Sexy China With Dr. Ava & Dr. Eros

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September 10, 2015

As the president of the American College of Sexologists International, sometimes I get great perks. I was invited to go to China along with Dr. Hernando Chaves, Nancy Sutton-Pierce and Dr. Laura Bennet Cook to promote our upcoming American program in November on cross-cultural sexuality.

We flew into Guangzhou, and took an hour’s drive to the Dr. Eros Conference for Women, which took place at the beautiful Sheraton Qingyuan resort.

On the first night, Dr. Eros threw a gala where Yu Na introduced me on stage with other notable international sexologists such as Dr. Ma Xiaonian, China’s most famous sexologist. Yu Na sits on the ACS board and is the most powerful woman in her industry in China, working tirelessly to empower women by teaching them about sexual health and pleasure.

I was asked “Dr. Ava, what do you think of the sexuality education communication between China and the United States?” and I responded, “I think it is very exciting and empowering for America to join forces with China and make the world a happier and sexier place.”

Here is the Los Angeles Intimacy Team right before walking the red carpet into the gala – from left to right: Intimacy Assistant Michael Lanham, myself, Dr. Hernando Chaves, Na Na, Nancy Sutton-Pierce, Dr. Laura Bennett Cook and her husband Cac Cook.

We watched an erotic fashion show with gorgeous models showing off Yu Na’s line of sensual lingerie, Sediva Maison.

Dancer Kristina Orekhova was the Russian pole dancing champion, as you can see below.

Nancy, Hernando, and I did a presentation called Love, Lust & Laughter, teasing the many topics we’re planning to teach in Los Angeles in November.

The topics varied in scope from self-love and pleasure, passionate play, sharing fantasies to what turns a man on, tantric sex, power play, and Dr. Laura spoke about how to talk to your kids about sex. It ended with Nancy doing a spectacular job teaching lap dancing, and we all participated. As you can see, Hernando was a willing participant, encouraging the young lady to practice her moves. This was definitely the climax of all the presentations.

We were treated to many Chinese delicacies like jellyfish and sea snails (below), but we passed on the penis and balls dinner special for tourists. Another highlight was watching Yu Na perform a tea ritual in our honor.

On the last night, we were invited to the most exclusive nightclub True Colors by owner Mr. Lee (below right), who told me that he chose that name for this club because he thinks inner beauty is most important. He owns over 300 nightclubs all over China.

The nightclub had amazing entertainment with top DJs, fashions shows, male and female pole dancers, live music and more. It was one of the most exciting nightclubs I’ve ever been to anywhere in the world.

Here we are after Nancy’s lap dance workshop. On the very left is Tracey, our fantastic translator, and Christine (on the very right) is Yu Na’s right hand woman, whom I will be mentoring to become a sexologist!

Robert James from NuReality Pictures was shooting and directing a documentary series about Yu Na and our program. He also shot our first cross-cultural program in February in Los Angeles. Here he’s taking a break on the Malaysian sex chair.

Here is the beautiful parting gift I received with unique fragrances, candles, feathers and more, all from Yu Na’s company, Sediva Maison.

Diary Of A Unicorn – My Trip To A Sex Club Alone – Part 2

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Susanna Brisk

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September 9, 2015

Read Part One here.

The Guy I Knew But Wasn’t Supposed To Know started to pound Miss Romania from behind and she commenced singing the Romanian national anthem. She had proclaimed that she didn’t like eating pussy, but was touching mine and I would occasionally fondle a boob, or Guy I Wasn’t Supposed To Know would fondle me and then there came a point where I was lying there like “Could I get some dick please?” because I certainly felt I’d earned it.

“You can fuck her,” she said in her Hungarian lilt, “Go on, fuck her…”

“No I just want to fuck you,” he said dutifully and while that was happening he leaned into my ear and murmured, “She’s testing me.”

So after a while, when it was clear that he wasn’t willing to risk her ire, I said “I’m going to have a cigarette” and left them there still doing their Slovakian folk dancing.

