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8 Myths About Sex & Aging Baby Boomers Should Know

By
Amie Harwick
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With the baby boomer generation reaching retirement, the United States is seeing more active adults than ever,   so understanding how aging impacts sexually and intimacy is crucial – and it’s not all negative! There are benefits and positive aspects of being sexually active while getting older too. Here are eight common myths about sexuality and aging, and the facts that prove them wrong.

Myth #1: Older people do not have sex

In an article by Loren Stein, M.A. called “Sex and Seniors” in 2015 it was stated that “among 45- to 59-year-olds with sexual partners, some 56 percent said they had sexual intercourse once a week or more. Among 60- to 70-year-olds with partners, 46 percent of men and 38 percent of women have sex at least once a week, as did 34 percent of those 70 or older. “ Therefore, the sexual drive doesn’t shut off, it just slows down a little with age. The idea that adults reach a certain age and just shut down sexually is completely false. Older age does lead to a reduced frequency of sexual behaviors but does not mean that there is a cessation of sexuality or sensual desire.

According to the research published by the National Survey of Sexual Health and Behavior in 2010, about half of adults ages 50-80 have engaged in sexual intercourse within the year that they were surveyed. Women over 50 years old engage in 5% less intercourse per year as they age and 7% less giving or receiving oral sex per year.   Men over 50 years old have a yearly decrease in both intercourse and oral sex by 8%. In a study done by Karraker, A., DeLamater, J., & Schwartz, C. R. (2011), they found that the reason for the decline in sexual behavior was not aging, but other life factors that happened with getting older.   Women showed a decreased frequency of sexual behavior when widowed, for example, and men showed a decrease of sexual behavior with the increase of health issues.

Myth #2: Aging adults cannot get pregnant

The general opinion from the medical community is that once a woman is post menopausal, she is unable to get pregnant, but the times and duration of menopause vary for many women, causing the post menopausal age to range. Due to advancements in fertility treatments, women can take medications that allow pregnancy to occur much later in life. The oldest women to give birth was 70 year old named Rajo Devi Lohan in India. Several women in their 60’s have given birth in the early 2000’s with the help of In Vitro Fertilization. While pregnancy is more difficult for an older women, it is not impossible. Women have lost about 90% of their eggs by the age of 40, leaving a very slim possibility for pregnancy, but while the eggs have an expiration date, the uterus does not. According to an interview with Dr. David Adamson with Medical Daily, “The bottom line is that the uterus can function just about until the death of the woman”. While the oldest mother to conceive naturally was 59, INF, or In Vitro Fertilization, is an option at all times. There are ethical concerns about becoming a mother at an older age such as maternal mortality rate, illness during aging, and overall ability to care for a child. The United States will not allow a child to be adopted to a women over 50 for those ethical reasons.

Myth #3: STI rates must be low in older adults

According to the Benjamin Rose Institute on Aging, the rate of Sexually Transmitted Infections in the over 50 population in the United States is growing at a faster pace then the population of people under 40.   There are many reasons for this rise in contracting STIs among this generation. First, the baby boomer generation is aging, creating a large population of people over 60. Second, new trends in medical advancements with performance enhancing drugs are causing an even higher rate of sexual intercourse with people as they age. Third, there is rising number of mid-life divorces. These newly single middle aged and older adults are now looking for dates online through websites, and even mobile apps. This quick method of connecting has caused more availability to date, more access to partners, and ultimately more sexual behavior. Lastly, these individuals may have less sex education than younger adults.   If they were in a marriage for the first part of their lives, they did not have partners other than their spouse at the start of the HIV/AIDS crisis. The use of barrier protection and other methods of contraception were far less widely used years ago. Therefore, if these newly divorced individuals are behaving in the same sexual way that they did when they were younger, they will be at a higher risk of contracting a sexually transmitted infection. Because older women have less concern about getting pregnant, they may not prioritize barrier methods to protect against infections.

