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Product Review: What is Squirting? Taught by Lola on beducated.com

By
Tamara Bell
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Photo provided by beducated.com

Have you ever wondered what squirting is all about?  Is it possible to learn this technique or is it a natural act.  There are so many questions asked about this phenomenon, but no one talks about it.  I happen to fall upon the number one resource for sexual health and happiness and found the best teaching and explanation of squirting in terms anyone can understand.

As a sex educator, I found that some people need additional explanation and visuals to understand and learn how to squirt of if they in fact can squirt.  I found this site and there was a course on there that teaches people the act of squirting.

The act of squirting is taught by Sex Educator, Mental Health Professional, Instructor and Coach, Pro Domme, Wrestler, and Writer, Lola. She brings a refreshing understanding to sex, sexuality, and kink to push individuals past what they think they are capable of. Through her course, she helps individuals to stop making excuses and unlock who they are and what they deserve. Lola teaches classes all over the world on a variety of topics including squirting, oral, and pegging. Her knowledge and personality truly shine in her teachings which makes her courses fun and incredibly engaging.

So, what is squirting?  Squirting is when fluid expel from the vagina during orgasm. Not all people with vaginas squirt during orgasm, and those who do may only squirt some of the time.  It sometimes involves secretions from the skene’s gland. The skene’s glands are sometimes called the female prostate because they function similarly to the male prostate.

Photo provided by beducated.com

Why do we care about it? Can you make someone squirt?  In her course, Lola answers all these questions and more.  She explains her teaching approach, and shares her world-record-breaking experience.

Her teachings discuss the common myths of squirting, such as:

  • Is squirting just pee?
  • Does squirting have anything to do with how hydrated you are?
  • How messy is it?
  • Is squirting an orgasm?
  • Can everyone squirt?

She dives into exploring tools and techniques, and understanding how our bodies make squirting possible. The lesson is dedicated to helping you recognize and appreciate all the body parts involved, from clitoris to the nervous system, areas we sometimes overlook.  Many women stress over why they do not squirt and feel that something must be wrong with them.

There are many toys available to that could help you to squirt. You will get to look at which ones may work best, and which ones can help you work on your pelvic floor. 

In the video in her course, Lola demonstrates pleasure techniques that are likely to help you squirt. She covers:

  • How to warm up
  • The motorcycle rev technique
  • How to engage the pelvic floor

She also gives some very useful parting advice!  So, if you have always wanted to learn or get good advice, check out her course program on beducated.com!

Vacay at the Loveology Retreat

By
Dr. Ava Cadell
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When I began to think about launching my own wellness retreat, I had one goal in mind: To create the perfect place for focusing inward, with the intent of Self-Care, Healing, and unconditional Self-Love so that visitors would be able to forge a deeper connection within themselves. Weekend retreats are available all year round and include Yoga, Meditation, Hiking & Stargazing with Workshops on Healing, Love, Communication, Art Therapy and Balancing Your Life.

What makes the Loveology Retreat special is that it has an original Buddhist Temple for Meditation and an 11ft high Stupa for Stargazing and Manifestation. There are majestic Buddha statues all over the 45-acre property, which features three hiking trails that offer panoramic views of Pine Mountain.

Unique offerings include Workshops on Self-Love & Acceptance, Art Therapy, Crucial Communication and Healing. For couples, there is Partner Yoga and Workshops on Intimacy with access to online courses from LoveUniv.com for all guests. For families and groups there is a competitive Disc Golf Course, Children’s Playground and a Pool, as well as the Buddha Cafe for gourmet dining by Chef Jeff.

A One-Day Pass is available for Saturday or Sunday, which gives you access to Yoga, Meditation, Hiking & Stargazing, plus three delectable meals at the Buddha Cafe. Weekend Packages include Workshops, three meals a day, plus High-Tea on Saturday. Massage is available upon request as is private coaching sessions. Prices are for three days and two nights from Friday to Sunday and the cost depends upon the accommodation you choose. https://www.loveologyretreat.com/accommodations

Unlike a typical Couples’ Retreat, at the Loveology Retreat you don’t need to have a partner to enjoy this magical 45-acre property with a Buddhist Temple and an 11-foot-high Stupa, for Meditation and Stargazing. There are three Hiking Trails with panoramic views, where you can look, listen, and nourish all your senses whether you are solo, with family, friends, or a romantic partner. If you’re looking for a more competitive activity, the retreat has a disc golf course and a Funhouse filled with games that can be fun for team building.

Couples are welcome to stay in one of our romantic Campers, the Chakra House or the Lama House and just chill out as all the activities are optional, so if you’re not in the mood for Meditation, Yoga, or Hiking, you can unplug and relax by the Swimming Pool. Dining is at the outdoor Buddha Café surrounded by Pine trees, where fresh cuisine is prepared by Chef Jeff for Breakfast, Lunch, and Dinner, while High Tea is served by the Koi Pond at the Loveology House. For couples who want to enrich their relationship and boost intimacy, there’s Private Couples Counseling, Workshops on Synergetic Art Therapy, Intimate Communication, and quality time for Romantic Picnics that are sure to create loving memories!

The Loveology Retreat provides emotional & physical wellness to balance your mind, body & spirit. Visitors should expect to try something new, and leave loving themselves more deeply, rejuvenating their mind, body & spirit, while connecting with mother nature.

Couples will learn how to take their relationship to many new levels of intimacy for a deeper bond, which is necessary element of a healthy relationship.

If you are looking for an experience that is: 

  • Enlightening
  • Magical
  • Impassioned
  • Recreational
  • Spiritual
  • Breathtaking
  • Relaxing
  • Rejuvenating

If you are looking for a place that has:

  • Healing Energy
  • Buddhist Temple
  • Panoramic Views
  • Mind, Body, Spirit Connection
  • Stargazing at the Stupa
  • Meditation
  • Yoga & Sexycises
  • Walking Meditation
  • Nature Walks & Hiking

If you are looking for an event that is for

  • Health Conscious
  • Singles
  • Couples
  • Families
  • Disc Golf Players
  • Age Range from 5 to 75
  • Groups
  • Weddings & Anniversaries
  • Holidays & Celebrations
  • Photo & Filming Location

Then come to the Loveology Retreat because all of mankind can benefit from renewed focus on physical & emotional wellness through meditation, creative visualization, self-forgiveness, emotional growth, yoga, bodywork, hiking, healing arts & stargazing. https://www.loveologyretreat.com/

Dr. Ava’s Sex Mythbusters: Sexual Fantasies

By
Dr. Ava Cadell
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Dr. Ava Cadell busts a myth about sexual fantasies. Many people believe that sexual fantasies are bad for relationships; that you shouldn’t be fantasizing about something or someone else while you’re with a partner. But this couldn’t be further from the truth. In fact, fantasies can make things much sexier.

Pegging: A Guide To Strap-on Sex for Beginners

By
JC Way
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Are you Reading to Learn Pegging & Strap-on Sex?

Okay. Let’s go!

A 2011 sex survey found that 14.8% of men had used a strap-on in the bedroom, and a further 21.3% would like to try it.

That was nearly 10 years ago.

In modern times, heterosexual men are becoming more open to the idea of butt play – after all, the male G-spot (prostate) is up there for a reason.

You might have heard of “pegging” in women’s magazines, where it’s deemed the most outrageous and kinky thing to ever grace the earth.