After sitting in the smoking area and chatting to some people (swingers are very friendly) I went back in the club and spotted a guy whom I would call the same type as my ex. Tall, skinny, dark hair, blue eyes, yes please. He was with a chippy* with terrible posture (she was cute but looked uncomfortable) and when I looked down and realized that she was wearing flat ballet slippers, like the kind you find at the drugstore for $6.99 that you can carry in your purse in case your heels are hurting you. That was my entrance…

“I see you also have comfortable shoes,” I ventured pointing to my Uggs, “I broke my toe, so…”

She giggled and I wondered what they were doing there. He was around my age, but she was a baby…

“Are you into girls?” I asked.

“Um…” she hedged.

Um?

“I’d really like to fuck your boyfriend, would that be okay with you?” I asked, in my trademark subtle style.

She giggled again, “We’re not really there yet…”

The guy gave me a pained look. He wanted to fuck. It was pitiful. Why not just put him on a leash with a collar and be done with it? For the rest of the night I would spot them; playing pool, getting drinks, dancing, and he would give me the same baleful look.

Tragic.

I decided that since there was no one else there I was really interested in, I would go home, right after I stopped by the smoking area one more time, and then… I saw them.

The couple was stunning. Not just hot, model hot. He had a rakish European vibe, and she was the epitome of the kind of girl I’m attracted to – strawberry blonde, young and gorgeous. I hadn’t slept with a girl like that since I was one.

We started chatting and the vibe was great. They weren’t models, but were “in fashion,” and it was only their second time at the club. She was into girls BUT HAD NEVER BEEN WITH ONE. Guess who was going to be her first?

In a stunning coincidence, it turned out that she was also of Eastern European heritage, and as a Serb could almost understand my Russian. What was it with these women and their kinks and their cheekbones? (I guess I should include myself in that.)

I gave them a tour of the club, and he kept getting more and more drinks. I was quite happy sober. We came into the playroom I had been in with the other couple, and the girl and I quickly undressed. Holy. Shit. Her body was RIDICULOUS. Small natural boobs, tiny waist, bubble butt… and before I knew it she was fully going down on me.

She had clearly given this a lot of thought. I couldn’t believe it was her first time, and I leaned back and tried to relax. For some reason I have a hard time relaxing when a girl is going down on me, with girls I prefer to be the “giver.” No trouble relaxing with a guy, but like the other couple, he wasn’t going anywhere near my pussy…

Not only that, but in order to make his girlfriend feel comfortable he was saying a lot of things like “Look at those tits. I love her tits,” or I’d give him head and he would say “Watch how she gives head, she’s the fucking best.” “Look at her pussy, it’s so perfect.” I was starting to feel like the ugly step-aunt, but I also understood that, like the other couple, this was a testing ground for them, and he was making sure that she was comfortable. So I put away my ego and wow…

I did all kinds of things to her while he fucked her, to follow the smorgasbord analogy, they more often than not involved her pu pu platter… she was WILD and I was having a great time. I also got to kiss his beautiful, Roman face (those lips, mama mia) and we did stuff to her together that was… inventive.

The last time she stuck her tongue in my open peach while I played with the pit, I had no trouble relaxing and had a huge orgasm. The club was closing in fifteen minutes, and it was once again clear I was not going to be penetrated by anything resembling a penis.

Oh. Well. I had gone there open to “whatever” and it was “whatever” I had gotten, and it had been wonderful. I completed my hedonistic streak by getting McDonalds on the way home. It was light when I finally got into bed with my toys, and let a combination of the Get You In The Mood Vibe, My Girlfriend and The Trucker do what the guys at the club wouldn’t…

Even with little sleep, I sailed through the next day with the kids on little more than caffeine and memories. I debriefed with Guy I Wasn’t Supposed To Know, and texted with Wild Serbian Goddess, and that was good, because I always like a check-in the day after sex. I may be a slut, but no one wants to feel like a whore…

Originally published on Malibumom.com.

