Erika Jordan’s “Advice for Men” – Why Nice Guys Don’t Get The Girl

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April 2, 2019

In this video, I tackle the subject of “nice guys.” Are you a nice guy? When someone calls you a nice guy, does it feel like a put down, or an accusation?

What does it mean to be a “nice” guy? Does it mean that you have so little else going for your personality that people describe you as “nice” as your defining characteristic? That’s something you might want to evaluate, and I’ve got some tips and advice to overcome that perception. It doesn’t mean you have to transform into a bad boy, or give up basic manners – not at all. It just means that you can benefit from improving your game to transform “nice” into “sexy,” “interesting,” “in shape” or “exciting.”

Women are attracted to men who are charismatic and appear to have something going on besides an easy-going nature. Take the time to figure out what you’re bringing to the table, whether it’s a killer body or a great sense of humor, a sense of adventure or a searing intellect. Everyone’s different, so discover your strengths and play to them so that you can stand out in a crowd.

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Welcome to Playmate Pickup Podcast

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Erika Jordan

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May 24, 2020

You can find Love Coach Erika Jordan in numerous videos on her YouTube channel. Also here on Sexpert.com with her Advice For Men series, SDC and endless other places. Now Erika Jordan is making a splash in the world of podcasts! Erika takes her life experience combined with education to help you navigate the world of love. Listen to her hilarious adventures in the world of sad dating all designed to help you avoid the same mistakes. From Erika’s many years starring on Playboy TV or touring the world as a NLP practitioner she’s coming at you with a steady stream of entertainment. If you have any sex or dating questions you can leave a comment below.

Come find me at PlaymatePickup.com My six week course, The Art Of PickUp is available with personalized guidance at Virtual Sexpert.com. Acquire the skills to approach women with confidence and get them to want you!

Five Staycation Ideas For A Fun & Safe Summer Vacation

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Erika Jordan

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August 20, 2020

Staying safe doesn’t mean not having fun!

Woohoo, it’s summertime! Time to pack my bags full of bikinis and… Oh wait, we’re in the middle of a never-ending global pandemic.

Well, in that case, have no fear!

Staying safe doesn’t have to mean not leaving the house. You can have a ton of fun planning a “staycation” right at home or in your town that won’t require much effort at all.

If you’ve never taken a staycation before, then you’ll probably need a couple of staycation ideas to help get you started. It’s time to get creative.

Here are 5 staycation ideas to have fun and stay safe this summer.

1. Look at places near you that you’ve never explored.

You’ve probably connected certain locations as “vacation destinations” and others just as “destinations.” Any new location can be a vacation with the right mindset!

You can sit around and mope, or redirect and flourish. There are endless websites and apps that will give you reviews on hotels or Airbnbs practicing appropriate safety measures.

2. Look at Airbnbs, hotels, and bed and breakfasts hours away.

If you happen to book a hotel in a smaller town, you’ll not only be taking a vacation to someplace new, but you’ll be going to a place with less risk.

Smaller towns make social distancing easier, while still providing new scenery for you and your family to safely explore.

3. Plan a road trip in an RV.

Of course, you can pack up and drive to Canada or the other side of the country if long road trips are your thing, too.

Rent a mobile home or bus, pack the fridge full of food to avoid risky stops, and enjoy the ride! You can take fun pictures along the way and find exciting places to safely visit while social distancing.

It might not be the trip to Fiji you had planned, but it sure beats binge-watching Netflix for the 300th time this year.

4. Make yourself a home “spa.”

If you don’t want to leave the house, you can tidy up the place, throw on your robe, cut up some cucumbers for your eyes, and get some sheet masks.

Make some changes to your environment, like lighting candles or even pitching a tent in your backyard.

Splurge on a few luxurious beauty products, try a couple of new beauty hacks, or make it a DIY beauty treatment evening.

If you want your luxury items to be a surprise, consider ordering a beauty subscription box ahead of time. Rather than opening the packages when you get them, save them until the day your actual staycation starts. That way, you’ll have something to look forward to.

If it’s just you and your partner or spouse, take a shower together afterward to wash each other off!

5. Buy a fancy set of sheets and blankets.

Dress up your duvet and invest in high-thread-count hotel sheets. Leave chocolate on your own pillow.

Find ways to stimulate your senses comparable to when you’re on vacation. If you loved the Bahamas, maybe use a body spray or lotion scented like mango or pineapple.

You can’t fake the palm trees or the ocean, but that doesn’t mean your room can’t smell like that sexy villa in Grand Cayman.

Here are some extra tips to help you enjoy your staycation…

Put your phone away while you’re spending time with your family.
If you’re going to have your staycation at home, tidy up the place first.
Stay in your robe and make it relaxing.
Have a budget for food and other little things you can splurge on to make it feel fun and luxurious.

Your vacation plans might have been sidelined due to the pandemic, but that doesn’t mean you can’t have fun and enjoy yourself.

