. Ava is the founder of Loveology University® providing online training to certify Love Coaches, Relationship Coaches and Master Sexperts through a multimedia platform, with emphasis on loving & healing yourself, physically & emotionally, while accepting others’ sexual practices without moral judgement, through comprehensive distance learning.

Dr. Emily Morse, Sex Therapist, Author & Media Personality

Emily Hope Morse is a sex therapist, author and media personality. She is known for her 2012 recurring reality television appearance in Bravo’s series Miss Advised and a four-year run as guest co-host on the nationally syndicated Loveline Radio Show with Dr. Drew Pinsky.

With a Doctorate in Human Sexuality, Emily Morse, is on a mission to liberate the conversation about sex and pleasure. Over the last 15 years, Morse’s work has made her the best-selling author of Hot Sex: Over 200 Things You Can Try Tonight!, a pioneering MasterClass Instructor on Sex and Communication, live SiriusXM radio host and executive producer, and host of the #1 Sexuality podcast on iTunes, Sex With Emily. Morse has helped millions of people around the world navigate their sex lives. Her candid conversations challenge cultural taboos, misinformation and awkward sex talks to create a future where people can deeply connect and embrace pleasure-filled lives. Emily was recently profiled in The New York Times and Forbes. Today, Sex With Emily is the longest-running sex and relationship podcast, and an endeavor that Morse has grown into a thriving media company. SexWithEmily.com

Dr. Megan Stubbs, Clinical Sexologist

Dr. Megan Stubbs holds degrees in Human Sexuality and Biology, Dr. Megan Stubbs is an energetic multi-media savvy Sexologist. She has been building a brand that has sexual wellness, education, and pleasure at the forefront. With her respective degrees in Biology and Human Sexuality, she is able to combine two of her favorite things, science and sex, into a cohesive platform to impact her audience. She is mindful of inclusion and brings a sensitivity to ethnic diversity rooted in her own complex heritage. Her programming is designed to entertain and educate with actionable steps and information the participants can use as soon as they leave. Her first book, Playing Without A Partner: A Single’s Guide to Sex, Dating, and Happiness, is available now wherever books are sold. She is frequently quoted in national media outlets, writes a column in Playboy, appears on television, speaks on campuses across the nation, and hosts private events around the world.

Dr. Hernando Chaves, MFT

Dr. Hernando Chaves holds a B.A. in Psychology from UCSB, an M.A. in Marital & Family Therapy from USD & a D.H.S. Doctorate in Human Sexuality from the IASHS. He is a licensed MFT in CA specializing in intimacy & relational difficulties, sexual concerns & dysfunctions, plus sexual minority communities (LGBTQ+, BDSM, fetish, sex work, nonmonogamy).

Dr. Chaves is an MFT sexuality graduate school professor at Pepperdine University, a past regional president and board of directors’ member for the Society for the Scientific Study of Sexuality, written/consulted for 14 instructional media sex education projects, including co-host for Penthouse’s Sex Academy instructional series & BaDoinkVR virtual reality sex therapy instructional video, and a contributing author to the International Encyclopedia of Human Sexuality.

Dr. Hernando Chaves teamed up with Dr. Ava Cadell to co-host a series of instructional videos called Penthouse Sex Academy on Foreplay, Erotic Massage, Oral Pleasure, Swinging, Anal Pleasure, Masturbation & Sexual Postions

Dr. Sara Nasserzadeh, Certified Sexuality Counselor

Dr. Sara Nasserzadeh is a Registered Supervisor & Senior accredited member of the College of Sex and Relationship Therapists (COSRT) in England and a Certified Sexuality Counselor and Approved Training Provider by the American Association for Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists (AASECT). She is globally known for her contributions to the field of sexual health & relationships at the clinical as well as policy and educational levels. She is the co-author of the award-winning Orgasm Answer Guide and Wheel of Context for Sexuality Education. Her most recent contribution to the field is the Emergent Love model research & the development of a validated Inventory for the holistic assessment of dynamics within a coupledom called Relationship Panoramic ® Inventory.