I’m JC Way from The Sex Toy Collective, and I’m here to give you the lowdown on pegging and strap-on sex.

What is Pegging?

Put simply, pegging is when a woman uses a strap-on dildo to anally penetrate a man.

Of course, any gender can use a strap-on to have sex with any gender, but pegging almost exclusively covers cis women fucking cis men in the ass with a strap-on, so that’s what we’ll be mainly focusing on here.

Pegging usually happens as part of a male-female relationship when the couple decides to experiment and switch things up in the bedroom.

Why is Pegging Pleasurable?

So why would a woman want to fuck a guy with a strap-on anyway? Why would he like it if he’s straight?

Men

  • The anus is full of sensitive nerve endings
  • The prostate (male G-spot) is 2-3 inches inside your butt
  • Power exchange and role reversal
  • A more passive or submissive role

Women

  • Many strap-ons have bullet vibrator pouches for clitoral pleasure
  • Some strap-ons are designed for internal female pleasure
  • Power exchange and role reversal
  • Seeing their partner’s vulnerable reactions

For a lot of male-female couples, pegging is a way for men to feel less “in charge” in the bedroom and submit to the woman. It’s also a great way to introduce Power Exchange into the bedroom, one of the tenets of BDSM surrounding submission and domination.

Of course, I’m generalizing here. You might already be a dominant femdom with a submissive boyfriend, but most couples aren’t like that.

What’s Pegging Like For Women?

Here are some quotes from a Reddit post about why women like pegging their guys:

“The best part is knowing how good, awesome, hot, and amazing they’re feeling because you’re giving it to them. It’s really intense, intimate, and it makes me super wet and turned on.”

“What I love about it is how it affects my husband…it changes the power dynamic of sex, I love to hear him beg for my ‘dick’.”

“The faces they make when I hit the prostate. Dear lord. Typically guys don’t make these vulnerable, sexy expressions when they’re the ones pounding me so when I see it on them it’s so unexpected and hot.”

Which Strap-on Should I Buy?

If you wanna try pegging, there are 4 different types of strap-ons you can buy.

1. Harness & Dildo – the most common and versatile type, you often see “harness and dildo kits” on sites like LoveHoney and SheVibe. These harnesses are adjustable to all waist sizes and usually come with 1 or more “O-rings”. These O-rings sit near the crotch and hold the dildo in place.

  • Versatile – fit people of all sizes
  • Often come with different dildo sizes
  • Work with any suitable flared-base dildo
  • Easy to use
  1. Vac-u-Lock – manufactured by sex toy company Doc Johnson, Vac-u-Lock strap-on kits are designed to be ultra-secure and stable, giving you the most rock-solid pegging penis. Vac-u-lock kits use a unique plug-like attachment to hold the dildo onto the harness firmly. Vac-u-lock dildos need to be used with a compatible vac-u-lock harness.
  • Ideal for pegging
  • Very strong and stable
  • Expensive
  • Harder to find
  1. Strapless Strap-on – “strapless strap-ons” like the Tantus Feeldoe are designed to be worn by people with vaginas. They’re held in place by a “bulb” or “pony” attachment using the same muscles that hold a tampon in place. Some use vibrations in the bulb to give the wearer pleasure, but these strap-ons are best reserved for lesbian couples.
  • Ideal for lesbians
  • No straps or harnesses
  • Pleasure for both partners
  • Not as strong or stable
  1. All-in-one Strap-on Kits – you can sometimes buy strap-on kits where the dildo is permanently attached to the harness and cannot be swapped out. These strap-ons are usually cheap, flimsy, and not ideal for pegging or anal sex.
  • Dildo permanently attached to harness
  • Cheap and low-quality
  • Flimsy
  • Not ideal for pegging

Which Strap-on Is Best For Anal Pegging?

Generally speaking, for a woman pegging a man in the bottom, I’d suggest a high-quality harness and dildo strap-on kit because you can easily experiment with different dildo sizes and work your way up over time.

Harnesses and dildo sets also have a high level of firmness and stability if used correctly – you need this for anal sex, as the butthole is much tighter than the vagina. The ass will put up more of a fight when you try to put stuff up there. Be prepared!

That segues us nicely into…

Lube, Douching, Fingering – How to Prepare for Pegging

Guys, if you’re reading this, I want you to know that anal sex feels great. As a man, it’s given me the best orgasms of my life. I have ejaculated from anal stimulation without touching my penis about 5 or 6 times. It’s insane.

But it ain’t no walk in the park, fellas.

You might want to consider anal douching before you go deep-diving down there.

Anal douching

The 2 types of douche I would recommend are bulb enemas (the classic squeezy design) and shower enema kits which use special shower attachment nozzles to clean out your butthole. Douching helps to flush poop out of your butthole, making it nice and clean with no nasty surprises.

However, if you eat a healthy diet and have very regular bowel movements, you might not need to douche, especially if you recently had a solid poop. In this case, a quick shower or wet wipe over the anus should suffice. The Sex Toy Collective’s anal douching guide goes into more detail.

Lube

Image from Broad City Pegging Episode: “Broad City” Knockoffs (TV Episode 2015)

Before pegging, apply a liberal amount of lube to the butthole and the dildo. I’d suggest lubing up the outside of the anus and also fingering it a little with a lubed-up finger.

Use a high-quality water-based lube, especially if using a silicone dildo.

DO NOT use silicone-based lube with a silicone dildo – it will destroy the toy.

Oil-based lubes and silicone-based lubes last the longest, but they can only be used with dildos made from stainless steel, glass, and wood.

Alas, you don’t find many wooden strap-ons.

Fingering

Giphy Image from Broad City Pegging Episode: “Broad City” Knockoffs (TV Episode 2015)

Brokeback Mountain made it look easy, but you can’t just bite the pillow and go in dry.

Ladies, warm him up by fingering his butthole with a lubed-up finger. Let him get used to the sensation of you being inside him. Slowly work up to 2 (or 3) fingers if and when he feels comfortable. You don’t need to move your fingers too much – let him get used to the stretch. This is new territory for a lot of guys.

Guys, relax. Your body will want to clench, but relax your ass and fight the urge to tense up. Relax. Accept the vulnerable position you’re in. Chill out. It will get better. When you feel ready, ask her to use 2 fingers or use the strap-on. It will get easier and more comfortable as your body adjusts.

Best Sex Positions for Pegging

So, what’s the best position for pegging? Which is the most comfortable?

Here are 3 pegging positions to try:

1.  Doggy Style – an old classic, everyone knows how to do it doggy style. He gets on his hands and knees, she kneels behind him and slides the dildo into his bottom. Doggy style is the easiest position for pegging newcomers as it’s relatively comfortable and ladies can grab their partner’s hips for leverage. You might need pillows to get the right height.

2. Reverse Lap Dance – the woman sits down, with the dildo pointing up. Facing away from her, the man spreads his legs and “sits” onto the dildo, a bit like giving a lap dance while facing outwards. Gravity can help the male partner to get the strap-on inside his bottom more easily, and he also has to do most of the work with a position like this.

3. Anal Missionary – if the male partner is flexible, he can try lying on his back with his legs in the air. The woman then penetrates him with the dildo while his legs rest on her shoulders. This position is a great way to target the prostate (P-spot) and allow the partners to maintain eye contact.

These are 3 common pegging positions, but ultimately it’s down to you guys to decide what works best for you!

