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Recently, an Indian friend of mine told me that her parents posted a profile of her on a number of Indian dating sites in the U.S., or “Indian Matrimonial Websites”, as they are called. But her parents didn’t care about what the guys looked like; all they cared about what what the men did for a living.
On the Indian dating site www.shaadi.com, there is an actual chart that lists available men by their professions. This is for parents who can eliminate the “middle management” IT guy and go right for the three professions most coveted in India: 1) Doctor 2) Lawyer, and 3) Dentist.
Meanwhile, a dating app from London called Happn, conducted a survey which rated the most attractive jobs people could have according to gender. Here are the jobs that made the “sexy” cut:
If one was to look up the phrase kickass woman in the dictionary, one would probably find a beautiful photo of Goddess Lilith–an esteemed and revolutionary singer on the metal scene who also shines on the adult scene as a woman to be reckoned with–and the Feminist Sexpert reckons that we ladies need to support Lilith as She embarks on yet another leg of Her auspicious musical career.
This award-winning, internationally renowned, and bicoastal Dominatrix, Luxury Mistress and Fetish Model, Certified Life Coach, Reiki Master, and Author Goddess has made a name for Herself as lead singer of the goth metal band Sorrowseed, which rocks audiences around the world–as powered by one of the mightiest and unmistakable female vocalists on today’s music scene.
Now Lilith begins an exciting new phase of Her career as the lead singer of MURTAIR, a heavy metal band ready to release a five-song EP that inspires listeners to thrash with its hard groove and electronic elements. Her fans, slaves, and supporters are encouraged to support the band’s Kickstarter campaign, where funds raised will cover the vocal recording, mixing, and mastering the EP, artwork, printing 250 limited edition EP, digital distribution, and camera rental and location costs to make the music video.
“Murtair is more brutal than Sorrowseed,” She said. “This EP is about taking back what has been taken.”
In essence, though, Goddess Lilith’s music always has told the stories of survival. Demeter’s Reckoning, a cut from the Sorrowseed recording The Extinction Prophecies, tells a tale of ethereal revenge, in which a goddess of the earth and seasons takes vengeance for the abuse of our environment.
“When I think about it, it’s all interconnected,” She said. “The way we treat the environment, the way we treat women. We should take better care of them.”
Lilith is a woman with a lot to say–and She generally sings it. Goddess Lilith is, in fact, a classically trained vocalist who holds a Liberal Arts degree with a focus in dramatic arts from Harvard.
“I’ve been singing since I was a toddler,” reveals Lilith, who plays piano, guitar and other instruments. “I always wanted to imitate my heroes.” These heroes range from Nirvana to Joan Jett.
Goddess Lilith now has many fans of Her own, both in the musical sphere and owing to Her role as a premiere dominatrix.
“I’ve always liked to lead men around on leashes, so why not do it professionally?” She said with a smile. “I’ve always been dominant in my personal life.”
She has graced the pages of Hustler’s Taboo and Malevolent, AltStar, Beckett Online Gamer, ASN Lifestyle, and 420 zine Skunk magazines.
Goddess Lilith has received many accolades, including Footnight International’s Most Captivating and Fascinating and Top Trampler Awards, as well as Best Female Cam Performer at the 2018 and 2019 Fetish Awards, and Fan Favorite Alt Visual Arts Book of the Year from the 2021 AltPorn Awards. She’s also scored numerous nominations from Fetish Awards, Footnight International, AVN Fan Awards, XBIZ Cam Awards, Fleshbot Awards, AltPorn Awards, YNOT Cam Awards, and Fetish Awards.
On-screen work, teaching, and event organizing reign as Her true passions. In 2018, She introduced New England’s first recurring FemDom Event ExaltedFemdom.com and hosts foot worship parties newenglandfootfetishparty.com.
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Goddess Lilith says that She has faced blowback in the music industry, both because of Her strong persona and Her career in the adult industry. Yet nothing stands in the Goddess’ way; and in the future, this force of nature stands to take the world by storm.
“I want to teach much more in the future,” She said. “And I want to be of service to women.”
Let us now serve the Goddess by supporting The MURTAIR Kickstarter campaign. Goddess Lilith welcomes pledges in any amount. Backers can choose to get no perks and give generously to the project or pledge $5 or more to get an EP. Funds raised beyond the initial goal will go towards merchandise and a second music video. Make this project happen and pledge at https://bit.ly/3CPd8iE.