Her approach is highly informed by her global work across 41 countries. Dr. Nasserzadeh serves at the Advisory Board of the World Association for Sexual Health (WAS) and Co-Chairs the annual World Sexual Health Day (WSHD) event at Stanford University. Dr. Nasserzadeh is the chair of Division VII at the California Psychological Association (CPA) which is dedicated to Diversity and Social Justice. Last week she was honored by the AASECT Professional Standard of Excellence Award, 2021. Her practice is in Beverly Hills, California and she continues to work with clients and colleagues around the country and the world.

Dr. Shannon Chavez, Clinical Psychologist and Certified Sex Therapist

Dr. Shannon Chavez is a Licensed Clinical Psychologist and AASECT Certified Sex Therapist with a private practice, SHAPE (Sexual Health and Pleasure Enhancement) Center in Beverly Hills, California where she provides individual and couples therapy, sex and relationship coaching, and workshops on sexual health and wellness. Her work focuses on adult sex education, integrating sexuality and spirituality, and sexual discovery towards personal growth.

Dr. Chavez helps women, men, LGBTQIA, and couples identify their barriers to sexual wellness and fulfillment, and how to overcome them with the proper education, resources, and skills. She works with various organizations and programs as a presenter, spokesperson, media commentator, and consultant in sexual health and wellness, relationships, and mental health. She also wrote a guide for clinicians on the treatment of love addiction through the use of attachment-oriented psychodynamic therapy – proving she has actually “written the book on it”!

She frequently appears on national news, radio, and media as a sexual health expert.

Carol & David, Radio Hosts, Sex & Swinging Lifestyle Educators

Carol and David are the hosts of The Sexy Lifestyle on VoiceAmerica radio, a leading provider of Internet talk radio. Each week Carol and David, A fun-loving swinger couple, share their own personal experiences with sex, love and marriage. Their show aims to help listeners have stronger, more meaningful relationships through clear communication, pushing boundaries, exploring limits, and fulfilling fantasies. Through uncensored and honest discussions about great sex, passion, and intimacy, gain insight into a sex-positive and female-centric view of the modern-day couple. The show airs every Thursday at 4pm PT on the VoiceAmerica Variety channel. Tune in for their sex tips, wild stories, and live call-in advice about living a happy, healthy, and horny life!

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How Tantric Massage Can Improve Well-Being from a Therapeutic Perspective

Feeling tense or disconnected can wear you down. Tantric massage offers more than just relaxation, tapping into profound therapeutic benefits. This ancient practice could be the key to unlocking a fusion of emotional balance and physical vitality in your life.

Key Takeaways

  • Tantric massage helps reduce stress by lowering cortisol levels, leading to a deep sense of calm and relaxation.
  • It can improve emotional well-being by releasing past hurts and promoting feelings of happiness and peace within oneself.
  • This type of massage enhances physical health by increasing energy flow, reducing pain, and revitalizing the body’s vitality.
  • Tantric practices boost intimacy and connection with partners through shared energy and deeper understanding.
  • Incorporating tantric massage into your life can lead to better mindfulness, self-awareness, spiritual connection, and overall holistic wellness.

Understanding Tantric Massage: What It Is and Its Therapeutic Benefits

Learn about the life-changing effects of tantric massage—a technique rooted in age-old knowledge that offers more than physical calm. It’s an all-around healing method where touch provides profound health advantages for both your body and your thoughts.

Reduces stress and promotes relaxation

Do you know how life can get really busy, and sometimes you feel all wound up? Well, a tantric massage could be like hitting the pause button. It’s kind of like having someone help you breathe out all that heavy stress.

Picture this: during a signature tantric massage session, the masseuse uses mindful touch and helps guide your breathing. This particular combo is excellent for making stress run away and inviting calmness to stay.

As your body starts to unwind with each stroke, there’s more going on than just feeling good. Tantric techniques work magic by lowering cortisol levels—that sneaky hormone that makes us feel stressed.

So not only do you end up chilling out during the massage, but your whole system gets a break from the hustle and bustle, too!

Enhances emotional well-being

Feeling good inside is a big part of your health. Tantric massage helps you relax and feel less stressed. It can also heal old wounds in your heart from bad times or hurt feelings.

When your body gets gentle touches and caring strokes, it’s like telling your emotions that everything is okay now. You start to let go of the heavy things you’ve been carrying around.

This kind of care also wakes up happy feelings inside you that may have been asleep for too long. Your body has pathways for energy, just like roads for cars, but sometimes accidents or traffic jams happen along those roads because of sad or scary stuff from before.