Myth #4: Older women do not desire sex

Many people feel that as women age, specifically in a marriage, that they lose all sexual desire. This is not the case.   As mentioned, women, as well as men, have a slight decrease in the amount of sexual behavior as they age yearly after 50.   Women still have the ability to feel sexual and intimate desire throughout their entire life. As women reach menopause, their naturally produced estrogen decreases, causing less natural lubrication during intercourse. This is a common issue and many physicians prescribe estrogen creams to insert vaginally, or simply recommend an over the counter personal lubricant. While desire may decrease, desire also ebbs and flows. Many reasons that women report feeling less sexual with age has to do with cultural pressures, emotional issues within a relationship, self esteem, and medical problems.   The North American Menopausal Society states that desire is a combination of drive, beliefs, and motivation. While drive is biological and may be impacted by hormone change over time, beliefs and motivation are psychological and able to change based on perception. Women have a lot more control over their sexual desire while aging then previously though.

Myth #5: Older men have constant Erectile Dysfunction

Just as it may be a common assumption that women lose all sexual desire as they age, many believe that it is a natural occurrence for men to have erectile dysfunction as they age.   While more men experience erectile dysfunction at older ages as opposed to younger ages, it is not a natural part of aging. Only 5% of men under 40 experience erectile dysfunction, but 44% of men in their 60’s have experienced it.   According to research done at Harvard Medical School, the reason for this is that erectile dysfunction reflects the impact of the chronic diseases that are common with age.   The most important are atherosclerosis and hypertension, which affect blood vessels, and diabetes, which strikes both blood vessels and nerves. Medications that older men take can interfere with sexual function, including some that treat high blood pressure, heart disease, anxiety and depression. In addition to medical causes, about 30% of erectile dysfunction stems from a psychological cause. Aside from ED, there are other changes that do naturally occur with men’s erections as they age.   Their erections may not be as firm, and foreplay may need to be extended to allow longer time for a satisfying erection.

Myth #6: People over 50 don’t have casual sex

The divorce rate for people in the middle and later stages of their lives has increased with the aging of the baby boomer generation.   This new population of single adults in their 50’s through their 70’s has created a more sexual group of aging adults. 23% of men over fifty that are having sex report that their most recent sex partner was with a “friend or acquaintance”. Women over 50 report casual sex about 13% of the time.   There is also a growing number of adults over 50 that enjoy a relationship with a “friends with benefits” dynamic. Especially for much older adults, getting married, or remarried, may not be the goal. They report wanting to enjoy the intimacy and companionship, but without the need to create a family or other aspects that are typically the goals of younger adults. One reason why many people think that older adults do not age engage in casual sex is that it is a topic that people do not talk about. Terms such as “dirty old man” and “cougar” stigmatize and degrade the sexuality of sexual older adults.   Increased cultural dialogue about aging and sexuality will increase awareness and reduce stigma.

Myth #7: Urinary Incontinence causes older adults to have accidents during sex

Some older adults experience urinary incontinence which impacts sexuality.   This can cause feelings of shame or discomfort and get in the way of the possibilities of great sexual experiences. Women that struggle with incontinence experience coital incontinence 10% to 27% of the time. There are several reasons why urine may leak during a sexual encounter. Pressure on the abdomen can cause leakage of urine during sex. Other reasons include overactive bladder, weakened pelvic floor muscles, and complications of prostate issues, including prostate cancer. While women have reported loss of urine throughout the duration of the sexual encounter, older men have reported loss of urine during foreplay. A study by Guay, A., and Seftel, A. (2008) showed that 38% percent of older men that had no daytime incontinence had experienced a loss of urine during foreplay.   While this is an issue that can have an effect on aging adults, there are solutions to not let it hinder enjoyable sex.   One can prepare for sex by avoiding large amounts of fluids before being sexual and putting down a towel for a precaution.   Talking about it reduces feelings of shame and secrecy. An older couple can experiment with different positions that are less likely to put pressure on the bladder, such as rear entry and side by side positions. Women and men can be proactive about their pelvic floor muscles by practicing kegel exercises. If a man or a women uses catheters for incontinence, there are several options available to incorporate this during sex.   A catheter can be bent and taped to create room for intercourse.   Some couples find that eroticising the catheter use reduces shame and increases pleasure.