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Aftercare – Aftercare is the emotional and physical care administered when a scene is over. Proper aftercare may be used to prevent a drop.
Consent – Agreeing to certain acts in a BDSM scene or relationship and maintaining it throughout the interactions. Practitioners believe that consent is what separates BDSM from assault.
Contract – An arrangement that outlines the rules and structures of a BDSM relationship. It written or oral.
Dungeon – A location where BDSM play takes place (usually in a person’s home or at a club).
Fetish – An obsession with a specific experience, body part, or object. Usually required for a “release” to take place.
Kink – A relationship with an experience, body part, or object that arouses you but is not necessary to reach release.
Safe, Sane, and Consensual (SSC) – This phrase describes what the BDSM community considers ethical behavior. Kink enthusiasts stress that activities must always be safe, sane, and consensual.
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I received the Namii™ by Biird for a product for review. First, I have to say the packaging was beautiful. It is eye catching, and the box was unlike anything I had ever seen. The artwork on the packaging was phenomenal.
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When I opened the box, I was excited to see the design and the charger. Again, very innovative and unlike any product on the market. I have seen hundreds of products with my over 30 years in the industry and this item had me super excited.
The Namii™ by Biird, is a new 2-in-1 clitoral stimulator that comes with both suction and vibration functions that can be used independently or at the same time. The great thing about this toy, it is hands-free! It comes with a wireless magnetic charging base that serves as a mood lamp. It let’s you know when it is fully charged when the light goes off.
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The Namii’s suction feels like you are receiving great oral sex and makes you orgasm within minutes. It gives you that leg shaking orgasm with or without a partner. With its 5 suction intensities & 5 vibration patterns it fulfilled my every want and need after the first use. It is fully waterproof & whisper quiet, smooth, squish, body-safe silicone and has an amazing mood light charging base.
Biird is a female-led pleasure positive brand from the Netherlands. Their mission is to dispel the taboo surrounding sex toys and other products designed specifically to make you feel good. They are the 2022 winner of the European Product Design Award.
They were a big surprise to the industry and after working with industry-leading pleasure brands for more than 20 years, they’ve come to know the restrictions and barriers placed on sex toys all too well. The crafted beautiful sex toys, made with only the highest quality body-safe materials and have made them affordable and available for everyone to enjoy.
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Grief is not a linear journey, and its impact ripples through every part of life — including sexuality and intimacy. For many who have experienced the loss of a partner, spouse, or someone deeply loved, the idea of sex after grief can feel complicated, confusing, or even impossible. There may be moments of longing, guilt, numbness, or even surprise desire. All of it is normal. All of it is human.
This article is an honest exploration of what sex after grief can look like. It’s not about rushing healing or following a prescribed timeline. Instead, it’s about offering gentle guidance, compassion, and permission to explore pleasure and connection again — in your own time, in your own way.
In many cultures, grief is treated with reverence but also with silence — especially when it comes to sexuality. The notion that someone who is grieving may desire physical touch, intimacy, or even sex can be met with judgment or misunderstanding. This stigma creates shame and suppresses conversation, leaving those in mourning feeling alone in their complex emotions.
But sex and grief aren’t mutually exclusive. They can coexist in complicated, powerful, and even healing ways.
Desire Doesn’t Die with Your Loved One
One of the most confusing aspects of grieving is the reemergence of sexual desire. For some, it returns quickly. For others, it may be months or years. In either case, the emotions tied to desire can be overwhelming.
You may feel guilt: “How can I want sex when they’re gone?” Or anger: “I miss them so much, and now I’m stuck with this aching need.” Or confusion: “Why do I want this now? Shouldn’t I be past this?”
The truth is, desire is part of being alive. It doesn’t mean you’re “over” your loss or betraying your loved one. It means your body and spirit are still seeking connection — and that is deeply human.
Just as some people feel a return of desire, others experience the opposite — a complete shutdown. You may feel detached from your body, uninterested in touch, or even repulsed by the idea of intimacy. This is a valid response to trauma and emotional pain.
Your body is protecting you. And that’s okay.
Give yourself grace. You don’t have to “fix” anything. You are not broken. Whether it lasts weeks or years, you are still worthy of love and comfort, in whatever form feels safe.
Pleasure as a Healing Tool
Pleasure can be an anchor in the storm of grief. Not as a replacement for your loved one, but as a gentle reintroduction to your own aliveness.