Tantric massage clears up these jams so your energy can flow freely again, making you feel lighter and more at peace.

Improves physical health and vitality

Tantric massage taps into your body’s natural energy. It can wake up the sleeping parts of you and make you feel more alive. Think of it as a way to clear out blocks that keep you from feeling strong and full of life.

This kind of touch helps get your blood flowing, which is good for your heart and muscles.

Tantra practices restore your health’s spark by focusing on the yoni or other key body points. You might notice you’re moving easier, breathing more profound, and feeling better overall.

Your body starts to heal when sexual energy gets a healthy outlet through tantric methods. It isn’t just about fun; it’s like pressing the reset button on your physical well-being.

Sensuality and Connection in Tantric Massage

Explore the essence of tantric massage, where sensuality intertwines with deep connection. It’s an elegant interaction that stirs your whole self, creating a stronger relationship with you—and possibly with a partner.

Promotes intimacy and connection

Tantric massage is a journey that brings you closer to your partner. It’s about sharing energy and creating a special bond. You feel safe, cared for, and connected as you learn about each other in new ways.

This touch isn’t just physical; it reaches deep into your emotions.

As hands move softly over the body, barriers fall away. Eyes meet, breaths sync up, and a silent language of love speaks volumes. Through tantric techniques, romance kindles into an intense closeness that is hard to find elsewhere.

Every stroke stirs energy within both of you – firing up passion and drawing you nearer with every motion.

Heightens sensory experiences

Your senses come alive with tantric massage. It’s like being in a world where touch, sound, scent, and the whole vibe combine to make everything feel more intense. Imagine every part of your body waking up as this special kind of massage stirs up your sexual energy.

You’ll notice things you didn’t before — a gentle stroke becomes an electric wave, and the scents in the room fill you up with warmth.

This isn’t just any massage; it taps into deep parts of you that regular massages don’t reach. As sexual energy flows through you during a tantric session, each sense gets sharper.

You become attuned to the slightest whisper or caress, connecting you to feelings of joy and relaxation that stick around long after the experience is over. This is what sets erotic massages apart – they turn ordinary sensations into extraordinary moments that boost your well-being from head to toe.

Cultivates internal harmony

As you delve into tantric massage, a wonderful change begins inside you. This practice fosters trust, kindness, and understanding. You begin to experience tranquility in your thoughts and emotions. You’re opening doors that might have been shut for quite some time.

Massage brings out the harmony that lives inside you.

Tantric touch aims to deepen connections on all levels—body, emotions, and spirit. It helps clear away what blocks you from feeling happy and balanced. Imagine how it feels when everything inside works together just right; this is the internal harmony tantra can bring into your life.

Through touch and connection with another person, you find a powerful sense of calmness that spreads through every part of you.

The Role of Tantric Massage in a Holistic Wellness Routine

Tantric massage could be your gateway to a more serene mind and body, dovetailing seamlessly with mindfulness practices that foster an all-embracing wellness lifestyle—dive in to discover how.

Mindfulness and meditation practices

You might be curious about how tantric massage includes mindfulness and meditation practices. These elements are essential to fully experiencing the benefits of this profound method.

  • Mindful touch is the heart of tantric massage. It encourages you to pay close attention to each sensation as your body is being massaged.
  • Controlled breathing helps you relax deep into the experience. You learn to breathe in a way that calms your mind and lets stress melt away.
  • Present moment awareness is crucial. During a tantric massage, thoughts about past or future events fade, leaving you in a peaceful state.
  • Energy work goes hand in hand with mindfulness. It teaches you how to feel and move energy within your body for healing and harmony.
  • Meditation during the session lets you reach a deeper level of consciousness, where self-discovery and spiritual connection can flourish.

Healthy lifestyle choices

Tantric massage is not just about the massage itself. It’s also about taking care of yourself.

  • Eat foods that give you energy. Fresh fruits, vegetables, and whole grains nourish your body and help keep you feeling good.
  • Drink plenty of water. Staying hydrated helps all parts of your body work better, including your skin and muscles needed for massage.
  • Get enough sleep. When you rest well at night, you’re more relaxed and can enjoy tantric experiences more deeply during the day.
  • Move your body regularly. Exercise like walking or yoga keeps you strong and helps your energy flow, which is important in tantric practices.
  • Take deep breaths often. Breathing deeply calms the mind and prepares you for the mindfulness part of tantric massage.

