Best Sex Toys For Long Distance Relationships

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July 9, 2020

I’m Erika Jordan certified love and health coach and NLP practitioner. Some of you might be in a long distance relationship. And some of you might be self isolating and your lover happens to be 3 miles away so it kind of feels like you are in a long-distance relationship. Whatever the case maybe I’ve got you covered with my top three most mind blowing sex toys for those of you in long-distance relationships or basically anyone because these toys are awesome.

Lovense is a long distance sex toy manufacturer. I call them that because all of their toys connect to an app, meaning that either you or your partner can control the sex toy from thousands of miles away. This means you can make your partner have an orgasm while she struggles through a zoom meeting or while walking the dog. Incorporate a bit of sexy talk maybe some imagery and you’ll be loving life with all the possibilities that come with app controlled sex toys!

Top 3 most mind blowing sex toys for those of you in long-distance relationships!

•1 The Hush is a vibrating butt plug. I really like this one because it has a stronger vibration than the majority of other butt plugs currently on the market.

•2 Lovense also has a masturbation sleeve which is controlled by your partner! The Max 2 has vibrations and constrictions so it’ll feel like your partners giving you a hand job from anywhere in the world!

•3 The Moxie is a wearable clitoral vibrator by We-Vibe. Much like the Lovense toys this little piece of heaven can be controlled from anywhere with the We-connect app. The Moxie is designed to be worn discreetly underneath your clothing and stays in place with a magnetic clip. Providing powerful but quiet vibrations so it can be worn out and about, to the grocery store, to Target, the post office, restaurants or anywhere else! Spice up your trip to the DMV while reigniting the spark in your relationship!

Long-distance couples need to be more aware of each other’s attempts to connect. We need love and affection no matter where we are. Just thinking “I’ll see them in 3 months” will only lead to your partner feeling neglected and possibly ending the relationship before you have a chance to show her how much you appreciate her. If you’ve scheduled a time to talk with your partner, make that call a priority, just as you would any work meeting or doctor’s appointment. If your partner has an important day, call or text to find out how it went. By weaving your partner’s needs into your day, you’ll demonstrate that you’re there for them, no matter how far apart you might be. Long distance relationships are tricky but they can work and even lead to a stronger relationship when you’re back to being in the same area code.. or home!

Stop settling for mediocre!

Since dating will need to be creative for awhile check out Erika Jordan’s advice in How Dating Will Be Forever Changed By Covid-19

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Erika Jordan’s ‘Advice For Men’ – Get Her Off Her Phone & Into Bed

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September 13, 2018

I’m a licensed Loveologist and health coach and I’ve got some great advice for men on how to get a woman OFF THE PHONE and into bed.

We’re all distracted by our phones, but what is she looking at? Can you engage with her? Or better yet, can you create a no-phone day for some lusty romance instead? Let me know in the comments below how it works for you, because your sex life suffers when you can’t get her off the screen!

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Champagne Bath What Are You Waiting For

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Erika Jordan

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January 1, 2021

Today I am gonna blow your mind! You know how things that taste good or feel good are usually bad for you? Like Twinkies and bacon.. WELL!!!! Have you tried a champagne bath? Champagne contains resveratrol, a potent antioxidant that can act as a shield against damage and provides serious anti-aging benefits. Champagne can be used as a toner to help promote clear skin. The polyphenols found in champagne help reduce inflammation and skin redness, while the tartaric acid evens out tone. Mind blown.

This sounds cool and all but what does this have to do with relationships or sex?! A few weeks ago I was shooting a custom video in which I had to pour 2 bottles of champagne on myself. The bubbles felt like a light electricity on my skin. Insanely arousing.. so I immediately wondered why I had never incorporated this into my sex life and I dug in!

Of course if we filled an actual bathtub with a sugary champagne, although decadent, we could end up with a yeast infection or a UTI. Most of the champagne baths you see online are made to look like champagne with a foam on the surface and water underneath. Although you can find spas and hotels that offer champagne baths. I recommend taking a shower afterwards. Back to bubbles of electricity on my skin. The sensation of the bubbles dancing on my skin was truly magical. I highly recommend you incorporate this trick into your sex life to keep things sexy!

For more of that tingling sensation listen to Erika Jordan with How To Get A Woman To Touch You.

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Erika Jordan

Certified Love Coach, NLP Practitioner

What Is A Sexpert

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Erika Jordan

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March 25, 2020

You have seen the word “Sexpert” on the TV, in magazines and plastered all over social media. But what is a Sexpert and do you need one? Love coach and NLP practitioner Erika Jordan breaks it down for you in her new video. Coaches are common throughout school, as are mentors in work life. Some even use a life coach so why not a coach for your dating and sex life. If you have a sex or dating question comment below.