Myth #8: Sex is dangerous for older adults

Aging by itself does not cause a danger. The potential risks for older adults are when they have fallen out of shape or have developed a medical condition or disability, but this also does not make sex dangerous or impossible. Older adults that struggle with high-risk conditions should exercise precaution, just as they would with any other physical activity that they want to engage in. Because older women tend to suffer with lower bone density post menopause, it may not be advisable to engage in acrobatic sex.   Men with high blood pressure or heart conditions should exercise caution when having long duration or highly aerobic sex.   Older adults who have a disability can modify their practices and setting to support a healthy sex life such as having bed modifications or using sex aides and toys.   But the bottom line is that sex for older adults can be enjoyable and satisfying.

 

 

How To Talk About Sex Before You Have It

By
The Frisky Fairy
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So you’ve found an awesome partner (or partners), and you want to have sex with them, but you don’t know where to start. Maybe this is the first time you’ve ever had sex, or the first time you’ve had sex with your partner(s). Maybe this is a casual encounter, or maybe you have concerns about STIs and protection. If you’re not quite sure how to talk about sex with your partner(s) before you have sex, this entire conversation can be a source of stress and anxiety.

The ideal sex talk can be broken down into two parts. The safer sex portion, which covers your basics on how you and your partner(s) protect yourselves, and also how you intend to move forward when having safer, more risk aware sex. The second part though is the part of the talk where you discuss what you like and dislike in bed. Both are very important to bring up before you have sex, and both can be very awkward. I am here to break down the two parts!

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Part I- The Safer Sex Talk:

Reid Mihalko uses an “Elevator Speech” when it comes to having a talk with someone about their STI status that I highly recommend. Practice it in front of a mirror, or with a friend over and over until you know what you’re going to say. It may seem awkward at first, but it’s surprisingly useful. This speech also covers talking about what you like and dislike in bed!

If you have an STI, talking to your partner(s) can be an even bigger source of stress, but it’s just as important to have these discussions. Ashley Manta of Sex Ed with Ashley Manta prefers a more straightforward approach. Let your partner(s) know what STI you have, your STI treatment plan, and asking them what questions they have about their transmission risks.

If your partner(s) tells you that they have an STI, be kind, and know your limits. It’s completely acceptable to turn someone down if you are unable to be with a partner(s) with an STI, but be kind about it. Many people who have STIs already feel high levels of shame about sex and their bodies, there’s no reason to make anyone feel worse. A simple “Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your honesty. Unfortunately, I am not comfortable having a sexual partner(s) with an STI” will suffice. Make sure that you’re honest about your expectations, and what you are able to handle.

Talk to your partner(s) about their STI status, and be prepared to share yours. If you prefer to wait to have sex with a partner(s) until you have a hard copy of their most recent STI test in hand, be prepared to let them know that, and also have a copy of yours ready to go! Make sure that before you start having sex with anyone, that you think of the ways you want to protect yourself. Do you want gloves for digital stimulation? How about finger cots, Do you need a specific type of condom? Make sure you know what forms of protection you want to have with you, and then make sure you supply your own! It’s great when a partner(s) brings the safer sex supplies, but it’s always best to have the supplies you use and want, just in case they don’t.

Part II- The Sexier Sex Talk

This is the easier part! Simply be honest with your partner(s) about what you like. If you know you don’t like being on top, let them know that ahead of time. I like to try and anticipate things I might experience with a partner(s) in that specific circumstance. For instance, my casual sex partner(s) might need to know that I like having my nipples played with gently, but probably doesn’t need to know that I enjoy being flogged.

How to talk about sex 2

Be specific and direct, and let your partner(s) know how you react to things you don’t like in bed. Are you the type of person who, when your partner(s) is doing something you don’t enjoy, will be vocal about telling them you’d prefer something different? Tell them. Do you physically correct your partner(s) by moving their hands or body into a different direction? Tell them. Make sure you talk to your partner(s) about your likes, dislikes, and habits before you have sex and ask about theirs! You can always change your mind while you’re in the moment, but talking about them before sex means that you have mutual knowledge of the things you enjoy. No one needs to be having bad sex when we can all just communicate!

How Many Dates Before You Do It? Survey Says…

By
Anka Radakovich
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Match.com asked over 5,500 singles about their dating habits including how many dates seemed to work out the best before they have sex. And the magic number was…five!