Potential benefits for chronic pain and mental health

You might find that tantric massage helps a lot with long-term pain and keeps your mind healthy. Because it lowers stress and calms you, your body can handle pain better.

Your brain gets more rest too, which means you can think clearer and feel happier overall.

If you’re dealing with tough feelings or past hurts, this kind of massage may be good for healing inside. It lets you let go of bad emotions and find peace. You get to understand your feelings better, which makes it easier to deal with hard stuff in life.

How Tantric Massage Can Support Well-Being: A Therapeutic Perspective

Looking at tantric massage from a therapeutic perspective, you’ll find it can recharge your inner vitality and calm emotional unrest. It’s more than just enjoyment—it’s a deep dive into self-exploration and recovery that resonates with both body and soul.

Unlocking pleasure and revitalizing energy

Tantric massage taps into your deep joy and wakes up your body’s energy. Think of it like turning on a switch that lights up your whole self. You’ll feel pleasure spread through you as the massage goes on.

Your body holds onto this happy feeling, then moves it all around inside you.

This isn’t just about feeling good at the moment — it’s about keeping that pep in your step long after. Tantric techniques ensure you’re not just lit up for now but filled with a new kind of get-up-and-go.

Releasing emotional blockages

Moving beyond the joys of renewed vigor, tantric massage is a powerful tool for emotional healing. It helps you let go of deep-seated feelings that might be stuck inside.

This kind of touch therapy makes space for relaxation and stress reduction, key steps in freeing up those trapped emotions.

As you experience a tantric massage, it gently guides you to confront and release these blockages. These can often tie back to past sexual traumas or negative experiences. By working through these barriers, your emotional health gets a chance to improve.

Trust this process — it paves the way for more joy and less pain in your day-to-day life.

Overcoming pain and trauma

Tantric massage goes deep, touching more than just your body. It helps you let go of hurt from the past that’s stuck inside. This powerful approach to healing can break down the walls built by sexual trauma, freeing you in ways you didn’t think were possible.

Many people carry their pain around like heavy bags, but tantric healing gives them hope to set those bags down for good. It releases emotions hiding in your body, letting you finally breathe out old pains and breathe in new life.

Next up is unlocking pleasure and revitalizing energy—get ready to feel alive again!

Cultivating self-awareness and spiritual connection

Tantric massage invites you to dive deep within yourself. It’s like opening a door to your inner world, where you can explore who you are and connect with your spirit. You might find parts of yourself that have been quiet or hidden for too long.

This journey brings out your true feelings and thoughts, giving you a clear picture of what’s inside.

As you become more aware of yourself, something special happens; your spirit starts to shine brighter. You feel a strong tie to the here and now – every breath, movement, and touch helps build this connection.

Tantra teaches that being fully present can free up space in your heart and mind — making room for peace and understanding.

And as we talk about self-awareness – let’s also look at how keeping a balanced life supports these benefits.

Conclusion

You’ve learned how tantric massage can make you feel more relaxed and healthy. It brings closeness and joy into your life. By using it, you can heal emotionally and grow inside yourself.

Think of this massage as a helpful friend on your path to wellness. Embrace it, let the good energy flow, and watch your well-being soar!



One Cock Destroyer Honors Another: The Feminist Sexpert Honors Sophie Anderson

If there ever was a XXX answer to the comedy team of French and Saunders–the brilliant duo behind the unforgettable hit show Absolutely Fabulous–it was Sophie Anderson and Rebecca More; otherwise known as the Cock Destroyers.

Beyond being hardcore porn actresses and content creators, these hilarious, talented ladies were known for their memes, their filmed comedic skits, and even their musical performances–indeed, who could forget that timeless toe tapper, Driving for Dick?

These ferocious femmes always managed to add a distinctly feminist note to all of their adult industry projects–whether their films centered around cuckolding, Clothed Female Naked Male, or even gang bangs, they always conveyed the concept that they were performing to please and satisfy themselves–not just their audience, or their male co-stars. They championed sex and body positivity for women. Also emerging as LGBTQ icons, they promoted the idea of sexual liberation for all, promoting HIV/AIDS research, and appearing often at pride events.