What Makes A Penis “Good Looking?”

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Anka Radakovich

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September 7, 2015

“That’s a nice looking dong you have there,” I once told a boyfriend. But why did I like it so much? Well, according to a study in the Journal Of Sexual Medicine there are things about a penis that women find attractive. And surprisingly,according to this study, it isn’t about length.

In their study called “What Is A Good Looking Penis?” researchers surveyed 105 women ranging in age from 16-45. The number one answer was “general cosmetic appearance,” a sort of “I know a good looking schlong when I see one” kind of thing. Number two was “importance of penile skin,” which I’m assuming means whether there was foreskin or not, women preferring it without. And number three was was “appearance of pubic hair,” which underscores the importance of shaving down the hedges if it looks like a forest down there.

Number four was “appearance of scrotum” which means having “tight” testes might be preferable to “low hangers.” This was followed by girth and length, which I don’t know if I agree with, as I evaluate a penis on: general shape, how long it is, how wide it is, and how the shaft and head is shaped. God, I feel completely superficial right now. The good news is that most straight men do not evaluate the shape and appearance of a woman’s vagina very much; they’re just happy to see one.

Diary Of A Unicorn – My Trip To A Sex Club Alone

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Susanna Brisk

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September 2, 2015

They call us unicorns, because we are so rare. Women who go to sex clubs without a partner, looking to play.

MILFs who go to sex clubs without a partner? I might have been a unicorn with wings. Lest you think I’m becoming a 7 on my Sex Number^TM scale, don’t worry; this urge was not compulsive, but medicinal. The truth is that many guys go on a sexual rampage after the breakup of a relationship (let alone two) and opt for a little sexual healing, and no one thinks twice. Either that or join the Marines, and I’m pretty sure I wouldn’t pass the Physical.

I’d been to this club before with my ex-boyfriend, so I felt safe going back by myself. It’s a fairly small club with a large variety of people, all races, ages, shapes and sizes, with good security and a screening process, so I was not worried about getting into trouble (except the kind I was there to get into.) I’d had a wonderful night there with my ex where we hadn’t played with anyone, but were really close (or so I thought.) I felt justified in returning to the scene of the crime, so to speak, for a bit of revenge fucking. Single women get in free at sex clubs for the same reason that if a unicorn showed up at a restaurant, they’d probably comp its dinner.

Keep in mind that I still have a broken big toe… oh maybe I didn’t mention that. Get ready: I broke my toe in the most Malibu way possible; I fell into my spa. In pitch dark, fully clothed, submerged under the cold water like someone with white people’s problems. The reason I was outside was to smoke, so I was trying to find a spot where the kids wouldn’t see me, they were inside. As I was looking back, distracted by the dogs and which kid was where, I stepped right into the water. (I consider the fact that I didn’t crack my head open and die to be both the good news and the bad news…)

It’s been a week and I’m no longer on crutches, and it doesn’t hurt to put on shoes… unless I want towalk. So there I was, showing up at the sexy sex club in my Ugg boots. The last time I was at this club, I was wearing 6-inch heels and towering over everybody except my boyfriend and the Trans ladies, who by the way were rocking that shit. So I was quite happy in my flats, not to mention comfortable, even before I glanced into the first playroom after the entrance and SAW SOMEONE I HAD ALREADY SLEPT WITH.

Here was the rub-we had had sex when he and his girlfriend had been on quite a long break, and now here he was inviting me in to their party while at the same time muttering, “We don’t know each other.” Anyone who knows me knows that I do not tangle with anyone who is involved in a relationship, unless their partner is right there telling me it’s okay. When I was with him before, he was most definitely single. I hated the mendacity, but his girlfriend was SO FUCKING HOT, that I was like, “Meh. It’s not exactly a lie, more like an omission.”