Cum-clusion

I hope you enjoyed this guide to pegging and strap-on sex for beginners! Remember to communicate, take your time, and build up to this over time.

Pegging is new territory for a lot of guys and gals, so it’s natural to be nervous at first. Relax and have fun!

Sex By Moon

By
Dr Sparkle
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Photo by: Ahmad Hidayat on Unsplash

Have you ever wondered if the Moon plays a role in sex. Do we have more sex at different times of the Moon’s cycle? Is it the same if you are dating versus in a relationship? What role does it play with respect to gender? The answer to all these questions asked is, it depends.

What is good for one might not be good for another. Life is strange like that; we do not all fit into the same box.

The Moon has a strong effect on us. Throughout time, people have documented the behavior of living things with the lunar cycles. Humans have been known to have more energy, not sleep as much, and do some wild things. We do not know totally why the Moon affects us like this, but it does.

Photo by: Sanni Sahil on Unsplash

We know the four phases of the menstrual cycle run about 28 days, same as the Moon’s cycle. We also know the Moon controls the tides. Why is that important? According to the U.S. Geological Survey, a human adult body is made up to 60% water.

Researchers completed extensive studies several decades ago and found the proportion of water in our bodies. They went through the body piece by piece to find out where the water was. In the chart below, you can see just what proportion of each organ is water. For example, our skin is made up of 64% water and our lungs are 83% water.

Water Content of Human Organs

Organs Percentage
Brain and Heart Combined 73%
Lungs 83%
Skin 64%
Muscles and Kidneys Combined 79%
Bones 31%

 

Now, you might be asking, why do we care to know that our body is made up of water? Because, if the Moon affects the tides of the world, it makes sense that the Moon can affect us as well because of the 60% water we are made from. And we know about the Moon affecting hormones, thereby affecting all of us because it does not matter your gender, we all have hormones.

Your libido may rise and fall in sync with the cycles of the Moon, such as, on a Full Moon your sex drive might surge if ovulation coincides with the Moon. The following presents a brief summary of information for each phase of the lunar cycle.

New Moon is the best time to try new things.

  • New Partner
  • New Location
  • New Position

Waxing Moon is the best for self.

  • Self-Love
  • Self-Exploration
  • Self-Masturbation

Full Moon is the best time for sex.

  • Sexual Desires are at their highest
  • Hormonal levels are at their highest.
  • Pheromones levels are at their highest

Waning Moon is best for non-sexual activities.

  • Recharging Time.
  • Communicating and Planning Time.
  • Self-Care Time

But how does the Moon play a role in Dating versus in a Relationship. You find out that each phase of the lunar cycle changes our mindset regarding mood and actions. Please remember nothing is set in stone. These are just observations over the years by many. There are always outliers.

Photo by: Javardh on Unsplash

New Moon: This time is very fluid, so have fun.

Relationship: Because you are in a relationship, this is a great time to try something new with your partner. This is the time to let the fun ‘out’ and enjoy the experience. You do not want to be complacent in the relationship. This is the time when you want to add a little sugar and spice to it, to keep things interesting.

Dating: This is the perfect time for you to try new things out. See what you like and do not like. When dating you should keep a list with your goals to keep track of your progress. Also, it will let you deviate from your plan if you choose to go another way. Remember this is the time when you are putting yourself out there to find someone you want to be with.

Waxing Moon: This is a holding position, focusing on you.

Relationship: You each in the relationship need to look inward. Care for yourself then take the time to care for each other, treating the relationship as one. This can be hard at first so look at this way. Pamper and play with yourself, then take the time to spend time together. You may find that you are relaxed and free to self-explore each other during this time.

Dating: This is the time you start looking at who you want to date. If you have gone out on a date and this is a follow-up date, you are learning about each other and how well you fit together. Can you make your lives fit together?  Do you complement each other or are you at odds with each other?

Full Moon: Interesting, whether you are involved or not.

Relationship: This is the time when you could take your relationship to the next level, or a great time to say, ‘I Love You.’ Either way, this phase of the Moon is excellent for a stronger commitment. It is the time you both take sex to another plane. You have a deeper connection.

Dating: You will find that you slow down some. You might make a date only to have them cancel on you. When you do not have a connection or a deep bond, you may find yourself fighting or arguing with each other. If you are dating, having sex on a Full Moon may not happen.

Photo by: Ryan Young on Unsplash

Waning Moon: Time for rejuvenating and recharging.

Relationship: This is the time you and your partner self-reflect and reflect on your relationship. You have a deeper bond with each other, knowing the other plays a role in satisfying one’s needs. Because of the connection you each have you are able to enjoy the recharging together.

Dating: Consider what you have learned about yourself and the others you have dated. When you are dating, apply the information learned on the first date to the second and third. This will help build a deeper relationship with your date, especially if you are hoping for the date to blossom into something more.

One more thought to consider is Moon Bathing, another name is ‘Chandra Snana’, which is the bathing with or without water under Moonlight. Allowing the Moonlight to recharge you, giving you a feeling of well-being, but also making you feel purified. This can lead to a delightful time with yourself or with a partner. It has been known to bring the wild side out, especially under a full Moon.

What is the take away? The Moon does play a role in our sex lives when it comes to dating and/or relationships. Gender, not so much, because we all have hormones that are affected by the Moon’s pull. It is important to know that you can learn from previous actions so you can grow and understand later relationships, whether causal or serious, for a more enlighten time. Have fun and always keep things consensual.

The Whisper Model for Feminist Porn

By
Megan Hussey
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Photo found at Pexels, taken by CottonBro

The Feminist Sexpert Introduces the Whisper Model for Feminist Porn

Sigmund Freud once posed the question, “What do women want?” Well, we ladies have no earthly intentions of divulging that knowledge to Freud, as he was pretty much a sexist numnutz. And he’s dead now anyway. Through the years, though, a number of other peeps have posed the same question–particularly when it comes to feminine tastes in pornography.

Since the early 1980s, a number of excellent adult companies have created content custom made for women–releasing titles that are romantic, textured in terms of plot and story, nonviolent, and nonexploitative in nature, and that feature attractive male performers who are skilled at pleasing women. Yet, or so many content creators tell me, they experience some acute difficulty in reaching their target audience.

That may be because, or so many women tell me, they just don’t feel that comfortable shopping for porn. A single visit to a porn site can expose them to a barrage of male-directed movies whose covers and titles alone might give them nightmares–or, at the very least, make them really, really ticked. (THIS is what my husband is watching? That does it. I am so starching his boxers to the point of abject mummification). 

When a woman does see a title that appears promising–well, then she’s darned lucky, because many DVD/download cover images feature solo shots of hot women in various stages of undress–with little to no indication as to the strength and intellect of the character she portrays, the attractiveness of her male co-star, or the quality of the film’s storyline.

Back when the Feminist Sexpert was the Possemeister for the Playgirl Posse Fan Club, she and her ladies thought it would be super cool if a rating was established to alert female viewers about the suitability of adult films to align to their tastes (translation: This flick will really knock yer platforms off, Girl–and how!).

I originally suggested a handy abbreviation to assign to this rating–perhaps WS (Woman Safe)–but an abbreviation is hardly romantic. And just because a title fails to contain rough or rapey elements, the film might not depict a XXX love story, demonstrating in the process those tried and true techniques for pleasing and satisfying women–like if the movie contains even a single sequence of a lady hanging from the ceiling upside down so she can more easily and conveniently administer oral sex to a circle of rough, less than visually appealing men, then–sorry, Charlie!–that film will not merit my squeal of approval–or, for that matter, a much coveted WS designation!