This proved a particular win for Anderson, who by all accounts arose from a troubled history of heinous abuse to grab the bull by the horn (most literally, I guess) and own her sexuality–proudly identifying as a pansexual woman. She and More even produced and appeared in a Netflix sex education video aimed toward the LGBTQ community. And aside from her work with the Cock Destroyers, she served as a team captain on a sex education quiz show. She apparently also co-hosted a reality show that came complete with the noble mission of finding the next Cock Destroyer. The Feminist Sexpert sure wishes that she had known about this program, as she is passing certain that she could have competed and won.

Speaking of the Feminist Sexpert–I once reached out to the Cock Destroyers on social media, just after the premiere of their MEN.Com film, A Tale of Two Cock Destroyers. In this beautifully produced production, the Destroyers portrayed a pair of Victorian-era madams who led and guided a brothel staffed by beautiful young men. These ladies remained fully clothed in their non-sex roles, and in stunning period dresses that would have been quite at home in a Jane Austen period piece–that is, if Jane had been a naughty, saucy chit!

The Feminist Sexpert was most excited and intrigued to view this production, until she read the fine print just beneath the title. A Tale of Two Cock Destroyers, it turned out, was a gay porno–the brothel that served as the film’s setting catered exclusively to men. 

Now I know I’m about to do a major Seinfeld here and echo the sentiment, “Not that there’s anything wrong with that! Not at all!” But I really do mean it–I was not at all repulsed or offended at the concept of a male brothel for men. I would have loved it, however, if my beloved Cock Destroyers had produced a film about an all-male ‘brodello’ that serviced the WOMEN of Victorian England; loosening those stays and ripping those bodices at breakneck speed!

When I wrote to the Destroyers with this idea, even offering to script the film myself, I never received a reply–but to an extent, my idea manifested itself in the form of my newly released novel, Mischief and Mistletoe: Scandal at Holly House.

So once again, two Cock Destroyers inspired a third.

Sophie and Rebecca, both enchanting British lasses, signed off on their videos by saying, “Thas it!”

So that’s it–but there should have been much more.

Sophie Anderson passed away Dec. 4. Sophie, I sincerely hope that your paradise is filled with beautiful men and lots of fun. Rest in power.

Am I Bisexual? My First Ever Girl-Girl Bisexual Experience

Am I Bisexual

For as long as I can remember I’ve had sexual fantasies about women. Even as a teenage virgin I would fantasize about lesbian sex, or threesomes with a girl and a guy. They were hot, but I never labelled myself as bisexual. Mainly, despite my many fantasies, the occasional flirtation with gay girls, and a couple of drunken kisses with my friends, I had never been even close to being with a woman.

Did I Miss Out?

I got into a long-term relationship with a guy when I was 21. I had no idea that when I met him that I would end up marrying him. And that those few years before I met him would be all the time I had to experiment. Had I missed out? Should I have had more sex with men, been with a girl, maybe had a threesome before I settled down? Maybe so.

The fantasies didn’t stop just because I was married, but it wasn’t something I dwelled on or really talked about with anyone. Maybe in a healthier relationship it could have been something we discussed, and it could have been hot to experiment together. But that wasn’t an option for us. I know he would have been shocked and would not have reacted well if I told him I wanted to experiment with girls, or even have a threesome which for many guys would be their number 1 fantasy.

No-One Knows I’m A Lesbian

bisexualWhen a friend picked out a T-shirt for me when out shopping with the slogan ‘No one knows I’m a lesbian’ I found it funny. How did she know? Maybe she just sensed it.

My marriage fell apart in my early thirties. And I finally found myself free to do whatever I wanted again. I could see who I wanted, have sex with who I wanted, and I felt liberated. However, when I started dating again it was still only with men. I would occasionally switch the settings on tinder to show me both men and women, and I would look at the profiles of girls near me. But I didn’t have the confidence to swipe right.

I guess I was nervous. As a teenager I was very shy and pretty useless around men. Most of my sexual experiences had been awkward or I was drunk. But now I was much more confident in myself, and having plenty of great sex with men. With women I felt like I was starting over. Would I do it right? Would I like the taste of pussy? Would they be able to tell I’d never done it before? And for a while I suppose I found it easier to stick to what I knew I was good at.