If you are wondering if sex on the first date is advisable in your situation. Erika Jordan has your answer in ‘Advice for Men’ Should You Have Sex On The First Date.

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Who You Date vs Who You Marry

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Erika Jordan

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August 14, 2022

Have you guys seen the show on Netflix called Sex Life? I binge watched it! A suburban Mother’s attempts to settle for a life of stability and comfort after years of wild passionate craziness. Can you relate?

You’re wild, you’re passionate, you have wild kinky fun and do shit you don’t want your mother to know about. But then you get to a certain part of your life and you feel the need to get it out of your system and settle down with a nice girl. The girl from the church book club wasn’t appealing last year why do we suddenly think that is who we should settle down with?

This societal norm could be contributing to our high divorce rates. If you are passionate, sexual, wild and crazy. Why do you think it’s just a phase? What is wrong with incorporating that passionate fun into your life? Why do we feel we cannot have love, family and stability without eliminating the kinky passion we once lived for?

In my years as a Love Coach I have encountered numerous men who were unable to settle down, slept with multiple women in a week, and avoided commitment like the plague. Yet they got to a point in which they felt it was time to settle down and then instead of choosing a female similar to the ones they were attracted to they seek out a completely different type. The good girl. The girl their mom wants them to marry. Two years later they are cheating and unhappy.

I understand the logic. Insanity is someone who dates the same type of person over and over again expecting different results. Someone who is good for fun might not be good for a long-term relationship. But to go in the complete opposite direction of what excites you is a recipe for disaster. There is a middle ground! Yes, you can have it all.

Most of us want the comfort and safety of a long term relationship while still wanting to hold onto the excitement of our youth. Trying new things together, leaving your comfort zone, and communicating your desires and fears can help relationships maintain their passion.

One of my favorite suggestions for couples is to write a list of things you’d like to try together. Perhaps it is a sexual list, perhaps it isn’t. Try to come up with at least 10 activities each and have them approved by your partner. You can’t decide to have a threesome or go skydiving with an unwilling participant. Write each one on a piece of paper, fold them up and put them in a jar. Once every other week close your eyes and take one from the jar. Routine can be comforting but it can also lead to boredom. We humans have a need for certainty but we also have a need for uncertainty.

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Erika Jordan is a world renowned Love Expert and NLP practitioner

Five Staycation Ideas For A Fun & Safe Summer Vacation

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Erika Jordan

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August 20, 2020

Staying safe doesn’t mean not having fun!

Woohoo, it’s summertime! Time to pack my bags full of bikinis and… Oh wait, we’re in the middle of a never-ending global pandemic.

Well, in that case, have no fear!

Staying safe doesn’t have to mean not leaving the house. You can have a ton of fun planning a “staycation” right at home or in your town that won’t require much effort at all.

If you’ve never taken a staycation before, then you’ll probably need a couple of staycation ideas to help get you started. It’s time to get creative.

Here are 5 staycation ideas to have fun and stay safe this summer.

1. Look at places near you that you’ve never explored.

You’ve probably connected certain locations as “vacation destinations” and others just as “destinations.” Any new location can be a vacation with the right mindset!

You can sit around and mope, or redirect and flourish. There are endless websites and apps that will give you reviews on hotels or Airbnbs practicing appropriate safety measures.

2. Look at Airbnbs, hotels, and bed and breakfasts hours away.

If you happen to book a hotel in a smaller town, you’ll not only be taking a vacation to someplace new, but you’ll be going to a place with less risk.

Smaller towns make social distancing easier, while still providing new scenery for you and your family to safely explore.

3. Plan a road trip in an RV.

Of course, you can pack up and drive to Canada or the other side of the country if long road trips are your thing, too.

Rent a mobile home or bus, pack the fridge full of food to avoid risky stops, and enjoy the ride! You can take fun pictures along the way and find exciting places to safely visit while social distancing.

It might not be the trip to Fiji you had planned, but it sure beats binge-watching Netflix for the 300th time this year.

4. Make yourself a home “spa.”

If you don’t want to leave the house, you can tidy up the place, throw on your robe, cut up some cucumbers for your eyes, and get some sheet masks.

Make some changes to your environment, like lighting candles or even pitching a tent in your backyard.

Splurge on a few luxurious beauty products, try a couple of new beauty hacks, or make it a DIY beauty treatment evening.