She was from an indeterminate Eastern European country with a really hot accent, but I didn’t even get a chance to ask her where, before I was taking off my clothes and sucking on her nipples. I really should do something about my shyness. Of course I felt a little more comfortable because I already knew the guy, but I also just felt comfortable because I really like pussy and there she was presenting her body like a smorgasbord. So much was on offer; the boobs, the neck, the mouth, the hair, and below the smooth oak cutting-board of her stomach, a perfectly groomed Eastern Bloc buffet.

I worked my way through all the courses and then down I dived (dove?)… and made her come. Twice. (I don’t use “cum,” prefer the regular spelling.) After she had finished moaning in Czech (or whatever it was) I raised my arms in victory, not only because I’m a goofball even when I’m having a threesome, but also because I understood yet again why men love licking pussy so much- when you make a girl come with your mouth you feel like a G-ddamn champ! And then…

To be continued…

*This post was originally published at MalibuMom

One Thing Women Can Do To Look More Attractive

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Anka Radakovich

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August 31, 2015

Here’s one thing every woman can do to look more attractive to men, according to science. Wear red. Proving again that men are simple, the color makes women appear more attractive and “warm,” scientists say. There has been no study yet to see if it works with lesbians, but if you’re trying to attract a male, red does it for them.

The reason is evolutionary and goes back to when we were less evolved and more monkey-like. In the animal kingdom, the genitals of female chimpanzees swell and redden as a sexual cue to males, suggesting a higher sexual opportunity for males. The study, done in China, found that the effect was parallel in humans, and that red gets guys going. Red lipstick also has the same effect and mimics the lips of a woman’s vajajay.

Red dresses by Dolce & Gabbana

Dolce & Gabbana’s new red matte lipstick

Plugs, Beads, And Vibrators, Oh My! Which Anal Toy Is Right For You?

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Miyoko

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August 31, 2015

As Anal August comes to a close, it seems only fitting that we should end it with a bang! The question is, what kind of bang would your end like? Finding the right anal toy to fit your fantasies and desires doesn’t need to be a daunting task. Here are some basic ideas of what types of products and materials are available, and why you might want to pick one up this weekend.

If you are new to anal play, one of the best types of toys you can try is an anal plug. It is available in a range of sizes, materials and shapes. If your goal is to insert something into the anus for the first time and experience the sensation of having something in your bum, then you may want to opt for something smaller and graduate to a larger plug once you know you like the feeling, or your goals change.

I really like the glass plug #44 from Pipedream’s Icicles collection. It’s only about 2 inches long and will slide in easily with a little lubrication. This plug could easily be worn during foreplay and intercourse and will add an extra sensation of fullness as well as excitement for you and your lover. Just the thought of knowing that something is in your tush is an erotic suggestion to fuel hot and sexy playdates.

The icicles # 46 is shaped for his pleasure. The slight bulbous tip is curved to stimulate the prostate gland and provide him with intense sensations and pressure. The smooth glass glides in easily with a little lubrication, and you can rotate the shaft to find his favorite spot. His prostate is located inside the anus and up toward his penis. He can lie on his back while you stroke his penis and rub his testicles. Or you can ride him reverse cowgirl and play with his prostate while you take care of your own pleasure.

If your desire is to create an anal journey of pleasure and exploration, anal beads are a perfect addition to your bedroom toybox. Beads are not a simple insert and leave in type of toy. Your lover will delicately communicate and insert each bead as your body accepts them. Then you can either leave them in during intercourse, and slide them out as you climax, or your lover can insert and withdraw randomly while they also play with your clitoris or add finger or penis penetration into the receiver’s vagina, or if the receiver is male, orally pleasure and manually stroke the shaft of the penis. The sensation of delicious surprise as each bead slides in or out is an intense and pleasurable experience in an intimate area of your body.