Now I believe that our proposed feminist porn rating is so darned cool, that it deserves a whole name, all its very own! And so, in a pinch, I’ve come up with a potential label for our newly created seal of approval for feminist porn titles (drum roll please).

The Whisper Model.

The Whisper Model rating would come complete with a way cool logo that could be displayed easily on DVD boxes, movie marketing materials, and in the text of film reviews. When a woman sees this logo (perhaps a graphic of the Feminist Sexpert gracing the camera with a hearty wink and thumbs up sign combination–nah, just joking–surely we could come up with something better than that), she could be well assured that the movie bearing it will both respect her sensibilities and rock her world in equal measure. And really, for what more in life could we possibly ask? 


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Why Aqua Tantric Massage is a Must-Try

By
Valeriam Vincent
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Aqua tantric massage offers a unique blend of ancient healing practices and modern wellness techniques. This sensual experience combines the therapeutic properties of warm water with tantric massage methods, promoting deep physical and mental relaxation.

As a holistic approach, aqua tantric massage engages the senses, utilising skilful manipulation of touch, sound, and scent to create an immersive sensory journey. Beyond mere erotic pleasure, this practice aims to awaken and distribute sexual energy, fostering emotional bonding, intimacy, and meaningful connections.

The benefits of aqua tantric massage extend beyond physical relaxation. It helps release endorphins, reduce stress, and improve overall mood. Moreover, it can lead to enhanced self-awareness, increased confidence, and improved mental health by easing conditions like depression, anxiety, and mental confusion.

Whether enjoyed in professional spa settings or through practices like sacred baths at home, aqua tantric massage offers a luxurious and rejuvenating experience for individuals seeking mind-body wellness.

Discover how this unique combination of water and touch therapies can unlock a world of sensual healing and personal growth.

What is Aqua Tantric Massage?

Aqua Tantric Massage, involves being partially or fully submerged in warm water. It’s a spiritual, sexual practice aiming to forge connections through touch and breathing.

Clients experience a fully naked, sensual therapy to relax tense muscles. The massage awakens and distributes sexual energy, facilitating healing and the release of natural energy from within the body.

It provides a unique sensual experience combining physical relaxation and sexual energies.

Benefits of Aqua Tantric Massage

Aqua Tantric Massage harmoniously blends water therapy, sensual touch, and mindful presence. This unique experience cultivates profound relaxation, heightened intimacy, and holistic well-being.

Physical and Mental Relaxation

Aqua Tantric massage releases endorphins, nature’s feel-good chemicals. These blissful hormones induce profound physical and mental relaxation. Tension melts away as the gentle strokes promote tranquillity and an elevated mood.

Immersing in warm waters during an aqua massage spa session heightens the soothing sensations. The calming combination of touch and water therapies rejuvenates the mind and body.

Stress dissolves, leaving you refreshed and recharged.

Improved Intimacy and Connection

Beyond physical relaxation, aqua tantric massage cultivates profound emotional bonds. Warm water and gentle touch harmonise, fostering trust, and vulnerability – gateways to deeper intimacy.

This sensual experience transcends the erotic, nurturing sacred connections.

London’s finest practitioners masterfully blend Eastern traditions with Western techniques. Shower your senses with a luxurious, rejuvenating journey towards mind-body unity. Couples discover newfound closeness, reigniting passion through shared bliss.

Heightened Sensory Experience

Aqua tantric massage awakens your senses through mindful touch and breathwork. Warm water enhances receptivity, allowing pleasurable sensations to cascade over your body. The skillful manipulation of sound, scent, and ambience creates an immersive, multi-sensory experience.

Improved Overall Well-Being

Aqua tantric massage cultivates holistic wellness, nurturing mind, body, and spirit harmony. This aquatic journey rejuvenates the soul, alleviating stress, anxiety, and mental fatigue.

Immersed in warm waters, the senses awaken, promoting profound relaxation and inner peace. As tensions melt away, a renewed vitality emerges, enhancing overall well-being.

Beyond physical restoration, aqua tantric massage fosters emotional balance. Gentle, rhythmic movements unlock emotional blockages, releasing pent-up emotions. This liberating experience strengthens self-awareness and self-acceptance, boosting confidence and self-esteem.

The Experience of Aqua Tantric Massage

The Experience of Aqua Tantric Massage envelops you in a sensual, warm embrace. Gliding strokes and rhythmic motions harmonise with the caressing waters to awaken every nerve ending.

Techniques and Rhythms Utilized

Aqua tantric massage incorporates diverse techniques and rhythms. These rhythmic movements mimic life’s natural flow, aiding anxiety and tension release.

  • Effleurage: Gliding strokes employ water’s viscous resistance for deep relaxation.
  • Petrissage: Kneading motions stimulate muscles, boosting circulation and lymphatic drainage.
  • Tapotement: Percussive tapping enhances sensory awareness, promoting mindfulness.
  • Friction: Circular movements generate gentle heat, alleviating stiffness.
  • Rocking: Cradling motions instil a sense of security and nurturing.
  • Acupressure: Applying pressure to specific points unleashes revitalising energy pathways.
  • Tantric Breathing: Controlled breathing synchronises mind-body harmony, intensifying pleasure.
  • Chakra Balancing: Aligning energy centres fosters profound inner tranquillity.

Use of Warm Water

Aqua tantric massage employs warm water deeply relaxing muscles. The water’s warmth improves blood flow as tension melts away. Additionally, the water’s resistance soothes physical stress, promoting overall well-being.

Warm water heightens sensory awareness during aqua tantric massage. Its buoyancy alleviates pressure, enabling complete surrender. The rhythmic caress of water envelops the body, amplifying touch sensations.

Options for Professional or At-Home Sessions

Aqua Tantric Massage offers a luxurious experience, whether you choose a professional spa session or prefer the convenience of your home. Professional massages often include rituals like a sacred bath or rosebud massage, enhancing the overall indulgence.

Why Aqua Tantric Massage is a Must-Try

You understand a profound connection through water and touch. This extraordinary experience nurtures intimacy, heightens sensations, and rejuvenates mind and body.

Unique Combination of Water and Touch Therapies

Aqua Tantric Massage stands apart, combining water and skilled touch for a truly rejuvenating encounter. Warm water envelops the body, heightening sensitivity as expert practitioners apply rhythmic strokes.

This harmonious fusion transcends physical realms, fostering a profound mind-body connection. The experience activates the senses, melting away tension while igniting passion and intimacy.

Luxurious and Rejuvenating Experience

Aqua tantric massage offers a sublime experience, combining the soothing power of warm water with the sensual art of touch. Immerse yourself in this luxurious ritual, transcending the physical to rejuvenate your mind, body, and spirit.

This indulgent practice merges the revitalising benefits of hydrotherapy with the ancient wisdom of tantric techniques. Surrender to the caress of gentle currents as skilled therapists guide you through a choreography of strokes and rhythms, unlocking profound states of relaxation and inner peace.

Incorporates Mind and Body Wellness

Transitioning from the luxurious rejuvenation, aqua tantric massage harmonises physical and mental well-being. Beyond sensual bliss, it cultivates holistic healing. Tantric techniques instil positive energy, easing the mind and soul.