According to their “Single’s in America” survey”, 35% of people reported the “highest level of happiness” in a relationship that started with sex on the fifth date. So if you want your online dating to end up in a relationship, just keep it closed down there until the magical fifth date. If you are just looking to hook-up for a one-nighter, of course, then the number of dates doesn’t matter. Surprisingly though, 25% of both men and women reported that their one-nighters actually turned into relationships. Good news for those hooker-uppers out there.

By the fifth date you can see more what the person is actually like. By this time you should know if they are nice, if they are a jerk, if you feel comfortable with them, if they seem interested in what you are interested in, and most importantly, if there is something majorly wrong with them.

By that time, you have given yourself a chance to see if they have some of things you are looking for, if he is a gentlemen, if he/she is fun, is he/she is ambitious, or whatever qualities you are looking for in a person. And at least if you wait until the 5th date, you can tell if they have a creepy personality disorder before you sleep with them.

In my own dating life, the weirdest things always happen to me on the first date. Always. Like one guy in a surprise attack stuck his finger up my back door in the back seat of a NYC cab–on the way to to our date; before we even kissed! I was like “What are you doing?” and he was like “I’m fingering your butt” This was a new one: what should I call it?; “finger date rape?” “non-consensual digital penetration of my asshole by an asshole?” I never made it to the second date with him, let alone the fifth date. But afterwards, he emailed and asked me to connect with him on LinkedIn.

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Is Phone Sex Important in a Long-distance Relationship?

By
Valeriam Vincent
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Anyone who happens to be in a long-distance relationship is going to have to spend a whole lot of time experimenting with phone sex. It’s not just important; it could actually be the most important part of it. Any relationship out there is going to have sex as its most important element. When you’re not together, that sex has to come in the form of phone sex. There’s a reason that Bustle dedicated an entire page to how to have it, after all. No matter how long you’ve been together, the time is going to come when you have to express your sexual desire for each other. That’s when the importance of phone sex is going to become clear and you’re going to wish that you knew more about it than you do. It’s best to start investing some time in your phone sex skills as soon as you enter into a long-distance relationship. That’s the best way to make sure you’re ready when the time comes and you can give your partner something they love. Here are some ways to make it as hot and steamy as they really deserve from you.

Listen to the experts

The very first thing you have to do is make time to listen to what the experts have to say on the subject. It’s a great idea to find out how men like to do it as well as how women like to do it. Both are going to have their own likes and dislikes, as well as having different things they like to focus on. Women’s Health Magazine has a very good piece about engaging in phone sex without making it as awkward as it can be. You’re also going to want to know how to go about showing off the good stuff while you’re engaged in your play.

This woman knows all about posing for sexy photos and is willing to share her secrets. No matter what kind of approach you decide to use, the best possible thing for you to do is to make sure you’re letting yourself enjoy every last bit of intimacy that you can share with your partner. That’s what it’s all about, after all. You can’t be together in person, so you have to be together over the phone. Let yourself go and enjoy it just as much as you would be enjoying actual sex.

Practice with the pros

If you’re not great at phone sex, or if you’ve just never gotten the experience that makes you good at it, there’s one thing that you can do to improve your skills. You have to practice with the pros. Get yourself onto a site like Arousr and have some fun with the people there. It’s always full and you’ll never have to spend long looking for someone who wants to play with you. These women know exactly what they’re doing and they always have a good time while they’re doing it. You have the ability to find the kind of girl you’ve always wanted to have sex with or you can make her look just like your partner. It’s completely up to you and what you feel like in the moment.  The important part is that you pay attention to what they’re doing and why you’re enjoying it so much. This is a top-of-the-line phone sex experience and you can learn a lot just by engaging in it. The best part is that you can keep coming back again and again until you figure it all out. Once you get back to having it with your partner, you’ll be able to blow her mind.

Try it any time you want

Phone sex is going to be an important part of your long-distance relationship. The better it is, the better your relationship will be. Don’t wait for someone else to tell you that it’s time to try it out. Be the first to bring it up and get the phone sex going. You don’t have anything to lose. If you initiate it, you’re probably going to be shocked at how receptive your partner happens to be to it. She’s going to let you know how much she likes it by the way that she lets it happen and throws herself into it. Women enjoy phone sex just as much as men do and they’re never going to turn it down when they can’t get the real thing from you. Just show her what you have and impress her with the skills that you’ve honed on the other girls. It will keep your relationship flourishing for as long as you happen to be together but separate. Enjoy it while it lasts and doesn’t hold anything back from her at all.