Want to penetrate your partners booty, but don’t have a penis? No problem! You can strap on a dildo and experience the dominance and dynamic of giving someone else pleasure. Even though you don’t “feel” the actual sensation that they would, the visual of seeing yourself disappear inside your lover, and hearing the sounds of them moaning is a highly erotic way to experience of pleasure of giving. Have your lover “accept” you and take you in, while your hands are free to touch, massage, spank, or squeeze your lovers body. You can move slow, and lightly caress and squeeze them, kissing them deeply while they face you. Or try having them bent over on all fours, and enjoy the assertive touch of spanking them while you penetrate them deep and hard. Make sure you communicate the types of touch, play, and penetration they like, so you both can enjoy consensual and pleasurable intercourse. I recommend the gorgeous and comfortable harnesses and dildos by Tantus.

Or maybe you like the idea of penetrating, but don’t want to actually strap one on? There are several probes and vibrators designed to be inserted into the anus. I recommend hard plastic, glass, wood, metal, and silicone materials for safe and comfortable anal play. The size and shape of the probe or vibrator depends on the person receiving it. Ask them what appeals to them. Show them a few different styles and ask what they would prefer. Will this be used to prepare their anus for penile penetration later? If so, they might want a few different types of toys to slowly bring their muscles to a relaxed and stretched state before you penetrate them with your own man parts. Anal plugs tend to taper to a thinner girth at the base. While this is great for the feeling of fullness during play, it may not stretch the actual sphincter enough to accommodate your penis when the time comes. Adding a second toy that maintains it’s girth at the base might allow your lover’s muscles to stretch more to accept your average-to-large member.

And let’s not forget the lube! The anal canal does not self-lubricate for penetration. Always include a lubricant that provides some slip and slide for the receivers comfort and pleasure. I recently had the opportunity to try Uberlube…. and will be keeping it on my nightstand from now on. I am a fan of silicone lubes in general for anal play as they stay slick longer, don’t tend to get sticky, and provide enough lubrication for penetration to feel sexy. Uberlube kept it’s viscosity during play, and then was easily washed off, or just rubbed in afterward. I didn’t have to keep applying lube, or adding spit to make it stay slick, which was a huge plus. I could just focus on the pleasure at hand… and fingers…

A few tips from KennethPlay.com and CharlieGlickman.com were to also have towels, wipes for easy clean up, and latex or polyurethane gloves and condoms handy. Anal play does lend itself to bacterial exposure so take steps to keep the playtime clean and safe. Wearing gloves on hands and putting condoms on toys or penises keeps playtime continuous. You won’t have to jump up and wash off when you’re ready to move onto other things! And most importantly, COMMUNICATE!! Anal play can be a scary or uncomfortable prospect, but can also create intense pleasure and intimacy in your relationships. So discuss what each of your fantasies and desires are, as well as boundaries as you explore, and you’ll discover new erotic sensations together.

If you need more tips on types of anal play and techniques for how to please your lover during anal play, listen to the entire episodes of my Anal August shows on Play With Me on Playboy Radio! Ep. 43-45

Can A Woman Be A Slut & A Mom?

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Susanna Brisk

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August 20, 2015

I remember the first time I was called a slut. I had been sleeping around a group of friends at our “brother” high school, including the boy with whom I lost my virginity, and the “body count” was piling up faster than a John Wayne Gacy biopic. I was fifteen, horny and thrilled to finally be getting male attention. They liked me they really liked me. Once they slept with me, they didn’t seem to like me as much, but I was remarkably unfazed by this. Ah teenage love… One fine day another kid from the aforementioned boys’ high school came up to me at the train station. He had light red hair and I thought he liked me so I talked to him, although he had kind of a weird vibe. Apropos of nothing, he said, “Why are you such a slut?”

I walked away, my heart pounding in humiliation, but resolute I wasn’t going to let him see me sweat. Even then I wondered why there wasn’t a word for a promiscuous boy? Calling a boy “Casanova,” “Don Juan,” or even “man whore” just didn’t seem insulting enough. The Sluts at my school and I were having a competition to add notches to the bedpost, even collecting ties from boys from the other school, and yet other girls would label them disparagingly. Where was the female James Bond, with a dude ready to roll around the sheets with in every port?