If you want your luxury items to be a surprise, consider ordering a beauty subscription box ahead of time. Rather than opening the packages when you get them, save them until the day your actual staycation starts. That way, you’ll have something to look forward to.

If it’s just you and your partner or spouse, take a shower together afterward to wash each other off!

5. Buy a fancy set of sheets and blankets.

Dress up your duvet and invest in high-thread-count hotel sheets. Leave chocolate on your own pillow.

Find ways to stimulate your senses comparable to when you’re on vacation. If you loved the Bahamas, maybe use a body spray or lotion scented like mango or pineapple.

You can’t fake the palm trees or the ocean, but that doesn’t mean your room can’t smell like that sexy villa in Grand Cayman.

Here are some extra tips to help you enjoy your staycation…

Put your phone away while you’re spending time with your family.
If you’re going to have your staycation at home, tidy up the place first.
Stay in your robe and make it relaxing.
Have a budget for food and other little things you can splurge on to make it feel fun and luxurious.

Your vacation plans might have been sidelined due to the pandemic, but that doesn’t mean you can’t have fun and enjoy yourself.

There are many staycation ideas you can take advantage of to make sure that you’re safe and socially distancing while having a great time and getting some much-needed relaxation!

If you are stuck at home, it is a good time to work on yourself. Erika Jordan has your back with ideas on which Skills will get the best response.

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Erika Jordan’s ‘Advice for Men’ – Should You Have Sex on the First Date?

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Erika Jordan

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October 25, 2018

In this video, I share some questions you can ask yourself before you jump into bed on a first date. It’s not about what’s good or bad, right or wrong – it all depends on the individuals involved and how they feel.

Come find me at PlaymatePickup.com My six week course, The Art Of PickUp is available with personalized guidance at Virtual Sexpert.com. Acquire the skills to approach women with confidence and get them to want you!

Swingers Podcast – Swinging with Carol and David

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Erika Jordan

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January 11, 2021

Many of you are curious about the swinging life and want to know what it entails and if it’s for you. SO, Erika Jordan brought on Carol and David, the king and queen of swinging!

There are certain terms you should become familiar with right away. Phrases like “hard swap” essentially denote couples who are open to having full-on sexual relations with another couple. Or, a “unicorn” refers to a woman who attends swingers events alone – yes, this isn’t just for couples. Other terms to know are “soft swap,” which is basically the opposite of what a hard swap is and that everything is on the table except for sex. And, last but not least, the phrase is “the lifestyle” refers to the – you guessed it – the swinger lifestyle.

For life on the funny side check out Erika Jordan and Tenere Williams in The Girlfriend Experience Zoom Style. For the very creative this may work for swinging also.

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Erika Jordan Certified Love Coach, NLP Practitioner

Erika Jordan’s “Advice For Men” Increase Your Load

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Erika Jordan

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April 15, 2020

Most men would be happy with a bigger dick. But their size obsession doesn’t end there. According to a recent study men who are unsatisfied with the volume of their ejaculate experience high levels of relationship distress. They also suffer from fear of failure, sexual dissatisfaction and anxiety regarding their sexual performance. Thanks a bunch to unfettered access to limitless pornography now guys went bigger loads. Is it possible to, well, cum more? World renowned love coach Erika Jordan gives you the scoop! With Erika Jordan’s “Advice For Men” Increase You Load the answer is at hand. Since sex is best when it is a shared experience don’t forget your partners needs. Erika Jordan is also a help here with Advice For Men 3 Steps To Orgasm.

For more advice from Erika Jordan in a interactive format her six week course The Art Of Pickup is available at VirtualSexpert.com

Relationship Rules

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Erika Jordan

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September 18, 2022

Relationships are hard. We seem to think there are set rules for relationships and everyone is aware of them. This is just not true.

If you look up a word in Webster’s dictionary you will often see multiple definitions for the same word. The same is true for relationships.. One person might feel when you’re in a relationship you should check in with your partner every day. Another person might think it’s perfectly normal to go days without speaking if they already made plans to see their partner at the end of the week. Before you get into a relationship discuss what a relationship means to you.

What are the rules that you feel your partner should follow once they become your boyfriend. What changes when you become official Love is a two-way street constantly under construction. My six week course, the artist pick up, is now available with personalize guidance at Playmate pickup.com. Acquire the skills to approach women with confidence and get them to want you.

Erica Jordan is a certified Love Coach, NLP practitioner, and leader in the field of digital romance. Try her six week course, The Art Of Pickup! Acquire the skills to approach women with confidence and get them to want you!

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