Who You Date vs Who You Marry

By
Erika Jordan
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Have you guys seen the show on Netflix called Sex Life? I binge watched it! A suburban Mother’s attempts to settle for a life of stability and comfort after years of wild passionate craziness. Can you relate? 

You’re wild, you’re passionate, you have wild kinky fun and do shit you don’t want your mother to know about. But then you get to a certain part of your life and you feel the need to get it out of your system and settle down with a nice girl. The girl from the church book club wasn’t appealing last year why do we suddenly think that is who we should settle down with? 

This societal norm could be contributing to our high divorce rates. If you are passionate, sexual, wild and crazy. Why do you think it’s just a phase? What is wrong with incorporating that passionate fun into your life? Why do we feel we cannot have love, family and stability without eliminating the kinky passion we once lived for?

In my years as a Love Coach I have encountered numerous men who were unable to settle down, slept with multiple women in a week, and avoided commitment like the plague. Yet they got to a point in which they felt it was time to settle down and then instead of choosing a female similar to the ones they were attracted to they seek out a completely different type. The good girl. The girl their mom wants them to marry. Two years later they are cheating and unhappy.

I understand the logic. Insanity is someone who dates the same type of person over and over again expecting different results. Someone who is good for fun might not be good for a long-term relationship. But to go in the complete opposite direction of what excites you is a recipe for disaster. There is a middle ground!  Yes, you can have it all. 

Most of us want the comfort and safety of a long term relationship while still wanting to hold onto the excitement of our youth. Trying new things together, leaving your comfort zone, and communicating your desires and fears can help relationships maintain their passion. 

One of my favorite suggestions for couples is to write a list of things you’d like to try together. Perhaps it is a sexual list, perhaps it isn’t. Try to come up with at least 10 activities each and have them approved by your partner. You can’t decide to have a threesome or go skydiving with an unwilling participant. Write each one on a piece of paper, fold them up and put them in a jar. Once every other week close your eyes and take one from the jar. Routine can be comforting but it can also lead to boredom. We humans have a need for certainty but we also have a need for uncertainty.

My six week course, The Art of Pick Up, is now available with personalized guidance at Playmatepickup.com. Acquire the skills to approach women with confidence and get them to want you

Erika Jordan is a world renowned Love Expert and NLP practitioner 

Chocolate to Sex Up Your Holidays

By
Dr. Ava Cadell
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If you’re planning to have a holiday party, be sure to include chocolate or take a box for the host or hostess, as chocolate can increase sex drive and sexual satisfaction. According to a study in The Journal of Sexual Medicine, just one cube of chocolate a day can raise your libido!

You can even use individually wrapped chocolates as game pieces to make your board game even more fun.

If you just want to share this aphrodisiac with your lover, then hide a dab of chocolate sauce on your body while your lover is blindfolded and tell them to find it using only their tongue. Or give them a sensual massage using some edible chocolate flavored body cream.

To sex up a home cooked dinner, for desert feed each other a variety of chocolate treats as a prelude to making love.

Still not convinced that this deeply rich, flavorful substance is associated with love?

Here’s some history that might convince you otherwise.

When the Aztecs drank chocolate back in the fifteenth century, they believed in its power to elevate sexual power and vitality, likely because of its calming serotonin properties and mild stimulant effect. They would offer it to newlywed couples at wedding ceremonies, and use it as an aphrodisiac.

After the Spanish brought it back to Europe in the sixteenth century and added sugar and butter, a whole new world of chocolaty delights was born and became abundant around the world for consumers.

By the 20th century chocolate was being produced in millions of different forms to titillate our taste buds.

Why chocolate is good for the body:

Chocolate is good for your physical health as it offers the same health benefits as vegetables and fruits, namely flavonoids that act as anti-oxidants. These same flavonoids also produce nitric oxide, which can help to reduce high blood pressure and lower the “bad” LDL cholesterol. Chocolate also contains theobromine that can increase heart rate and contribute to overall heart health.