I was tempted by offers of threesomes by kinky couples, but never quite had the courage to go through with it. I would go to gay bars with friends, and chat away to queer girls, some of whom were in open relationships with guys, and their lifestyle appealed to me. But nothing sexual ever happened. I began to wonder if I was just bi-curious and if I would ever actually have to confidence to just go for it.

Am I Bisexual? Butterflies In My Stomach

I’d been single about 18 months by the time I eventually matched with any girls on tinder. Just as with guys, I would chat a bit but often nothing would come from it. When I finally set up a meeting with Sarah in a cocktail bar, I got butterflies in my stomach. I was really doing this.

Sarah seemed the perfect match for me. She was bi-sexual and in a relationship with a guy. But he was cool with her seeing women. I was hesitant to date girls who wanted a relationship as I wasn’t sure what I wanted and didn’t want to lead anyone on. I had no idea what was in store for our first date, but I shaved everything, just in case!

I waited nervously in the bar, I’d bought her a drink, she was late. I wondered for a minute if I was going to be stood up. But 20 minutes later she rushed through the doors flustered and apologizing. She was cute. The conversation seemed to flow, and it was nice. I was quite new in town and hadn’t many girlfriends. If anything, hopefully I could just make a friend. I wasn’t sure exactly how to tell if she fancied me, or how this could progress to something else. But when she leaned over and brushed my hair out of my face and tucked it behind my ear, I felt a little rush of chemistry.

Hookup in the Ladies Bathroom

Shortly after she said she needed the toilet and asked if I wanted to go with her. I wasn’t sure if she just wanted some girly company or if she had something naughtier in mind. But I agreed. The bar was fancy and the toilets were downstairs in the basement. Dark, and beautifully styled, with flowers between the washbasins, it wasn’t the usual gross public restroom you encounter, it was quite sexy. I could tell by now that she definitely was into me, and after 3 or 4 drinks I was relaxed enough to just got for it.

Once the restroom was empty, she kissed me. It felt strange kissing someone so much shorter than me! It was a great kiss, and I kissed her back pushing her up against the washbasins. But then she took charge and took my hand, taking me into one of the stalls and locking the door. She told me to sit, which I did, and she pulled down my panties…

I totally hadn’t expected my first bisexual experience to be sex in a public restroom! But it was so hot! Although having to be quiet when others came in was a struggle. So, a few days later I invited her around my place so we could do our thing without holding back. Needless to say, the worries that I had beforehand were totally unfounded.

Am I Bisexual?

Am I BisexualAm I bisexual? Yes. It’s not something I feel I need to tell everybody about. Each person’s journey is different and I still don’t really feel the need to label myself or ‘come out’ to every person I meet. However, if anyone asks, I’m totally open about it and happy to share my experiences.

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Do you wonder, “Am I bisexual?”. Visit the Biresource for more bisexual resources.

“Bisexuality is romantic attraction, sexual attraction, or sexual behavior toward both males and females, or to more than one sex or gender. It may also be defined as romantic or sexual attraction to people of any sex or gender identity, which is also known as pansexuality.”Wikipedia

Soft Morning Erotica

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Soft Morning Erotica

As the first rays of dawn gently pierce the low-lit ambiance of my sanctuary, I invite you to join me in an awakening of the senses that’s as educational as it is erotic. bathed in the tender morning light, my bedroom becomes a sacred space where inhibitions melt away and the pursuit of pleasure is not just encouraged but celebrated.

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In this 10-minute journey of self-discovery, I guide you through the delicate art of arousal without penetration. My fingertips dance across my skin, exploring the map of my erogenous zones with the tenderness of a first touch. The sensual glide of lubricant sets the stage for an exploration of sensations, as I introduce the gentle hum of my vibrator, gliding it over my curves, never rushing, always savoring.

With my collection of toys – from the smooth caress of wax to the tantalizing slide of latex – I demonstrate how pleasure can be both a science and an art. This is not just masturbation; it’s a masterclass in self-love and intimacy, a testament to the power of our own touch.

No deep thrusts here, only shallow teases that promise to ignite your imagination. I’m here to teach you that sometimes, the softest touch can unlock the most profound pleasures. This is a space where trauma can be transcended, and where every touch is a lesson in the language of desire.