Aqua sessions reduce cortisol levels, calming the psyche and relaxing muscles. This unique therapy diminishes depression, anxiety, and mental turmoil. The rhythmic strokes and warm water immerse you in a soothing experience, promoting overall wellness.

Conclusion

In wrapping up, aqua tantric massage is more than just a spa treatment; it’s a deeply enriching experience that blends the comforting embrace of warm water with the mindful touch of massage, guiding you to new levels of relaxation and intimacy. It’s an opportunity to pause, breathe, and connect—with yourself and, potentially, with a partner. The practice stands out as a powerful way to unwind, recharge, and find balance amidst life’s chaos.

So, if you’re looking for a way to melt away stress, elevate your mood, and maybe even improve your relationships, consider giving aqua tantric massage a try. It’s a chance to let the restorative power of water and the ancient art of touch work their magic on you, leaving you feeling refreshed, centred, and connected. Whether you choose to make it part of your self-care routine at home or treat yourself to a professional session, it’s an indulgence that promises profound benefits for both body and soul.



The Benefits of Using Sex Toys

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Valeriam Vincent
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The benefits of using sex toys can help with your changing times.  Your sexuality changes all the time. Your sexuality develops, changes, and adapts as you do with your interests, passions, and friendships. What if, however, you reach a point where your sexual development stops?

Taking care of your sexuality is easy to put on the back burner when you consider how hectic, overstimulated, and stressed out most people are these days. When you take care of your sexuality, you take care of your health. “Explore sexuality” should be one of your New Year’s resolutions.

There has always been an interest in sex toys. Actually, phallic artefacts, sex toys, and dildos have been around for a long time; in fact, proof of their use dates back to classical Greece.

Those who are unfamiliar with the world of thehotspot.com.au may feel overwhelmed by the sheer number of options accessible nowadays. More and more people are turning to sex toys as a fun way to experiment with different parts of their bodies and spice up their sex lives.

When dealing with menopause, low sex desire, or decreased genital feeling, some people find that sex toys assist. These side effects can be caused by particular medications, health issues, or even just plain old menopause.

When shopping for a toy, though, it can be challenging to make a quick choice due to the abundance of alternatives. It’s the same as perusing the seemingly endless aisles of sex toys at your neighbourhood sex toy store, each one promising a different kind of climax. How do you choose the best option from all the available choices?

In an effort to be of service, we have compiled this detailed advice on sex toy usage with the help of our reliable Mumsnet readers. Learn about the many varieties of sex toys, how to pick the best one for you, and get your questions answered about the products.

Therefore, this manual has everything you need to make your solo play more exciting or your partner’s play more exciting by means of mutual masturbation. Stay tuned for our comprehensive tutorial on the proper use of sex toys.

Make sure you don’t miss out on these must-have sex accessories: read our reviews of the top condoms, lubricant, and vibrators.

One of the best ways to learn about oneself and gain self-confidence is to play around with sex toys. Using one when playing alone is a fun and safe method to figure out what you want, which in turn makes for better sexual experiences.

To improve one’s mental health, sex toys can be a great stress reliever. When you’re sexually aroused and have an orgasmic experience, your body releases feel-good endorphins, which make you feel calm and happy.

Learning about one’s own wants, needs, and limits via experimenting with various sex toys promotes self-awareness.

The ability to concentrate on the pleasurable physical sensations rather than one’s own self-consciousness is one way in which sex toys can boost body positivity and confidence.

A sense of agency:

Using sex toys gives you the power to direct your own enjoyment.

When couples use sex toys during intimate activities, it can heighten the level of closeness and communication between them. When couples take the time to learn about one other’s interests and desires, they can develop a stronger bond and trust each other more.

Diversity and originality:

Spice up sex with something new and exciting, and keep things interesting in the bedroom.

The Evolution of Virtual Relationships

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Valeriam Vincent
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As technology continues to advance at an exponential rate, it’s no surprise that our relationships are evolving alongside it. In this era of rapid technological innovation, platforms like Tingo.ai stand as pioneers in the evolution of virtual relationships, offering users a gateway to a world where companionship knows no bounds. Create your own AI Girlfriend and embark on a personalized digital adventure.

The Rise of Virtual Companionship

In a world where digital connectivity reigns supreme, the concept of virtual companionship is no longer confined to the realm of science fiction. With platforms like Tingo.ai leading the charge, individuals now have the opportunity to create and interact with AI girlfriends tailored to their desires. This shift marks a significant evolution in the way we perceive and engage in relationships, blurring the lines between reality and virtuality.

Customization and Personalization

At the heart of Tingo.ai lies the promise of customization and personalization. Users are invited to create their ideal companions, shaping every aspect from appearance to personality traits. From selecting body type, hair color, and clothing style to defining personality archetypes like “Nympho,” “Lover,” “Temptress,” or “Submissive,” individuals can tailor their AI girlfriends to suit their preferences, fostering a deeper sense of connection and intimacy.

Defining Personality Archetypes

However, the customization doesn’t end with mere aesthetics. Tingo.ai goes a step further by allowing users to define the personality traits of their AI girlfriends, adding layers of depth and complexity to their virtual relationships. Whether one seeks a playful “Jester,” a nurturing “Caregiver,” or an enigmatic “Temptress,” individuals can curate a personality archetype that resonates with their desires, fostering a deeper sense of connection and intimacy.

Exploring Boundless Possibilities

With Tingo.ai, users are not constrained by societal norms or conventional standards of beauty and behavior. Instead, they are invited to explore the full spectrum of their desires and fantasies, unrestricted by the limitations of the physical world. This liberation opens the door to a realm of endless possibilities, where users can forge connections with AI girlfriends that transcend the boundaries of traditional relationships.

Fostering Deeper Connections

By offering such a high degree of customization and personalization, Tingo.ai facilitates the cultivation of deeper connections between users and their AI companions. Through the alignment of appearance and personality traits with individual preferences, users can create companions that resonate with them on a profound level, fostering a sense of intimacy and understanding that transcends the digital realm.

Ethical Considerations

However, with this newfound freedom comes a host of ethical considerations. The creation and interaction with AI companions raise questions about consent, objectification, and the boundaries of human-technology interaction. As we navigate this uncharted territory, it’s imperative to tread carefully and consider the implications of our actions on both ourselves and our virtual companions.

The Psychology of Virtual Relationships

At the core of virtual relationships lies the intricate interplay of psychology and technology. For many users, AI companions serve as a source of comfort, companionship, and even emotional support. The ability to engage in meaningful conversations, share experiences, and explore fantasies with a virtual companion can have profound psychological effects, offering a sense of fulfillment and connection in an increasingly fragmented world.

Challenges and Opportunities

While platforms like Tingo.ai offer a glimpse into the future of virtual relationships, they also present a myriad of challenges. From privacy concerns to the potential for addiction, navigating the complexities of virtual companionship requires careful consideration and responsible usage. However, with these challenges come opportunities for growth and exploration, as we continue to push the boundaries of what is possible in human-technology interaction.

The Future of Virtual Relationships

As technology continues to advance at an unprecedented pace, the future of virtual relationships holds immense promise. From advancements in AI technology to the integration of virtual reality, the possibilities for immersive and meaningful interactions are limitless. Whether it’s forging connections with AI companions or exploring virtual worlds together, platforms like Tingo.ai are at the forefront of this revolution, shaping the way we perceive and engage in relationships in the digital age.