There are many staycation ideas you can take advantage of to make sure that you’re safe and socially distancing while having a great time and getting some much-needed relaxation!

If you are stuck at home, it is a good time to work on yourself. Erika Jordan has your back with ideas on which Skills will get the best response.

Come find me at PlaymatePickup.com My six week course, The Art Of PickUp is available with personalized guidance at Virtual Sexpert.com. Acquire the skills to approach women with confidence and get them to want you!

The Girlfriend Experience: Zoom Style

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Erika Jordan

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September 16, 2020

What is it like when you have to negotiate a dating relationship while in lock-down during quarantine, zoom-style?

In the midst of a pandemic we could all use a laugh. Dating Coach of the stars, Erika Jordan brings the funny. Along with Tenere Williams, Erika presents The Girlfriend Experience, Zoom style. Be careful what you wish for as Erika Jordan brings all the girlfriend stereotypes to life.

For more on the funny side from Erika Jordan check out I Paid For This Date.

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Where to Find a Threesome

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Erika Jordan

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September 25, 2022

What are the best threesome apps?

There are a variety of threesome apps you can use to find the right person (or people) while staying safe and keeping your details private. Here are a few you may wish to consider.

Feeld

Branded as the “dating app for open-minded couples and singles,” Feeld could be your go-to place to find a threesome. You can either browse alone or as a couple, chat with people online, and then arrange a meet-up. Want to keep your sexcapade a secret? This app allows you to “hide” from your Facebook friends, which means you won’t match with them. It might just save you an awkward conversation or two.

FetLife

FetLife has been around for over a decade. It’s a widely popular social networking website (and now app) for kinky folks with specific fetishes. Whereas the other apps on this list are just that—apps—FetLife distinguishes itself by being a social networking platform (think Facebook, but for kinky fuckers). There are plenty of folks on FetLife who are down to be your third, just know, they’ll likely want to get into something kinky, too

3Somer

For those of you who are a little more experienced, you may want to give the 3Somer app a whirl. The platform is specifically for couples and swingers, which means that it may draw a more seasoned crowd. Meeting someone (i.e. a third) could be as easy as creating a profile with your partner, swiping through singles, and saying hello.

(free on iOS and Android)

Fantasy

What could be more alluring than sharing your fantasies with like-minded adults? That’s what this next app is all about. Fantasy allows both couples and singles to connect over the things that turn them on! Plus, you can go incognito and sign up for a “guest” profile, which means that this one doesn’t sync with any of your social accounts.

Meet the other threesome participants before you have sex.

You may be looking for no more than a one-night stand, but that doesn’t mean that you shouldn’t get to know them first. Arrange to meet them in a casual setting before the big event so you can see if you’re all attracted to each other.

“Sometimes with threesomes, people like to make a whole evening of it. “You have it as an actual date; going out for wine and dinner to get the connection going before you get intimate. I would recommend that you meet up before to check that you’re both comfortable with that person.”

Decide on boundaries for the threesome. What’s too far? Talk it out so there are no surprises. Is penetration ok? anal? With more people between the sheets come more complications. If you’re in a couple, it’s no longer merely about making sure the two of you are happy and satisfied; you need to think about the third. If you’re the third, it’s important to advocate for yourself and make sure you’re getting as much out of the arrangement as everyone else. That’s why you’ve got to talk about what you’re all happy with before the action kicks off. Think of it as foreplay talk.

If you’re hosting the threesome, take some time to make your home look inviting. You’re supposed to be wooing the third, so you need to make an effort. You might want to put on music, light some candles or at the very least, change your sheets. When things kick off, keep in mind what the third is looking for from the experience. At the end of the night, they deserve to be just as satisfied as the two of you. Be generous with them—sharing is caring, after all.

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Erika Jordan is an internationally acclaimed love and relationship expert, NLP practitioner, author, and media personality, and a leader in the field of digital romance and online dating.

Erika Jordan’s ‘Advice For Men’ – 3 Steps To Orgasm

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Erika Jordan

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November 13, 2017

Erika Jordan gives men the 3 steps they need to make sure their lovers orgasm!

Come find me at PlaymatePickup.com My six week course, The Art Of PickUp is available with personalized guidance at Virtual Sexpert.com. Acquire the skills to approach women with confidence and get them to want you!

Erika Jordan’s Advice For Men – The Ultimate Sex Game

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October 23, 2019

The Ultimate Sex Game! Want to be a better lover? This sex game will change your life! Learn how to play this fun, hot, sexy game with your new partner to determine what kind of loving she craves in bed! Playing this game will give you the tools to read her body like a cartographer reads maps. Not only that, but it will turn her on in the process and make you a better, more confident, and caring lover!

Let Erika Jordan give you the scoop. Watch the video above for details!

