Is Phone Sex Important in a Long-distance Relationship?

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June 13, 2021

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Anyone who happens to be in a long-distance relationship is going to have to spend a whole lot of time experimenting with phone sex. It’s not just important; it could actually be the most important part of it. Any relationship out there is going to have sex as its most important element. When you’re not together, that sex has to come in the form of phone sex. There’s a reason that Bustle dedicated an entire page to how to have it, after all. No matter how long you’ve been together, the time is going to come when you have to express your sexual desire for each other. That’s when the importance of phone sex is going to become clear and you’re going to wish that you knew more about it than you do. It’s best to start investing some time in your phone sex skills as soon as you enter into a long-distance relationship. That’s the best way to make sure you’re ready when the time comes and you can give your partner something they love. Here are some ways to make it as hot and steamy as they really deserve from you.

Listen to the experts

The very first thing you have to do is make time to listen to what the experts have to say on the subject. It’s a great idea to find out how men like to do it as well as how women like to do it. Both are going to have their own likes and dislikes, as well as having different things they like to focus on. Women’s Health Magazine has a very good piece about engaging in phone sex without making it as awkward as it can be. You’re also going to want to know how to go about showing off the good stuff while you’re engaged in your play.

This woman knows all about posing for sexy photos and is willing to share her secrets. No matter what kind of approach you decide to use, the best possible thing for you to do is to make sure you’re letting yourself enjoy every last bit of intimacy that you can share with your partner. That’s what it’s all about, after all. You can’t be together in person, so you have to be together over the phone. Let yourself go and enjoy it just as much as you would be enjoying actual sex.

Practice with the pros

If you’re not great at phone sex, or if you’ve just never gotten the experience that makes you good at it, there’s one thing that you can do to improve your skills. You have to practice with the pros. Get yourself onto a site like Arousr and have some fun with the people there. It’s always full and you’ll never have to spend long looking for someone who wants to play with you. These women know exactly what they’re doing and they always have a good time while they’re doing it. You have the ability to find the kind of girl you’ve always wanted to have sex with or you can make her look just like your partner. It’s completely up to you and what you feel like in the moment. The important part is that you pay attention to what they’re doing and why you’re enjoying it so much. This is a top-of-the-line phone sex experience and you can learn a lot just by engaging in it. The best part is that you can keep coming back again and again until you figure it all out. Once you get back to having it with your partner, you’ll be able to blow her mind.

Try it any time you want

Phone sex is going to be an important part of your long-distance relationship. The better it is, the better your relationship will be. Don’t wait for someone else to tell you that it’s time to try it out. Be the first to bring it up and get the phone sex going. You don’t have anything to lose. If you initiate it, you’re probably going to be shocked at how receptive your partner happens to be to it. She’s going to let you know how much she likes it by the way that she lets it happen and throws herself into it. Women enjoy phone sex just as much as men do and they’re never going to turn it down when they can’t get the real thing from you. Just show her what you have and impress her with the skills that you’ve honed on the other girls. It will keep your relationship flourishing for as long as you happen to be together but separate. Enjoy it while it lasts and doesn’t hold anything back from her at all.

How To Improve A Woman’s Chances Of Orgasm During Penetration

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David Carreras

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August 25, 2016

The female orgasm during penetrative sex is elusive for many, and nothing but a folk tale for others.

Sex Therapist Al Cooper states in Understanding the Female Orgasm that up to 75% of women cannot orgasm with regular penetrative sex alone. And sexologist Robert Birch has reported that 10 – 15 % of American women have never even experienced an orgasm, via penetration or otherwise!

This makes bringing a woman to orgasm a very tough job for guys!

For men, having an orgasm is easy. Simple, straightforward stimulation to the penis, and the VAST majority of guys are “off to the races” in just a few minutes.

Women require much more to have an orgasm… they require:

Clitoral stimulation
Comfort / completely at ease
Strong mental arousal
Stimulation of other erogenous zones in many cases

When everything combines correctly, a woman can have an orgasm. (Note: g-spot orgasms and cul-de-sac orgasms, are possible, but for sake of ease, I’ll just focusing on clitoral orgasms).

And with the way we were built as humans, both male and female, we don’t “match up” very well anatomically during sex, in order for a woman to have an orgasm. Many women have some distance between their clitoris and vaginal opening, so regular penetrative sex just doesn’t provide direct enough stimulation for them to get off.

And watching porn doesn’t make men any wiser, or more educated as to giving a woman an orgasm… a guy “banging” away at a woman, slapping at random parts.

So How Should We Penetrate To Give a Woman an Orgasm?

The clitoris is most important when it comes to a woman’s orgasm, so pressure must be put on the clitoris.

There are a few methods to accomplish this during regular intercourse.

The “Rough Rub”

This is the way to penetrate that I have experienced the most success with.

Ever see how a woman gets herself off when she’s on top? Rather than an in-and-out banging, it’s a rough, swift, back-and- forth rubbing of her clit on your pelvis… your penis is almost just an afterthought on the inside. And notice how she doesn’t even separate herself from your body.