In conclusion, the evolution of virtual relationships represents a paradigm shift in human interaction, offering new opportunities for connection, intimacy, and self-expression. As we embrace the possibilities of platforms like Tingo.ai, it’s essential to approach virtual relationships with empathy, mindfulness, and a deep understanding of the complex interplay between technology and humanity. Only then can we truly unlock the transformative potential of virtual companionship in the modern world.

The Business of Pleasure: Critical Examination of OnlyFans and its Impact on Sexual Wellness

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Valeriam Vincent
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In recent years, OnlyFans has emerged as a dominant force in the digital landscape, revolutionizing how individuals consume and monetize adult content. The platform allows creators to share exclusive content with subscribers for a monthly fee, cultivating a direct connection between content producers and consumers. While OnlyFans has garnered significant attention and controversy, its impact on sexual wellness warrants critical examination.

The Rise of OnlyFans

OnlyFans—launched in 2016—was initially conceived as a subscription-based social media platform enabling creators to generate income from their content. While it was not explicitly designed for adult content, its flexibility and subscription model quickly attracted adult performers seeking a more lucrative and autonomous platform for their work. As a result, the platform became synonymous with adult entertainment, showcasing the best girls OnlyFans offers alongside exclusive photos, videos and other content, now boasting millions of users and creators worldwide. This rapid ascent underscores a broader trend towards decentralized and creator-centric platforms, challenging traditional models of content distribution and monetization. Moreover, the success of OnlyFans reflects a growing demand for intimate and personalized content experiences, where users increasingly seek authentic connections and direct engagement with creators in the digital realm.

Economic Empowerment or Exploitation?

One of the central debates surrounding OnlyFans revolves around the economic dynamics between creators and consumers. Advocates argue that the platform empowers creators by providing them with a source of income and autonomy over their content. For many individuals, OnlyFans offers an alternative to traditional employment, allowing them to monetize their sexuality on their terms. However, critics raise concerns about the potential for manipulation and the perpetuation of unequal power dynamics, arguing that OnlyFans may exploit creators—particularly those from marginalized communities who may face economic pressures or lack alternative employment opportunities. Moreover, some critics contend that OnlyFans perpetuates harmful stereotypes and objectification, commodifying intimacy for profit. Ultimately, balancing economic freedom and ethical concerns remains at the core of the OnlyFans debate.

Impact on Sexual Wellness

The impact of OnlyFans on sexual wellness is a complex and multifaceted issue. Proponents argue the platform can promote sexual empowerment and liberation by providing a space for individuals to explore and express their sexuality without judgment. OnlyFans allows creators to cater to diverse interests and preferences, promoting inclusivity and representation within the adult entertainment industry. Moreover, supporters contend that OnlyFans can enhance sexual wellness by facilitating more authentic and consensual interactions between creators and consumers. Unlike mainstream pornography which often prioritizes unrealistic portrayals of sex and pleasure, OnlyFans content is typically user-generated and personalized, reflecting the desires and boundaries of both parties involved. However, ensuring that such empowerment remains inclusive and respectful of boundaries remains a challenge.

Challenges to Sexual Wellness on OnlyFans

Critics caution that OnlyFans may also have negative implications for sexual wellness, particularly regarding unrealistic beauty standards and performance pressures. The platform’s emphasis on visual aesthetics and subscriber engagement metrics may contribute to feelings of inadequacy or insecurity among both creators and consumers. Additionally, concerns have been raised about the potential for coercion within the creator-consumer dynamic, particularly in cases where creators may feel pressured to cater to specific fetishes or requests. Furthermore, the blurred lines between personal and professional boundaries on OnlyFans can exacerbate issues related to consent and emotional well-being, raising questions about the ethical implications of intimate content creation and consumption in the digital age. Navigating these complexities requires careful consideration of both individual agency and systemic influences.

Regulatory Challenges and Ethical Considerations

The rapid growth of OnlyFans has prompted regulatory and ethical concerns regarding content moderation, age verification, and the protection of creators and consumers. While OnlyFans has implemented measures to verify the age and identity of its users and to moderate potentially harmful or illegal content, challenges remain in ensuring compliance with diverse legal jurisdictions and safeguarding against manipulation or harm. Moreover, the ethical implications of OnlyFans extend beyond content moderation to broader questions of consent, privacy and representation. As creators and consumers navigate the complexities of digital intimacy, ethical guidelines and industry standards are needed to promote accountability, transparency and respect for individual agency and autonomy. Addressing these challenges requires collaboration between platform operators, policymakers and advocacy groups to develop comprehensive solutions prioritizing the well-being and rights of all involved parties while upholding principles of freedom of expression and personal choice.

The Future of OnlyFans and Sexual Wellness

As OnlyFans continues to evolve and expand its influence, the implications for sexual wellness remain subject to ongoing debate and scrutiny; while the platform offers unprecedented opportunities for economic empowerment and sexual expression, it also raises important questions about exploitation, consent and ethical responsibility. Moving forward, a nuanced and evidence-based approach is needed to address the complex intersections of technology, commerce and sexuality. By engaging in critical dialogue and collaboration, stakeholders can work towards promoting a culture of sexual wellness that respects diversity, autonomy and dignity for all individuals involved in the business of pleasure. This requires a commitment to fostering a safe and inclusive environment that prioritizes the well-being of creators and consumers while also recognizing and addressing the broader societal factors that shape attitudes towards sex and intimacy.

Get to Know Your Partner and What They Like

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April Unfiltered
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In order to get to know your partner and what they like, there are a series of questions you should ask. Begin by letting your partner know that you want to learn to prioritize them sexually. If there has been an orgasm gap in your relationship, the first step is to acknowledge that. This may take some mindset changes, but it is possible and healthy to begin this orgasm equality journey together.

Now, unfortunately there are a lot of people that have no idea what turns them on.  Some partners have never prioritized themselves in this way and wouldn’t know where to start even if they wanted to.

I’ve created this list of questions to help start you on this journey. You may need to take several detours along the way, maybe a field trip or two to really pin point some of their favorite and not-so-favorite things. But let’s get started.

What things turn her on sexually?

  • Are there any smells that they really loves? A certain perfume, cologne, an essential oil or candle.
  • Do they like to feel things like soft blankets or super fluffy pillows? Silk sheets?
  • Have they ever read a romance novel? Romance novels don’t need to be dirty or raunchy to get our imaginations going. In my opinion, romance novels tend to get a bad reputation, but they are worth looking into. Does reading a romance novel sound like something your partner would enjoy?
  • Is there a sound they really like? Raindrops, thunderstorms, creeks, crashing ocean waves. What about music? Are there songs that really resonate?

Remember, the key is not just to start the engine but to transport to a place that matters.

You may already know this one, but do they have a drink that really soothes them? A favorite wine, hot tea, coffee, hot cocoa, maybe even kombucha.

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Aphrodisiacs

  • Aphrodisiacs can be an incredible turn on too, especially chocolate.
  • What’s their favorite food?
  • Do they like sweet things like strawberries and chocolate cake? Or more salty?
  • Food play can be fun and exciting. Starting in the kitchen can be a great idea.

In fact, food can be such a turn on that you can buy lubes that are mint chocolate chip, pina colada, and birthday cake flavored (and many many more).