In a new relationship, it is often hard to figure out what your new partner may like between the sheets. Instead of wondering, play this hot, sexy Ultimate Sex Game to get an instant road map to your partner’s pleasure zones and learn what turns her on quickly!

How to Play:

Take turns with your partner trying various types of sexual touch. Try tickling, erotic massage, oral pleasure, and don’t forget to explore her whole body with various types of touch! Does she like it gentle and loving? Don’t she like it rough and dominating? Does she like it when you whisper sweet nothings in her ear, or talk dirty? Don’t forget her breasts, nipples, back of the neck, underarms, inner thighs, feet, and of course her clitoris.
Get her to rate her pleasure response from 1 (bleh) to 10 (OMG you are going to make me come!)
Now you have a roadmap for what types of touch drive your partner wild and make them go crazy in bed!

For more advice from Erika Jordan may I recommend How To Use Touch On A Date.

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Who You Date vs Who You Marry

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Erika Jordan

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August 14, 2022

Have you guys seen the show on Netflix called Sex Life? I binge watched it! A suburban Mother’s attempts to settle for a life of stability and comfort after years of wild passionate craziness. Can you relate?

You’re wild, you’re passionate, you have wild kinky fun and do shit you don’t want your mother to know about. But then you get to a certain part of your life and you feel the need to get it out of your system and settle down with a nice girl. The girl from the church book club wasn’t appealing last year why do we suddenly think that is who we should settle down with?

This societal norm could be contributing to our high divorce rates. If you are passionate, sexual, wild and crazy. Why do you think it’s just a phase? What is wrong with incorporating that passionate fun into your life? Why do we feel we cannot have love, family and stability without eliminating the kinky passion we once lived for?

In my years as a Love Coach I have encountered numerous men who were unable to settle down, slept with multiple women in a week, and avoided commitment like the plague. Yet they got to a point in which they felt it was time to settle down and then instead of choosing a female similar to the ones they were attracted to they seek out a completely different type. The good girl. The girl their mom wants them to marry. Two years later they are cheating and unhappy.

I understand the logic. Insanity is someone who dates the same type of person over and over again expecting different results. Someone who is good for fun might not be good for a long-term relationship. But to go in the complete opposite direction of what excites you is a recipe for disaster. There is a middle ground! Yes, you can have it all.

Most of us want the comfort and safety of a long term relationship while still wanting to hold onto the excitement of our youth. Trying new things together, leaving your comfort zone, and communicating your desires and fears can help relationships maintain their passion.

One of my favorite suggestions for couples is to write a list of things you’d like to try together. Perhaps it is a sexual list, perhaps it isn’t. Try to come up with at least 10 activities each and have them approved by your partner. You can’t decide to have a threesome or go skydiving with an unwilling participant. Write each one on a piece of paper, fold them up and put them in a jar. Once every other week close your eyes and take one from the jar. Routine can be comforting but it can also lead to boredom. We humans have a need for certainty but we also have a need for uncertainty.

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Erika Jordan is a world renowned Love Expert and NLP practitioner

Erika Jordan’s “Advice For Men” What Is a Session

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Erika Jordan

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May 26, 2020

Erika Jordan is a certified love coach and NLP practitioner. As you know Erika offers one on one sessions on her site VirtualSexpert.com. But what is a session? What does it entail? Maybe you need to go back a step to What Is A Sexpert. Well no two sessions are the same. For the first session you will cover some basics such as what areas you would like to improve. Then Erika with you analyze different methods to get your desired outcome and find out which one would work best for you.

Erika will often incorporate hypnotherapy or NLP into her sessions when the client requests it. Or when she feels it is part of what is required to do to ensure you get positive results. Based on what you accomplish in the first session the information could be all you need and you will never see her again. Or you see progress and want to continue and incorporate more action into acquiring your goal.

You can talk with Erika over the phone, on video chat or meet in person. Erika Jordan customizes each session to ensure you get the best results. Erika gets right to the point and does everything in her power to help you. Your goals are her goals and you will achieve them together! Come find me at PlaymatePickup.com My six week course, The Art Of PickUp is available with personalized guidance at Virtual Sexpert.com. Acquire the skills to approach women with confidence and get them to want you!

Erika Jordan’s “Advice For Men” Dick Pics

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Erika Jordan

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March 12, 2020

Don’t send dick pics. Just reach down deep and kill that impulse to send a dick pic. But in the few occasions when you are genuinely asked for a dick pic. At least learn how to do it correctly. Good thing Erika Jordan is back with Advice For Men. Here she gives you the scoop on how to take a good dick pic.

Since the goal is to get a partner to join you in play you might want to check out Erika Jordan’s “Advice For Men” – How To Get Her To Be More Adventurous In Bed!

Come find me at PlaymatePickup.com My six week course, The Art Of PickUp is available with personalized guidance at Virtual Sexpert.com. Acquire the skills to approach women with confidence and get them to want you!