My career as a Slut progressed impressively, mildly impeded by being married for twelve years, in a relationship for fourteen. I was in the middle of bedding the strange and wonderful world of New York City men in my early twenties, when I met my ex-husband, and instantly knew we would get married, have kids; the whole works as we would say if we were ordering our relationship on a sandwich.

Throughout the fourteen years of my relationship with my husband I was 99.9% monogamous (except that one time at a yoga retreat in Oregon, but I confessed right afterwards.) The least I felt I owed my husband was to report my occasional platonic crushes on other people, male and female, the mere act of communicating them negating the dramatic experience of having a secret crush. As our marriage became more strained however, these crushes became much more like what the Internet would call “emotional affairs” but still not consummated (except that one guy who kissed me in a parking lot and I kissed him back, not in Oregon. But that’s it I swear.)

During the marriage, and as a mother of two small children, I saw myself as an ex-slut: someone who still loved sex, but had systematically negated its importance in my life. By the time I emerged from the marital cocoon, I was ready to take back the term and be the slutty butterfly I was always supposed to become. As a woman in my late thirties, I found that true to the old homily I was indeed at my sexual peak, with no shortage of suitors, in an age range I had not even considered when married. Apparently that whole MILF thing is really a thing, and there are plenty of guys who are excited by women who are confident in our own bodies, in a way we hadn’t been in our twenties when all the bits still had their media-approved perkiness.

I am a mother first. Also I am an artist- writer, actor, film-maker, comedian etc. I’m a friend, a daughter, and a person with many interests and personality “quirks.” I am also having the best sex of my life with other single people who want to have the best sex of their lives, but I’m not going to pretend that sometimes it doesn’t get emotionally messy.

As my views on sex have become more liberated, I have also found that the chemicals released when you sleep with someone (Oxytocin, Dopamine, Adrenaline) and their subsequent withdrawal, have been a great vehicle to understand more about myself and my expectations. What am I looking for exactly? Am I trying to fill my emptiness through another person? In order to be a truly self-actualized,ethical slut it is necessary to come from a place of wholeness—nothing is missing from my life—I simply want this sexual experience because I was lucky enough to be given a life to live and a body that functions perfectly. I am hereby taking back the word “slut,” just as female rappers have taken back the word “bitch.” I am a Slut. And loving it.

So the answer to the question: “Can a woman be a slut and a mom?” is “Yes. But not at the same time.”

*originally published at MalibuMom

Love, Lust & Laughter Radio Podcast Featuring Dr. Ava!

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Dr. Diana Wiley

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August 17, 2015

Pleasure and passion is a sign of health – one of the vital signs, like your pulse rate. Dr Ava Cadell and Dr. Diana discuss the health benefits of sex – a longer life, improved heart health, pain relief, better sleep, reduced stress, an improved immune system, and improvements in your appearance and relationships. Dr. Ava also talked about her favorite female and male health devices. The Intensity delivers women pleasure with a purpose! Listeners can get $50 off the device with the PROMO code 50free at http://www.pourmoi.com. For men, Dr. Ava recommends the Private Gym, for which listeners can get 20% off with the PROMO code sexpert20 at http://www.privategym.com. This interview includes vital info from Dr. Ava’s many books and seminars.

Discovering pleasure with a partner is like pouring cement into a foundation. Physical touch that leads to ecstatic release not only releases hormones and endorphins that promote health and longevity, but also serve as the basis of biological bonding.

Click below to listen to the interview (approx. one hour):

10 Tips For An Awesome Anal August

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Victoria Reuveni

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August 13, 2015

August is Anal Pleasure Month! What better time to give it a try if you haven’t, or have fun doing it if you already love it? It may not be for everyone, but without a few crucial tips, you might not be giving it the best shot, and you could be missing out on an exciting array of sensations.

Keep in mind that butt play is great for folks with a prostate too! It can be a gateway to learning how to have multiple orgasms as well as orgasms not directly involving the penis.