Now try and replicate this motion when you are on top.

Rub your pelvis ROUGHLY and VERY QUICKLY into her clitoris (after you’ve eased into it, of course…). Don’t let the pressure up, and make sure you are doing as long of a rub as possible… not a short range. Speed, pressure and friction is important here.

When taking breaks, try a forceful push into the clit for a few seconds (another penetrative technique on its own)…

Throw in some extracurricular stimulation (playing with her erogenous zones), dirty talk (or sweet talk, if she prefers), and the VAST majority of women will be having an orgasm in no time.

The Coital Alignment Technique

With the Coital Alignment Technique, rather than penetrating in an in-and-out fashion, you penetrate in more of an up-and-down fashion, with the base or top of your penis (your least sensitive part) rubbing against her clitoris (her most sensitive part).

While my success with this technique has been a bit off and on, it does serve as a nice change up when performing the other techniques, and you never know… it may work perfectly for both you and her.

The Hot and Ready

Warming up a woman’s clitoris before penetration is your best bet, regardless of what technique you will be going for.

Oral or manual stimulation to her clitoris will make your job much quicker / easier when actual sexual intercourse begins.

Even the good old fashion “banging” form of penetration can work if you get the clitoris aroused enough before beginning.

Hopefully together we will be making bedrooms all over the world much happier places.

I Paid For This Date

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Erika Jordan

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June 8, 2020

Erika Jordan is back with more advice in the auditory world with the latest installment of the Playmate Pickup podcast. I Paid For This Date. Take a dive into the world of matchmakers and a lot of first dates. How to deal with inflexible eating habits and binge drinking. Add in a little porn, too many cocks and cocks in socks. And yes this was all on one date, a date I paid for. Erika Jordan made the mistakes so you don’t have to. If you can avoid these mistakes then Erika Jordan can help you with 4 Ways To Get To the Second Date.

Come find me at PlaymatePickup.com My six week course, The Art Of PickUp is available with personalized guidance at Virtual Sexpert.com. Acquire the skills to approach women with confidence and get them to want you!

A Dating Guide for Asian Singles

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Jyotsna Ramani

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May 21, 2022

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The increasing popularity of online dating apps clearly indicates modern society. However, with the busy lifestyle of Asian singles, it becomes challenging to meet and connect with the right match as per your suitability and requirement.

These online dating sites allow members to register and create an exciting profile, leaving no stone unturned in making yourself presentable to grab the attention of all other members.

An Asian dating app lists the profiles created by other users and facilitates developing connections with other listed members to see if they suit your preference.

In addition, with the growing trend of online dating apps, people have the option to explore this technologically advanced, user-friendly online platform instead of traditional dating methods to meet other members.

Now they can simply get on to their phones and match effortlessly to discover the compatible quotient. First, however, you must follow the suggestions below while creating your online dating profile to enhance your chances of attracting the most matches and see if the cupid strikes.

Create a balance between confidence and humbleness.

You have to be self-assured and confident in your own skin. While you can share the good things about yourself, don’t go overboard by bragging or being overly cocky.

Humble yourself and don’t overdo it because that will just make you appear arrogant. There is a need to create a great balance that has been proven successful time and time again.

Be clear and specific.

Don’t be shy — tell the world what you want. Though it may seem scary, being honest about what you want in a partner is essential for finding the right person for you.

If you also think it’s helpful to state a few things that are deal-breakers — like smoking or drinking or having kids already — go ahead and do that, too. After all, people deserve to know what they’re getting into from the jump.

While it’s essential to be specific in what you seek in a match, avoid making demands or being too picky. For example, if you’re looking for someone tall and athletic who’s also a dog lover and enjoys yoga but doesn’t want someone who smokes and isn’t religious, your list is too long, specific, and demanding.

Don’t ignore Spelling and Grammar.

People’s attention span is minimal nowadays, and thus we have to grab their attention as soon as possible. So when somebody opens your profile, the first thing he will notice is your profile bio.

So make sure you write an appealing profile comprising grammatically correct sentences, no spelling errors, and everything should blend well together to create an impression that you know what you’re talking about.

Uploaded images.

If you are looking to attract a potential partner, it is vital to put your best foot forward. This means that you need to create an attractive and eye-catching profile picture. It will also help if the photos featured in your online dating profile accurately depict who you are as a person.

Don’t upload over-the-top, vulgar images that don’t exhibit your personality traits. Apart from the above guideline, your photographs must be of the best possible quality and should not be blurry or over the top. Never use photoshop to enhance a picture, as this will send red flags to the other person regarding your true intentions.

Use humor.

Your profile is the first place you’ll be able to quickly and succinctly tell people about yourself. Use it to share a funny anecdote or tidbit about your past or give context for the type of person you are now. Don’t be afraid to go off-topic—humor can help set you apart from serious profiles that all seem the same.