Fantasy

Does you and your partner have any fantasies?  When people think of the word “fantasy” they think of having sex or sexual relation in odd and awkward situations. That is not what I am referring to.

When I say fantasy, it’s more realistic, something that could happen any day. A scene may play out in their mind, such as, where you come home and hold each other for a few minutes then the scene unfolds. Would you like to write out a screen play of the two of you that you can act out later, you should ask.

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How can you play together? What sounds fun to her?

Are there things that tend to distract her when you want to have sex? Think external distractions like pets, cell phones, tv in the background, a pile of dirty laundry that’s been sitting in the corner for a few weeks.

Now consider internal distractions. This list can be extensive like that phone call or text she’s been meaning to return for several hours (or days). Perhaps she had a fight with her bestie and now she can’t focus on anything else. She might have a long list of to-dos that just doesn’t seem to get smaller no matter what she does.

What can you do to help with those external and internal distractions?

Ask them what her top 3 distractions are and work together to clear them.  Ask her what her favorite memory is of the two of you, tell her to be specific. This will give you a lot of clues about the things she values. Does she remember the smells? Was it raining? Maybe there was a warm fire. Did she like the smell, feel, or look of the fire? Do you see where I’m going with this? If you are able, try and recreate that scene for her. It’s likely that things have changed since that memory. The outcome may not be the same as it was, do not take that as a loss.

Enjoy the journey together, learn who she is now. Women go through so much change. Our needs and wants can change drastically as time goes on. We may hate something that we loved 15 years ago.That is why it is important not to guess at these questions. Take the time to figure out who she is today. If nothing else, she will appreciate you taking the time to prioritize her.

Single Dating Sex

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Dr Sparkle
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Looking differently at some statistics regarding single dating sex, we discover that sex on the first date is quite common these days. How many of you can relate to these numbers?

A survey done in August 2023 by Forbes Health polled 5,000 U.S. respondents who dated actively in the past five years. Nearly 30% used online dating and the study found that 70% of individuals who met someone using that method said the meeting led to an exclusive relationship which was romantic. Another 28% said the date did not lead to anything.

It seems females still prefer a face-to-face meeting while males are more likely to use and find someone on a dating app. The top three places to find someone to date are online dating, at 45%, followed by an introduction through a friend, at 33%, and lastly connecting with someone at concerts or festivals, at 32%.

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The U.S. Census Bureau says there are over 117 million people who are single in the U.S. This is nearly 47% of the total population.

According to a survey by The Harris Poll Thought Leadership Practice, 25% of the single population are not interested in a relationship. And in the same poll, they found 80% of the sample thought they could be happy not being married.

Looking at a world view, according to the International Union of Sex Workers, there are around 2.1 billion people in the world that are single.

If you have ever been out in the dating world, you know there are many reasons why a person does not date. These can range anywhere from not being able to flirt to being too picky.

Things that also play a role in dating can be children, money, education, politics, health problems, bad luck, and appearance, to name a few. The following tables gives us some numbers to put things into perspective.

Top Countries with Singles By Percentage
From: International Union of Sex Workers
Ranking Country Percentage Single People
1 Denmark 24.1% 2.93 million
2 France 22.8% 27.7 million
3 Finland 19.6% 5.4 million
4 Belgium 19.5% 5.9 million
5 Norway 19.3% 1.4million

 

Surprisingly, the United States falls 21st in this table with 13.4% of adults being single and living alone. Coming in last is Turkey, at the bottom of the list, with only 3.9% of its adult population being single.

A further review shows that the culture of the country comes into play because you have a number of counties, like Turkey, where arranged marriages are common and there is no “dating,” as discussed in this article. Something to think about.

Continuing to look at the international data, we now analyze the percentage of individuals who have sex on their first date, and at what age this happens:

Percentage who had sex on a first date, by gender and sexuality:
From: International Union of Sex Workers
Gender and Sexuality Percentage
straight men 41%
straight women 21%
gay men 72%
gay women 53%

 

Looking at these statistics, gay men tend to be freer to have sex on the first date while straight women tend to be more cautious on the first date.

Percentage who had sex on a first date, by age groups:
From: International Union of Sex Workers
Age Group Percentage
18 to 24 22%
25 to 34 39%
35 to 44 39%
45 to 54: 39%
54 to 64 34%
65 and older 25%

The age group 25 to 54 seems to have more sex on the first date than any other bracket.

Returning to the U.S. data, we consider how race and income level might relate to sex on the first date:

Percentage who had sex on a first date, by race:
From: Bedbible Research Center
Race Percentage
White 38%
African-American 33%
Hispanic 39%
Asian 16%

 

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Hispanics come in first while the whites are close behind with Asians coming in last. There have been other studies that suggest that the African-American percentage group could be higher, as much as 45%, a difference of 12% compared to this study.

The ‘real’ number could lie somewhere in between due to where the survey was taken.

Percentage who had sex on a first date by income:
From: Bedbible Research Center
Income Percentage
Under $25,000 30%
$25,000 to $49,999 35%
$50,000 to $74,999 33%
$75,000 to $99,999 40%
$100,000 to $124,999 34%
$125,000 or higher 34%

 

Combining the data and just taking the highest percentage given in each category suggests this scenario: if you live in Denmark and are a Hispanic gay man between the ages of 25 to 54 with an income of $75,000 to $99,999, you have a very good chance of having sex on your first date.

It is very interesting how gender, sexuality, race, age, income, and yes, the country where you are from, can play a role in your dating habits.

But remember there are other influences like being too picky, health problems, being from the same demographic, and whether you have that spark for the other person.

Dating can be challenging in many aspects.

So, whether you are just looking for a one-night stand or you want that date to go to the next level, either way, dating takes work but it can be rewarding because you learn about yourself along the way. It is a process.

Have fun and always keep things consensual.

The Art Of Sexy Forethought

By
Ralph Greco
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I indeed know what a bee sting tastes like, and this knowledge comes from the art of sexy forethought moment I experienced and am so happy I suddenly recalled when reading the article below.

This story, Perry’s Ice Cream unveils 5 new flavors – what does a Bee Sting taste like?, got to me today, less because of the varied ice cream flavors mentioned (although I do like me some ice cream) but more because of the mention of what a “Bee Sting” might taste like.

I once dated a girl who used a “Bee Sting” lip gloss. I’m not exactly sure if it was cinnamon or some completely manmade chemical ingredient worked into the sticky lip compound that gave it the tingle it delivered. But if I kissed this girl and she was wearing this lip gloss (she wore it often and I often kissed her) I’d get back a little sparkle across my lips.

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Nothing uncomfortable or off-putting, not even a real ‘sting,’ (not that there is anything wrong feeling a little sting with sex) it was just a little extra something brought about by the young lady’s sexy forethought in buying this product, smearing it across what were her quite generous lips, all in anticipating that those lips might land on mine in the near future.  I also know she liked tasting the bee sting sparkle when she’d occasionally tease her tongue across her lips.

As I grow older and am treated to the consistent breakdown of my body and spirit, I realize more than ever before how important the small things in life are. And how, with the blistering fast passage of years, we can so easily have these seemingly little morsels of moments pass us by with nary a notice.

When it comes to our intimate encounters, we surely can miss a sexy forethought since they usually lead to those moments of deeper sexual (deeper sexual, “that’s what she said”) import.