You may be interested to know that chocolate cocoa has eight times the number of antioxidants found in strawberries.

Chocolate is also rich in vitamins such as B1, B2, D & E, as well as potassium and magnesium, so it does a body good.

How chocolate works on the mind:

Eating chocolate can increase the pleasure center of our brain and links to the positive experiences via the hippocampus as it possesses phenylethylamine, part of a group of chemicals called endorphins, which make us feel like we are on a natural high!

Chocolate also releases neurotransmitters such as Dopamine and Serotonin that can work as an anti-depressant and make us feel like we are happier or even in love!

The caffeine found in chocolates can act as a stimulant to make you feel more energetic or awake, so it’s a great foreplay food that can help boost your energy and focus on making passionate love to your lover.

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Try a chocolate fountain at your holiday party this year!

Pandemic May Be Good For Your Dating Life

By
Erika Jordan
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Things suck right now. I normally like to look at things positively and I am a fan of the lack of traffic. But I’m right there with you in saying, I miss being able to do things. BUT dating isn’t on hold until there is a vaccine. Pandemic may be good for your dating life. Sure, there is currently an added challenge to what is already a challenging situation. But do we just go home if our freeway ramp is closed or do we reroute and head to next ramp?!

There’s a lot of guys whining right now about how they “weren’t doing well before the pandemic. And now they literally think I have the plague UGH I’m never going to get laid.”

First of all you should have taken my six week course, The Art Of Pickup, and acquired the skills to approach women with confidence and leave them wanting more. And you still can so get in the game.

Second, you’re antisocial and awkward, the pandemic is literally a godsend for your love life! Now you can take the time to think before you respond. All the women of the world have taken to the Internet to find love and you happen to have Wi-Fi!

You can control your image while showcasing the great. Remember to leave out the fact that you collect and burn your toenail clippings, which by the way is really weird and paranoid.

Things are finally working in your favor. If you’d like help setting up your profile and choosing images I’d be happy to do so. Check out The Best Online Dating Profile.

Otherwise, when you start talking to a girl online and you’re ready to meet. Remember we are in a pandemic but it’s just like adding another STD to the mix. Except you can catch COVID-19 even if she just blows you a kiss. Keeping that in mind have an open conversation and if either party has been taking risks there are testing centers everywhere. Some even have 30 minute results! Schedule a test before the date to put her mind at ease.

She’ll be swooning before the waiter brings the barcode that you need to scan to get the menu as you sit outside in the parking lot. I don’t know about you but I’m in Los Angeles and we’re only allowed to eat out if we’re sitting outside. It’s a good thing we have perfect weather!

The point is you don’t have to get a stray cat just so you have someone to cuddle. Before the pandemic lots of people were using dating websites and apps but now EVERYONE is online dating. This is your time to shine baby so find an outdoor hair salon, get rid of that caveman look and start a profile! If you would like help I’d be happy to do so!

Come find me at PlaymatePickup.com My six week course, The Art Of PickUp is available with personalized guidance at Virtual Sexpert.com. Acquire the skills to approach women with confidence and get them to want you!

How To Choose the Best Adult Webcam Sites

By
Adonis
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The advancement of technology has made adult entertainment accessible to many people. It has also led to the development of unique ways of giving people sexual pleasure and fun. With a touch of a button, you can chat with beautiful girls and hunks online and enjoy some quality time through adult sex cams.

Most people love logging into adult webcam sites to relax after a long tiring day. Getting the right person to communicate with on various adult topics is like a downhill task. It’s the reason adult model cams are popular today. You can find the best adult webcams in the article reviewed by Clevescene.

With the best adult webcam site, you can enjoy chats on various sexual topics and watch many exciting sexual activities virtually wherever you are. But how do you find the right adult webcam site?

Fortunately, there are many places to find mature sex cams. But if you want to enjoy the best out of the website, you need to choose the best. The followings are ways to help you pick a premier adult cam site.

1. Check the Site’s Purpose

There are various types of adult sex cam sites. Some specialize on a few specific topics, while others incorporate all sexual activities. You will save time and money by joining a site with everything you are looking for rather than moving to multiple webcam sites offering a service you want.

