10 Juicy Relationship Ideas for June
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Things are starting to warm up, so here are some hot relationship ideas to bring on the heat this June!
Relationship Ideas
Why are weddings so popular in June?
Historically it was the ideal time to conceive a child, since a spring birth the following year would ensure better winter survival. These days not everyone opts for spring nuptials, so let’s bring on some new traditions for this happy month to spice things up in our relationships, whether we’re tying the knot – or not!
In my book, Neuroloveology, I explore the positive results of actively seeking new behavior with your partner. When you learn something new together, or step outside your comfort zone as a couple, you grow your brain cells, and your relationship.
Here are ten juicy relationships ideas and ways you can take this relationship-enhancing step, and create a new June tradition while you’re at it!
Make A Fantasy Come True
Sharing sexual fantasies with your lover can boost arousal and provide an avenue of exciting escape for both of you. Choose an idea – whether it’s making love in a public place or dressing up like a cowboy – and make it happen! Use your imaginations and exhilarate your brains and bodies together.
Aphrodisiac Feast
When you grab groceries this week, add some aphrodisiacs to your cart and make a tradition out of serving an sexy feast to your lover. Pumpkin pie boosts men’s penis blood flow by 40%, and licorice stimulates women’s sex glands, bringing oxygen to the female genitals 40% faster. Go here for more sexy feast ideas.
Striptease Please
For this little number, you will need a few props: layered clothing, sexy lingerie, high heels, some sexy background music and a chair. Find an open space in your home and sit your partner down in the chair. Play your favorite sexy music and let the dancing begin!
Sexy Picture Day
Why not start a tradition of photographing each other nude? You don’t need to share them with anyone else, and watching each other pose can be a huge turn-on. There is nothing more beautiful than the human form in its natural state.
Weekend in Bed
Start by clearing your schedule. The only work you’re going to be doing over the weekend is pleasing your lover between the sheets! Cook breakfast naked in the kitchen and then eat it together in bed. Skip lunch and order take-out food for dinner.
Sensual Experience
Before making love, prepare something to heighten all of your and your lover’s senses to create an unforgettable lovemaking session. For your sense of sight: dim the lights, smell: light scented candles, sound: talk erotically, taste: snack on fruit and for touch: use feathers, silk, or oil. Try out sensation play for couples!
Raid the Toybox!
What is a sex toy? It’s anything that you use to enhance foreplay or sex. The most commonly used sex toy is the vibrator, which many people mistakenly think can only be used by women for solo masturbation. Not true! Incorporate sex toys into your lovemaking, and it just might become a daily tradition!
Supercharge your Kiss
Of course you’re not going to save kissing for June alone, but this month is as good a time as any to reconnect with a powerful, passionate, fall-to-your-knees kiss. Many people don’t realize that a man’s testosterone gets transferred to the woman’s mouth during French kissing, which boosts her libido, and gets you both in the mood.
Sex Picnic
Make sure you buy all of your lover’s favorite finger foods, hot and cold, and create a picnic in the middle of your bed. Spread out a large sheet and cover it with the variety of delectables. Take turns feeding each other slowly and licking each other’s fingers sensuously.
Hot Spots
Make a habit out of sensual massage! The best way to find your lover’s erogenous zones is to give them a massage from head to toe and ask them to rate their ‘zones’ on a pleasure rating scale from 1 to 10. It’s your job to focus on their favorite parts. Try licking your lover’s eyebrows, kissing their nose or stroking the backs of their knees. Enjoy the journey!
For more relationship ideas and tipcs on how to create new experiences in your love life and grow your brain cells while doing it, read Neuroloveology: The Power To Mindful Love & Sex.
May 6 marks the birthday of a cinema legend–and of the premiere male sex symbol. And 2021 marks the hundredth anniversary of the film that might be considered the first erotic film for women. Would you be shocked to know that there’s a connection between the two?
2. Valentino made the first erotic film for women. Whether playing Armand in Camille or Count Rodrigo in Cobra, Valentino imbued all of his heroes with romance, mystery and infinite charm. Yet it was in his role as the title character in 1921’s The Sheik that Valentino set fire to the screen, bringing a well-read romance novel to screen as he brought women to the theatre in droves. The Sheik contained no explicit scenes, but instead seethes with a hot undercurrent of brazen sensuality, balanced with passionate, life-binding romance. It was roles such as this one that lead Valentino to–in the words of Man’s World India (https://www.mansworldindia.com/culture/features/rudolph-valentino-sex-symbol-hollywood/)–“transform America’s idea of sex and the art of seduction.”
Now just look at that man. He should be featured on the cover of, like, every erotic movie made, even those in which he does not appear. Plus he is Australian, and his deeply voiced accent is to die for! Yet of his 157-film oeuvre, he has appeared on only four DVD covers–Immortal Desire, Homo Erectus (in which he plays a caveman), The Fuckingdales and Reverse Gang Bang–in which he has one big ol’ sex scene with 10 women. And where was I on casting day? 
Along the same lines–has anyone heard of Damian Duke? This beautiful blond British dynamo appeared in specialty titles in the early 2000s. Arriving on the scene in his early 20s, Duke happily submitted to many a dominatrix in a number of his films. In others, he performed alongside BBW women and older ladies, always showing them the utmost respect and investing true passion in his performances. He retired much too quickly for the Feminist Sexpert’s taste–but perhaps with more money and acclaim, he would have stayed.
If Ryder had been a female, a major porn studio would have cast him immediately in a XXX version of Cinderella. Instead the gorgeous Scot hunk appeared at first in motion pictures such as Big Tits in School and College Whores. Now, in a refreshing twist, he was eventually cast in fairy tale porn, playing Peter Pan in an Axel Braun film, and as a sexy superspy in Spyfall and a British lord in Down On Abby. And in 2015 came Ryan Ryder: Stud on Tour. Now that’s more like it! 