Solo exploration — through touch, breath work, erotic reading, or sensual self-care — can be a non-threatening way to reconnect with your body. For some, masturbation becomes a form of grief expression, a release of emotion, or a small act of reclaiming joy.
There is no need to rush into partnered sex. But if and when you’re ready, it’s okay to communicate that you’re grieving — even if you’re also curious, aroused, or ready to be held. Openness, even in vulnerability, creates safety.
Navigating New Relationships
Starting a new sexual or romantic relationship after loss can feel like crossing into unfamiliar territory. The fear of forgetting your late partner, the worry of comparison, the emotional floodgates — it’s a lot. And it’s real.
Be honest with yourself and with others. You’re not starting from scratch; you’re moving forward with a heart full of memories. A new connection doesn’t erase the past — it adds to the mosaic of your lived experience.
If you’re dating again, give yourself full permission to go slow. Let conversations about boundaries, intimacy, and emotions unfold naturally. Choose partners who can hold space for your truth.
If sexual grief feels overwhelming, intrusive, or paralyzing, you’re not alone — and you don’t have to carry it alone. Therapists, especially those trained in grief, trauma, and sexology, can offer insight and support.
Joining grief support groups (some specifically for widows/widowers) can normalize your experience. Speaking your truth aloud helps to reduce shame and expand your capacity for healing.
Permission to Feel Everything
You are allowed to grieve and still want. You are allowed to cry during sex. You are allowed to feel nothing, and then suddenly, everything. You are allowed to laugh, to touch, to hold, to moan, to explore. You are allowed to live — even with loss woven into the fabric of your being.
Grief doesn’t end. But it evolves. And so can your relationship with your body and your pleasure.
Final Thoughts
Sex after grief isn’t about “moving on.” It’s about moving with — with your memories, with your emotions, with your tenderness.
Whether your path includes solo pleasure, new partners, or simply the courage to feel again, know this: you deserve intimacy. You deserve touch. You deserve joy.
When you’re ready, it’s there. Waiting with open arms.
Seduction and romance are in the air come that special day in February. And where better to get some suggestions for Valentine’s Day than from the fabulously seductive and smart sexy dancers of one of the world’s top strip clubs, Rick’s Cabaret New York.
“Lots of us girls will be stripping out of red lingerie during Valentines week; my suggestion is that guys and girls both buy sexy undies to model for each other,” Rick’s dancer Miranda says.
“Chocolates and champagne make the day,” Vanessa says. “Make sure you have plenty on hand.”
“It’s certainly a good night to introduce something new in the bedroom,” says Rick girl Kelly. “As far as what…well, use your imagination!”
“In the club, our guests show their appreciation by ‘making it rain’ over us,” dancer Tanya says about the time-honored tradition of throwing cash at strippers. “Valentine’s Day should be when you show your lover you really appreciate them.”
“Hey, why not come to the club?!” says Rick dancer Fiona. “Rick’s is celebrating Valentine’s Day for the entire Valentines week, and our celebrity chef, Jayson Margulies, is creating all sorts of exquisite desserts. What better place to bring your honey or come in looking for one?”
There really is no excuse to make this Valentine’s Day the best you have ever had, or even to get yourself down to the NASDAQ-listed, mid-Manhattan Rick’s and celebrate getting your heart on.
In recent years, home pleasure parties have gained popularity as a fun and intimate way to explore and discuss sexuality, relationships, and self-care. These gatherings are more than just an opportunity to shop for adult products; they provide a comfortable and educational environment for open conversations about sexual wellness.We will look into the world of home pleasure parties, exploring why they are worth hosting and attending.
One of the primary reasons people choose to host and attend home pleasure parties is the safe and comfortable environment they provide.When it comes to discussing and exploring one’s sexuality, privacy and trust are paramount.
Home pleasure parties are typically hosted in a private residence among friends or acquaintances, creating a non-judgmental atmosphere where participants can openly discuss their desires, ask questions, and learn about products in a relaxed setting.This safe space can be particularly valuable for those who may feel uncomfortable in traditional adult stores or discussing sexual topics in public.
Home pleasure parties offer more than just the opportunity to purchase adult products; they are also educational events.Knowledge is power, and understanding one’s own body and the products available can be empowering.
Trained consultants often lead these parties, providing information about sexual health, anatomy, and various products. This education empowers individuals and couples to make informed choices about what works best for them and can enhance their sexual experiences.