Also, if you require an in-depth on a specific activity, it would be better to go for adult model cams specializing in that topic only. Such sites go the extra mile to offer detailed information on the subject matter.

For instance, looking for adult webcam sites featuring specific models and locations like the Latinos. It wouldn’t make sense to join a site offering otherwise.

If you are an adult model, you will need to figure out first the sex cam site you want to be part of. What you want to give to your audience or gain from the site will help you pick the right platform.

2. Choose your Preferred Audience

Whether you are a model for adult sex cams or a visitor, you need to consider the number of people you will relate to before joining. Are you looking for a charming girl or handsome guy to sex chat with or have fun? Do you want to offer your services to a large number of people at once?

Also, consider the type of audience to chat to or engage. Will the audience make you feel shy, awkward, or uncomfortable? You wouldn’t enjoy an adult website when engaging with the wrong person.

3. Use a Budget

Most premier adult model cams come at a cost. You will need to pay for a specific membership to access some information. Others have a trial option where you can use the website for some days for free to see if they suit your needs.

After the expiry date of the free version, access becomes limited. Your only way in is to choose among the membership plans given and pay.

If you don’t have a budget, you can go for the free adult sex cams. Some are credible, but most of them lack safety features to protect your information, exposing you to scams. Choose an adult webcam site that is within your budget.

4. Check their Privacy Policy

Some adult model cams will expose your every detail to other people and platforms you wouldn’t want. That’s why it’s essential to consider adult webcams with measures in place to protect your privacy.

Some adult webcam sites are known to use their clients’ information to scam or defraud them. Other adult models have damaged their reputation and relationships due to exposure to the wrong places without permission.

As a sex cam model, people may steal your content and use it for their benefit. Choosing a secure adult website is a must.

5. Check Site’s Reputation

Most adult sex cams with a good reputation are excellent and secure. To find such a site, search for them on the internet and check their reviews. What are people saying about the camera, adult software used, the quality of videos and photos, etc.?

Consider adult model cams with positive reviews and a good rating. It’s also a great idea to ask the experts. Let them recommend the best sites for you, then check them out.

You may also have friends or family members with experience with adult webcam sites. Inquire from them the website to choose. Please make a list of all the recommendations and go through them. Then decide what suits your budget and needs.

6. Consider Your Location

It’s essential to consider your location before choosing a mature webcam site. By knowing where you are, you can pick a sex cam that offers services from within. It also becomes easier to hook up with such an adult model.

If looking for online adult entertainment from a country other than yours, it’s wise to check if the site features that location before joining. Some platforms have adult models from all over the world. Such a site is ideal for a person looking for adult entertainment from various kinds of people.

7. Sites Usability

You wouldn’t want an adult webcam site hard to trace what you want. Consider an easy-to-navigate and use site. Can you find what you are looking for instantly?

Also, consider the software used. Is it fast and easy? Some quality websites allow you to see how the chat is going. You may spend hours locating the videos or photos you want on some sites, wasting time you would have used to enjoy the content. In the end, you become stressed out and nervous instead of having fun and pleasure.

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Kissing Rules: Top 10 Tips and Techniques for the Perfect Kiss!

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Dr. Ava Cadell
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Is there such a thing as a bad kiss? You betcha! A kiss is usually the first intimate physical contact with a new lover, so you don’t want to turn them off. I believe that you can tell a lot about a person’s lovemaking skills by the way they kiss. So, if you want to impress your date with a magical memorable kiss, then check out the ten kissing rules and use them as a guideline on how NOT to kiss.

1. No forcing – only kiss those who want to be kissed.

2. No judgment – never criticize your partner’s kissing technique.

3. No tongue shoving – play nice, as tonsil hockey is a sport best left for the ice.

4. No biting – be considerate and do not leave a hickey unless requested.

5. Start softly – lead the way and build up to a wet passionate French kiss.

6. No drooling – suck it up before you start kissing.

7. Good breath – be prepared with mints, gum or breath spray. Would you kiss an onion? Neither will they.

8. No chapped lips – moisturize with lip balm to keep them soft, supple and kissable.

9. No slobbering – wiping your mouth and chin should not be part of kissing.

10. No lip-smacking sounds – a little pleasure moaning can go a long way, but lip locking and smacking sounds can kill the romance.