Foreplay and all that gets us where we so want to get to that sometimes we don’t appetite the build-up, the side-long glance, a few buttons undone over a heaving cleavage, the growing bulge, the idea that somebody thought enough to purchase Bee Sting Lip Gloss to add just an extra little tickle in her next encounter with us.

I’m warning you my little droogs, heed me well. You need damn well notice, recognize, and
cherish the moments of sexy forethought. They pass all too soon and sometimes we don’t get to play them a second time.

Explore the Power of Tantric Foreplay to Enhance Intimacy

By
Valeriam Vincent
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Many couples struggle to maintain intimacy in their relationships. Tantric foreplay is an ancient practice that can deepen emotional and physical connection. This article explores how tantric techniques like mindful touch and breathwork can enhance intimacy.

Find out how tantric foreplay can intensify your intimate experiences.

Understanding Tantric Foreplay

Understanding tantric foreplay goes beyond physical intimacy. It involves mindfully connecting on a deeper emotional and spiritual level.

Meaning and Purpose

Tantric foreplay redirects sexual energy from the genitals to the entire body. It enables couples to experience a full body orgasm. Tantric foreplay deepens the spiritual bond and intimacy between partners.

Tantric massage aligns individual energy, balances masculine and feminine energies, awakens the union of consciousness, form, spirituality, and sexuality, and provides a therapeutic energy-aligning experience.

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Benefits of Practicing

Tantric foreplay cultivates mindfulness. Partners become present and attentive to each other’s needs, deepening intimacy and emotional connection. Couples experience heightened sensuality and arousal.

Tantric techniques prolong pleasure, delaying orgasm. This intensifies the sexual journey and fulfilment.

Tantric practices reduce stress and anxiety. They promote relaxation and contentment through conscious breathing and sensual touches. Emotional barriers dissolve as trust builds between partners.

Individuals overcome insecurities and traumas related to sexuality. They develop self-acceptance and self-love.

Explore different types of massage that will awaken new erogenous zones such as yoni, whole body, lingam, etc. This arouses passion and excitement in long-term relationships. Regular tantric intimacy boosts overall well-being and happiness.

Mindful and Conscious Connection

Tantric foreplay cultivates mindfulness. Partners connect consciously, embracing the present moment’s sensations. This deepens intimacy through undivided attention on each other.

Tantric practices emphasise conscious touch and breath awareness. Eye gazing and sensual communication heighten physical and emotional bonding. Partners explore pleasure patiently, releasing expectations.

This fosters profound trust and vulnerability within the sacred space they create.

Creating the Right Environment

Creating the Right Environment section needs a tranquil atmosphere. Soft music and dim lighting evoke sensuality.

Setting the Mood

Creating a serene ambience sets the tone for a profound tantric experience. Dim lighting, candles, and soft music foster an atmosphere of tranquillity. Scented oils or incense infuse the space with alluring aromas, engaging the senses.

Ensure the room feels inviting, cosy, and free from distractions.

Adorn the environment with cosy fabrics, plush pillows, and comfortable surfaces to facilitate ease of movement. Incorporate elements that evoke sensuality, such as rose petals scattered across the bed or floor.

Establishing Trust and Communication

Establishing trust and open communication forms the bedrock of tantric intimacy. Cultivating a safe, non-judgmental space allows vulnerabilities to surface. Express emotions, boundaries and desires honestly.

Forget inhibitions and let go of expectations. Agree on mutual comfort levels before exploring new territories. Active listening and empathy breed mutual understanding.

Incorporating Sensory Elements

Heightening intimacy necessitates exploring sensual realms. Tantalising sights, scintillating sounds, alluring aromas, and sensual textures awaken passion. Caressing the body with feathers, silk, or fragrant oils ignites desire.

Integrating sensory delights during tantric foreplay amplifies erotic energy. Flickering candlelight casts dancing shadows, inspiring creativity. Soft music entrances, while aromatic oils relax muscles.

Relishing each moment kindles profound connections.

Techniques for Enhanced Intimacy

Techniques for Enhanced Intimacy” section explores mindful touch, sensual communication, and exploring different positions. Discover ways to deepen your connection.

Mindful Touch and Massage

Couples crave deeper intimacy. Tantric massage uses a conscious touch. Caressing awakens the senses. Slow strokes heighten awareness. Gentle squeezes release tension. Fingers trace energy lines.

Palms explore erogenous zones. Breath synchronises movements. Mindful techniques connect minds and bodies. Tantra embraces full-body arousal. Lingering kisses ignite passion. 

The clitoris receives loving attention. Tantric foreplay prolongs pleasure. Orgasms become whole-body experiences. Intimacy strengthens emotional bonds.

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Sensual Communication

Sensual communication nurtures intimacy. Couples express desires through touch, eye contact, and body language. Open discussions foster trust and vulnerability. Mindful listening deepens understanding between partners.

Vocal expression enhances sensual connection. Couples share fantasies, boundaries, and feedback. Using affirming words during intimate moments heightens arousal. Moans and sighs communicate pleasure.

Tantric foreplay embraces vocal expression.

Exploring Different Positions

Exploring different positions amplifies tantric foreplay—couples alternate positioning, aligning bodies for profound energetic connection. Lying side by side enables sensual touch, caressing from head to toe.

Seated stances facilitate eye gazing, deepening emotional bonds. Woman straddling allows access to massaging sacred spaces.

Switching positions continually redirects energy flow. Varied stances prevent stagnation, keeping intimacy alive. Creativity heightens arousal, unlocking new sensations. Transitioning seamlessly between postures maintains an unbroken connection.

Taking Your Intimacy to the Next Level

Increase intimacy with exercises in synced breathing and sustained eye contact. Enhance your connection by incorporating gratitude into your routine.

Integrating Breathwork and Eye Gazing

Breathwork forms an integral part of tantric foreplay. Synchronising breaths creates a profound connection. Eye gazing deepens emotional bonds, and lingering eye contact heightens intimacy.

Both enhance physical and spiritual closeness.

Controlling breaths calms the mind. Eye contact releases oxytocin, the bonding hormone. This promotes trust, vulnerability, and emotional openness. Couples achieve profound states of arousal and ecstasy.

Deepening Emotional and Physical Connection

Tantric foreplay fosters profound emotional and physical intimacy. Couples connect through mindful touch, eye gazing, and synchronised breathing, heightening sensations and allowing partners to experience each other profoundly.

Gratitude exercises reinforce appreciation, strengthening emotional bonds. Tantric techniques awaken sensuality, amplifying pleasure and orgasms.

Integrating breathwork harmonises energies, facilitating deep merging. Synchronised breathing induces trance-like states of unity. Tantric practitioners attain profound spiritual connection transcending physical pleasure.

Lingering in exquisite moments deepens closeness and vulnerability. Sensual communication enhances understanding between lovers.

Practicing Gratitude and Graciousness

Embracing gratitude amplifies intimacy. Appreciate each other’s presence, vulnerability, and willingness to explore. Express thankfulness for shared moments, fostering more profound connections.

Graciousness nurtures emotional safety. Approach your partner with kindness, respect, and acceptance. Celebrate individuality while cherishing unity. This harmonious dynamic strengthens intimacy.

Conclusion

Tantric foreplay opens doors to profound intimacy. Embracing conscious touch awakens deeper connections. Mindful exploration of sensuality ignites passion within. Breathwork and present-moment awareness deepen the journey.

Ultimately, tantric practices offer transformative experiences for couples.

 

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