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Whether you’re seeking to reclaim your pleasure or simply wish to expand your erotic horizons, let this be your awakening. Let the warmth of my embrace and the rhythm of my breath be your guide to a world where every sensation is heightened, and every moment is an opportunity for growth and gratification.

Don’t miss this chance to indulge in a sensual time that will leave you yearning for more. Celebrate the work of pleasure and the dopamine rush of true intimacy.

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The Art of Sensual Touch: A Guide to Tantric Massage

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A tantric massage is a form of touch that has been practiced for thousands of years and is rooted in the ancient traditions of Tantra. This form of massage is more than just a physical experience; it is a mindful and intentional practice that can be a powerful tool for enhancing intimacy, pleasure, and spiritual connection.

In this guide, we will explore the art of sensual touch and how to give and  receive a tantric massage.

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Setting the Mood

Before you begin a tantric massage, it is essential to set the mood. This means creating an atmosphere that is relaxing, comfortable, and conducive to intimacy. This can include dimming the lights, lighting candles, playing soft music, and using scents such as essential oils or incense.

It is also important to create a space that is free from distractions, such as phones or computers. This will allow you to be present and focused on each other.

Preparing the Body

To prepare for a tantric massage, it is essential to create a sense of relaxation and comfort in the body. This can involve taking a warm bath or shower, practicing deep breathing, or engaging in gentle stretching or yoga.

It is also important to communicate with your partner about any physical or emotional boundaries, preferences, or concerns. This can help to create a sense of trust and safety, which is essential for intimacy.

Exploring the Body

A tantric massage involves exploring the whole body, not just the erogenous zones. This can include the scalp, face, neck, shoulders, back, arms, hands, legs, feet, and genitals.

It is important to approach each area with care and sensitivity, paying attention to the body’s responses and needs. This can involve using a variety of techniques, such as gentle touch, firm pressure, or circular movements.

Communicating with your partner throughout the massage can also help to ensure that you are both comfortable and enjoying the experience.

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Techniques and Tips

There are a variety of techniques and tips that can enhance the experience of a tantric massage. Here are a few to consider:

  1. Slow and Steady: Take your time and move slowly, allowing your partner to fully relax and enjoy the experience.
  2. Vary the Pressure: Use a variety of pressures, from gentle to firm, to stimulate different areas of the body.
  3. Use Your Whole Body: Use not just your hands, but your whole body to provide touch and pressure, such as using your arms, chest, or legs.
  4. Experiment with Temperature: Try using warm or cold objects, such as warm oil or ice, to provide different sensations.
  5. Pay Attention to Breath: Encourage your partner to breathe deeply and focus on their breath, which can enhance relaxation and pleasure.
  6. Build Anticipation: Tease and build anticipation by alternating between a light touch and firmer pressure, or moving from one area of the body to another.
  7. Explore the Whole Body: Don’t focus solely on the genitals or other obvious erogenous zones; explore the whole body to discover new areas of pleasure.

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Benefits of Tantric Massage

In addition to enhancing sexual pleasure, tantric massage can have a variety of physical and emotional benefits. These can include:

  1. Relaxation: Tantric massage can be deeply relaxing, helping to reduce stress and tension in the body.
  2. Improved Circulation: The stimulation of the whole body can increase blood flow and circulation, which can have a variety of health benefits.
  3. Enhanced Intimacy: Tantric massage can help to build trust, connection, and intimacy between partners.
  4. Emotional Healing: The mindful and intentional touch of tantric massage can help to heal emotional wounds and promote self-love and acceptance.
  5. Sexual Healing: Tantric massage can also be a tool for sexual healing, helping to overcome sexual trauma, shame, or dysfunction.
  6. Increased Body Awareness: Through the exploration of the body’s erogenous zones, tantric massage can increase body awareness and help to cultivate a deeper sense of self.
  7. Increased Sensuality: By exploring the senses and focusing on touch, tantric massage can enhance sensuality and pleasure in all areas of life.

Conclusion

A tantric massage is a powerful tool for enhancing intimacy, pleasure, and connection between partners. By creating a relaxing and comfortable atmosphere, exploring the body’s erogenous zones, and using a variety of techniques and tips, you can give and receive a tantric massage that is both pleasurable and healing.