Strengthening Relationships:
Exploring one’s sexuality and preferences can be a great way to strengthen relationships. Home pleasure parties provide a unique platform for couples to discuss their desires, fantasies, and boundaries in a supportive setting.
This open dialogue can lead to a deeper understanding between partners, improved communication, and the discovery of new ways to connect intimately. Couples often find that home pleasure parties not only reignite the spark in their relationships but also lead to increased trust and intimacy.
Discovering New Products:
One of the central elements of home pleasure parties is the opportunity to browse and purchase a variety of adult products. These products range from intimate toys to lubricants, massage oils, lingerie, and more.
At a home pleasure party, participants can see, touch, and ask questions about the products, allowing them to make informed choices based on their preferences and desires. The experience of physically handling these items and learning about their features can be much more informative than simply reading online reviews.
Privacy and discretion are often essential when it comes to adult products. Home pleasure parties provide a discreet and confidential way to explore and purchase these items.Unlike walking into a store, where you might encounter acquaintances or feel self-conscious, home parties allow for a low-key shopping experience. This discretion is particularly valuable for individuals who prefer to keep their intimate matters private.
Building a Supportive Community:
Home pleasure parties have the added benefit of fostering a sense of community. Participants often find that they can connect with others who share similar interests and concerns.These gatherings create a space where people can share experiences, offer support, and learn from one another. The sense of belonging and understanding can be especially valuable for those who have felt isolated or uncomfortable discussing their sexual needs and desires.
Celebrating Self-Care:
Self-care is a vital aspect of overall well-being, and that includes sexual well-being.Home pleasure parties encourage participants to celebrate self-care by exploring their desires and making choices that enhance their sexual experiences.This focus on self-care aligns with a broader movement emphasizing the importance of self-love, self-acceptance, and self-discovery.
In conclusion, home pleasure parties offer a unique and valuable opportunity to explore sexuality, relationships, and self-care in a safe, comfortable, and educational setting.They provide a forum for open discussions, empower individuals and couples, and offer a discreet way to discover and purchase adult products.
For those who are looking to strengthen their relationships, connect with a supportive community, and celebrate self-care, home pleasure parties are an excellent choice.Whether you’re considering hosting one or attending as a guest, these gatherings can be both enjoyable and enlightening.
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Whereas porn once was considered an industry in which women were seen and not heard, today’s adult industry is–like many professions and life in general–a place of change and evolution, and (dare we dream. Ladies?) actual friggin’ progress. Today more and more women are directing, producing and writing adult films, presenting their ideas, their fantasies, their messages for a new and enlightened audience of all genders, races and sexualities. Also out there–and outspoken–are the performers who demand better treatment on set, and who are unafraid to express their ideas and desires in contribution to the creative process.
And then, of course, there are the female writers, editors, publicists and journalists that also make their views and voices known in today’s adult industry–like, for example, The Feminist Sexpert! And in my role as a writer, columnist and commentator, I shall not rest until every single woman working at every level of the industry has a voice and makes it heard. Loudly. And that includes the customer service representatives who sell adult products.
This message came to me loud and clear years ago, when–in a professional capacity as a marketing rep for a leading feminist porn company, and because I wanted to look at some smut–I visited a small adult store in a working class suburban area of Tampa Bay, Florida.
A sole woman was working behind the counter at this store, which–until the moment of the Feminist Sexpert’s momentous entrance–seemed to be drawing a mostly male clientele on the day of my visit. A lovely young woman in her early 20s, the clerk looked on with wary eyes as a man popped his head out of a corner viewing booth and barked, “The film needs changing!”
“Please,” the young woman finished his sentence for him, rolling her eyes heavenward as she trudged forward from behind the counter to change the ever-lovin’ film so Mister could get on with his own private enjoyment.
Once she was free, I asked if she could show me the shop’s selection of erotic books and films for women. Immediately she brightened, and she happily gave me a tour of the corner of the shop custom made for the female porn fan. I told her that I was an industry writer, and she showed great interest and enthusiasm as she asked about my work and projects.
I reciprocated in kind, handing her the microphone as I asked her about how she–herself an industry professional–felt about the movies she sold.
Immediately her features darkened, and she raised a firm finger as she declared, “Some of these guys who make movies, I simply cannot support.”
“Please tell me who,” I urged her, “I’m in the industry, and your opinion matters to me.”
I’m tellin’ ya; at that point, this gal seized the mic, amped up the volume, and made her voice known. And how.
