When a man has his Lingam worshiped by his lover, he feels a deep emotional and physical connection towards her. The gratification he gets enables him to surrender himself to her
female Goddess power.
Lingam Love Strokes
1. The Secret to Moving His Sexual Energy: You can direct sexual energy from his genital area to other body parts, particularly the heart Chakra, to create more of a connection. While stroking his Lingam with your right hand, move your left hand up the center of his body to his heart.
2. The X Stroke: Move your right hand over his right hip across his Lingam to his left nipple like a giant ‘X’. Then move your left hand over his left hip across his Lingam to his right nipple in a fluid motion.
3. Spiraling the Stalk: Both hands go in opposite directions in a corkscrew motion over the Lingam. One hand twists up while the other hand twists downwards. Make sure you use some lubricant or massage oil.
4. Blended Bliss: Stroke his Lingam with your prominent hand and stimulate his prostate externally by sliding your fist back and forth over the perineum. Make sure you use some lubricant or massage oil.
5. Making the Fire: Rub his Lingam with both hands as if rubbing a stick to make a fire. Make sure you use some lubricant or massage oil.
6. The Thousand Yoni Stroke: Rub his Lingam from the top to the bottom covering the glans (head) and sliding your hands down to the base with one hand after another in a fluid motion. Make sure you use some lubricant or massage oil. This will give him the erotic sensation of entering a thousand different Yonis.
Male Oral Delights for Her to Give Him
If you suffer from the ‘gag reflex’, leave your tongue outside of your mouth, then suck and lick his Lingam.
1. Get into a comfortable position so that you don’t get a sore back or neck and put his buttocks on a pillow for easy access.
2. Put his Lingam inside of your cheeks to avoid ‘gag reflex’, then suck and lick his Lingam.
3. Always use your hands as an extension of your mouth.
4. Try to keep eye contact with your lover.
5. Pump his Lingam up by squeezing it in the palm of your hand.
6. Use the tip of your tongue from side to side across his urethral opening.
7. His frenulum deserves extra licking, kissing and gentle sucking.
8. Wrap your lips tightly around his glans (head) and use plenty of suction.
9. Flick your tongue around his coronal ridge (around the base of the glans).
10. Lick and lap his raphe with the flat of your tongue (underside/seam of his penis).
11. Change your rhythm from long, slow sucking to short, fast, milking action.
12. Shake and wiggle his Lingam in your mouth.
13. Hold the base tight while making spiral motions around the glans.
14. Gently tug his scrotum while sucking him from the shaft to the glans.
15. Push on his perenium (between the Rosebud and the Jewels) while sucking.
16. Put your finger (palm up) inside his mouth, while giving him oral love.
17. Stroke his ‘Hero Spot’ (just inside the Rosebud) while sucking.
18. For ‘deep throating’ keep your head back and let him straddle you.
19. Stimulate his glans with your index finger while you are sucking.
20. Suck on an ice cube prior to oral love.
21. Drink some hot liquid prior to oral love.
22. Make humming sounds during oral love for some extra vibration.
23. Rub fruits and juices on his Lingam and lick them off.
24. Put his Lingam between your Pillows of Compassion/breasts (cleavage fornication) for variety.
25. Wrap beads around his Jewels tugging gently while sucking.
26. Stroke his Lingam lovingly with your hair and
27. Gargle with mouthwash or suck on a mint prior to oral love for a tingle.
28. Don’t change your rhythm just before he climaxes unless he asks you to!
29. Ask him how he wants to be sucked; gently, hard, slow, fast, deep…
30. Enthusiasm is more important than technique!
Excerpt from Dr. Ava’s Tantra Workbook