Try this advice to make the experience wetter & better!

1. Lube!

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This cannot be understated: The ass does not self-lubricate like the vagina does. The anal lining is very thin, so it is more susceptible to tearing than the vagina. To keep things nice and slick, grab a gel-like water-based lube for some cushion, or some silicone lube to last a really long time, or even a nice creamy hybrid, which will last a bit longer than water-based, but is easier to wash away than silicone.

2. Warm Up

You have to romance the ass. Take your time. Don’t rush into it. Many of us have seen scenes in porn where suddenly anal sex is happening. In some cases, that is do-able, but usually for those who have had a lot of practice. Most of us need time to warm up and work our way up gradually to larger toys or appendages. Spend time on the anal opening – slow circles, massaging gently, before going all in.

3. Go S-L-O-W-L-Y

The ass has a TON of nerve endings, so it feels, very acutely, what is going on. Especially when you’re starting out, go very slowly. If you think you’re going slow, go slower.

4. Pay Attention to Your Body

If anything hurts, STOP. There is a huge (problematic) misconception that anal play is supposed to hurt. This is so not true! There is a difference between “this is a new and uncomfortable feeling” and “ow this is the worst thing ever.” Pay attention. It might just be that you need more lube, or the position you are in isn’t working for you, or the toy is a bit too big so you might have to scale down.

5. Play Sober

A drink or two may not be a problem. But if you have trouble articulating, communicating, and feeling, you might end up going too far, too quickly, and possibly hurt yourself.

6. Never Use Numbing Agents!

This is bad, bad news folks. You need the information that your nerves are sending to your brain, because they tell you when to slow down or stop.

AND!

If you have to stop because something hurts, go out as slowly as you went in. Do not yank it out quickly.

7. Without a Base, Without a Trace

When using toys be sure to only use ones (plugs, dildos, etc) with a base. It would not be a fun time to lose something up your bum. It might involve a trip to the ER and just all around discomfort. Be smart with what you stick in your body.

Add More Lube!

Don’t be shy! Wetter is better. If you’re with a partner, don’t be afraid to ask for more lube.

8. Breathe!

It helps you to relax and get centered. And, the more you breathe, the more you feel.

9. Safer Sex

Safer sex is important! The penetrator can wear an external (“male”) condom OR the person being penetrated can use an internal condom (“female;” fc2) – just take the inner ring out! The internal condom hangs out of the anus a bit which also covers a bit more skin!

10. Have Fun!

Nothing is worth doing if you aren’t enjoying yourself! Happy Anal August!

Massive “Slut Walk” Planned for Los Angeles Oct 3rd

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Anka Radakovich

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August 11, 2015

The word “slut” has to be the most ridiculous word ever invented; most likely by a man who was more of a slut than the woman he was slut shaming. I have always been called a slut; from (ex) boyfriends who mistakenly thought I was cheating on them, to the sleaziest guys who knew nothing about me and had no idea that I wasn’t sleeping with anyone. So I was so happy to see that someone is reclaiming the demeaning word, which unfairly judges women for what men do every day.

As part of an awareness campaign against sexual violence against women and victim blaming, a massive “Slut Walk” is planned for Oct 3rd in downtown Los Angeles. Singer Nicki Minaj has contributed $5,000 to the event. Organized by Amber Rose, the walk promotes the “anti-slut shaming movement”– that raises awareness of the double standard.

According to Rose, “The word exploded into a new but disturbing context after a Toronto police officer told a crowd of college women that they shouldn’t dress like sluts. This sparked a worldwide campaign that outraged men and women across the country. Join the movement on this cause against sexual injustice, victim blaming, derogatory labeling and gender inequality.”

To participate in the walk or donate, click here. “Funds will be used for sexual awareness education, HIV testing and to help groups and organizations of women who have been subject to slut shaming, a lack of implication of double standards, sexual assault, and even rape.”

We’re going and we hope to see all you major sluts there!