Remember to communicate with your partner throughout the experience, respecting their boundaries and preferences, and paying attention to their responses and needs. With practice and mindfulness, the art of sensual touch can become a valuable tool for enhancing your sexual and emotional well-being.



‘Bro’dellos: The Feminist Sexpert Explores the Concept of Brothels for Women

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What’s a ‘Bro’dello?

We as women have come a long way, Baby–and, in doing so, we’ve learned so many new ways to come!

Back in the 1960s, when men got to enjoy their own nifty little sexual revolution, women basically served coffee at the event. At that time, no one could imagine the concept of male exotic dancers who catered to women, femme porn, women’s literary erotica, and male companions for women. Yet with the 1970s came the Chippendales and LaBare, with the 1980s came the release of the film American Gigolo and the arrival of a number of exotic male companions who catered to women. And throughout these decades, women’s written erotica has become a multimillion dollar industry–and, finally, the porn industry is catching up.

Yet in the world of women’s sexual liberation, we have one final frontier to conquer: the male brothel for women. Or, as the Feminist Sexpert would very much prefer to call them, brodellos!

Many people still insist that ladies are simply not interested in the concept. This despite the fact that a number of popular romances have concerned the topic of ‘houses of pleasure’ directed at women; from Kathryn Harvey’s Butterfly (1989) to Lynne Kaufman’s Slow Hands (2003) to my own Under Cover of the Night (2008)–as has a popular femme porn film, Inpulse’s Erection Services (see what they did there, Folks?).



Around 2010, some concrete plans were set into motion to at least integrate male employees into the staff rosters of legal brothels in Nevada. Yet these facilities reported low turnout among female customers, and folks jumped to the conclusion that, while they might see male companions in private, women simply weren’t interested in going out in public and seeking erotic pleasure at public facilities. Um, have these folks ever been to a male strip show? A swingers club? A showing of Magic Mike?

I believe that a legal, ethical male brothel for woman is a workable business model–one that is not without precedent. At least two of these establishments have found great success in South Africa, for example. Yet it must be done right. Read on as The Feminist Sexpert tells you how to run a safe and successful “Brodello” for Women!!

1. The Brodello Must Be an Establishment that Offers Men Only for Women Only

Many women are not going to feel safe or comfortable venturing alone into a brothel teeming with men in search of female providers. They need to step into a safe space shared with and hopefully operated by other women, staffed by a wide selection of beautiful, respectful men devoted to their pleasure. 

2. The Brodello Must Be Ethically Operated.

Like any business establishment, the ‘bro’thel should be ethically and legally operated, with absolutely no abuse, human trafficking, dangerous working conditions, secret filming, or disrespect allowed.

3. The Brodello Must Be Beautiful

A classically designed home would be the best setting, designed in a feminine style and clean-lined, attractive manner. Fantasy suites would also be a plus. Want to dress up as a female gladiator or empress, while lots of inordinately handsome servants and harem dudes dance to your attendance? Go ‘head. The Feminist Sexpert won’t judge.

4. The Brodello Must Be Secure.

All staff members should undergo a complete screening prior to their hiring, to ensure that they are safe and healthy, discreet and gentle. By the same token, a staff member should always have the discretion to end an appointment if they feel unsafe or uncomfortable.

From the pages of erotic books to the frames of adult films, brothels for women have existed for years in the dark corners of the female imagination. Yet, with any and all things related to female sexuality, it’s time for the ‘brodello’ concept to see the light of night!

 

 

The “5 Steps to Become A Certified Relationship Coach”

Have you ever thought about helping people find love?  What about expand their love life to the next level?

I decided to become a coach back in 2008.  I took the certified Love Coach program and it changed my life and started me on a career that allows me to help singles, couples and all types of relationships.  I have over 14 years under my belt and it was the best investment I could have ever made.

I have been practicing over 14 years and work with clients all over the world, most on zoom, phone or email.  I have my own practice in Yuma, AZ and online at Lady T Coaching

As an Ambassador to Students at Loveology University, I mentor all of the students on their journey before, during and after they get started.

Dr. Ava Cadell and myself have reintroduced the Masterclass Training program to invite potential coaches a chance to see what it takes to coach on love and relationship.

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