You can become Certified in Kissing and learn dozens of kissing tips, techniques, games and original styles online by taking Loveology University®’s Kissing Course.

Valentine’s Test: How To Find Out If You Have A Keeper This Valentine’s Day

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Dr. Ava Cadell
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How do you know if the person you’re dating is a keeper?

I get this question all the time from clients, conference goers – even from friends. And when Valentine’s Day comes around, many people are drawn to evaluate their relationship compatibility and happiness.

There’s something about watching a sea of couples descend upon local restaurants, bars and bistros that makes you wonder, “Are they happy?” and then comes the inevitable, “Are we happy?”

In order to help couples evaluate their relationships more easily this Valentine’s season, I’ve come up with a list of questions that will not only provide food for thought, but might even initiate a communication breakthrough. It always amazes me how couples can go for weeks, months, even years without diving deep and connecting on core values, beliefs and goals. I’ve even counseled newlyweds who are shocked to discover they don’t agree on whether or not to have kids.

You don’t need to barrage your lover with all 50 questions at once, but scan the list for the ones that stand out to you. For example, maybe you already know how your partner likes to relax, but you’d love to know when they last had a good cry, or what they consider their most prize possession.

This list is good for couples who have just started dating, or are in a relationship. Going through this list with your lover helps you learn more about each other, opens up communication and creates intimacy.

Explore these Valentine’s Day compatibility questions together:

  1. What is the worst thing a past date could say about you?
  2. What is your most precious possession?
  3. List the best qualities you have to bring to a relationship.
  4. Do you think you need to make any personal improvements? If so, what?
  5. What are your biggest fears about relationships?
  6. Who has been the most influential person in your life and why?
  7. Apart from your appearance, what is the first thing that people notice about you?
  8. What is one thing that people do not notice about you right away that you wish they would?
  9. What are 3 things that you cannot live without?
  10. What is your definition of intimacy?
  11. What was the most fun date you ever had?
  12. What is your favorite way to relax?
  13. What disgusts you?
  14. When was the last time you cried?
  15. What do you like to spend money on?
  16. How much money do you need a year to be comfortable?
  17. How would you describe a perfect date?
  18. What 3 qualities must your partner have?
  19. What is the worst habit that you have?
  20. What would you do if you and your partner had a mismatched sex drive?
  21. Describe yourself in one word.
  22. What makes you angry?
  23. Would you say that you are more dominant or submissive?
  24. Who or what do you love?
  25. What do you feel is the biggest success you have achieved in your life?
  26. How many times have you been in love?
  27. Would you rather your partner was funny, seductive, smart or nurturing?
  28. When do you feel most vulnerable?
  29. What lessons have you learned from past relationships?
  30. What is a relationship deal-breaker for you?
  31. What was your most embarrassing relationship moment?
  32. What is your favorite part of your body?
  33. What’s your favorite romantic, sensual or sexual activity?
  34. What makes you believe that you are ready for a relationship?
  35. What turns you on?
  36. What turns you off?
  37. What’s the best compliment you’ve ever received?
  38. What’s the most hurtful criticism you’ve ever received?
  39. Are you fanatical about anything?
  40. What is the biggest failure or drawback you have ever experienced?
  41. Can you overlook anything from your partner’s past?
  42. Do you have any inhibitions?
  43. What do you love about yourself the most?
  44. What are you not willing to change for a relationship?
  45. What do you think are the benefits of being in a relationship?
  46. Do you believe in monogamy?
  47. How do you feel about having kids?
  48. If we have kids, what would your parenting style be?
  49. What would you do if your partner became physically disabled?
  50. What scares you?

Try Self-Discovery Instead:

If you’re feeling nervous about launching into this kind of couples’ self-discovery, try answering the questions just for yourself at first, and see what comes up for you. Grab a journal and write down your answers to whichever questions pique your interest, and let your feelings flow freely, without judgment. Insight into your own opinions and personal choices can only help foster clarity within the relationship, plus you’ll be one step closer to opening up a mutual dialogue and taking your intimacy to new heights.

May all your Valentine’s wishes come true!

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