As the unleashed lioness unloaded verbally on certain directors who–in her estimation–abused and degraded women, I took mental note of the names she mentioned; at the same time also noting the facial expressions of the male customers who filled the shop around us.
To sum up, these expressions pretty much ranged from annoyed to out and out petrified.
“My work here is done,” I summarized.
Of course, not all of my interactions with adult customer service reps have revolved around the negative aspects of porn. I remember back to my early days as a fan, getting home from the late shift and dialing up the Adam and Eve customer service line; ordering the prized femme porn that would relieve the stress of a full day’s work.
Nearly 100 percent of the time, the customer service agents with whom I interacted were women–ladies whom I engaged in lively conversations about their favorite adult films and the hunks of the genre. Soon we enjoyed a phone-based slumber party filled with laughter and warmth–and not once did I order any of these lovely ladies to “Change the film!”
More recently, I saw an enlightening YouTube video about how to act in an adult video store. When I shared my favorable response to the comments of the female clerk who appeared in the video, one male viewer advised me me to “Oh, just shut up.”
Aw, Folks, doesn’t he know he’s only encouraging the Feminist Sexpert? Because my work here is far from done.
I love, love, love the energy and healing I get from attending a Cuddle Party. I hear so many different things about the experience and I can firsthand tell you that the experience you have is up to you. First, no one is having sex at a Cuddle Party. There are boundaries that are adhered to by all attendees. There are some rules and they are respected. I have never had a negative event, so I am a fan of cuddling.
I want to become a facilitator for Cuddling Parties. It takes training and there is a foundation that offers a weekend program that includes coaching, CPR, and facilitator skills. I would love to add this to my resume of services that I offer my clients. A cuddle/puddle is an experience designed to allow people to experience non-sexual, group physical intimacy through cuddling. Of course, you must ask permission and receive an energetic yes before you touch anyone. You can change your mind at any time. You don’t have to cuddle anyone at a Cuddle Party, ever.
The environment is cozy, and the pleasure comes from the release of oxytocin! It helps when there is soft music and munchies. It is necessary to tell you that there should be no intoxicants. The only high should be natural. You should be clear-minded and open to receiving the energy from the puddle. At the end of the event, there is a closing “ceremony” that includes a conversation of thoughts from the event. As a facilitator, I love the thought of helping individuals open themselves up from the benefits of Cuddle Parties.
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Participants are often in a state of cuddle intoxication at the end. Feeling a sense of connection with the group that they never would have anticipated at the beginning of the event. Folks are free to exchange hugs, phone numbers and receive thank you’s from the facilitator for making the cuddle party special. I think that could be so fulfilling. So here is what I have experienced at cuddle parties that may sway you to try it. The first thing you do is change into pajamas.
Oh, and clothing matters. Wear something that is not risqué. Something comfortable not sexy. Think no lace, no shorts but drawstrings. Bring a pillow or anything that makes you feel safe and comfortable. There was no liquor, and everyone seemed lucid. There was sparkling cider and water to go with fruit and crackers. The setup was very calm and inviting. We sat in a circle until we began to connect with others.
We created a welcome circle where we were all welcomed to create the structure and safe space for socializing. We were able to introduce ourselves and we played a get to know you game that allowed me to sync with the environment. We were taught the cuddle party philosophy. What I saw was participants cuddling in groups, as two and some talked and didn’t cuddle at all. We were told that we could feel free to be feet against feet, give full-body hugs, head rubs, spooning… it really was up to me to decide what I wanted from the group. I had the best head rubs! It was relaxing and I must admit, I slept better.
All during the experience, the facilitator participated with us. Encouraging us to feel relaxed and supported and having a great time. I got oriented to the rules as we moved through a very organized process of exchanging energy and staying in the moment. I felt comfortable to cuddle in my comfort and I carried on a few great conversations with other participants. Lying down while being held allowed me to fall into my thoughts and feel safe to explore what was heavy on my mind. Some self-reflection so to speak.
As I write this, I am getting excited about being a facilitator. I am that happy with my experiences, I want to offer this to others. Cuddle Parties serve a purpose. As an Orgasm Coach, I believe attending a Cuddle Party will give clients an opportunity to feel something different. To learn something about themselves sexually. To experience something that is pleasurable, but not sexual. is an experience. Cuddle Parties happen all over, you can invite one into your home by finding a facilitator in your area. You have got to find a Cuddle Party in your area. I hope reading this you will find yourself wanting to play.
