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Debra Shade

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Debra Shade is a Clinical Sexologist, Master Sexpert and Author. She travels cross country, pushing boundaries in her hands-on workshops, exploring sexuality and all of its kinks. She lives in Columbus, OH where for 8 years, she has hosted events and opportunities for individuals 18+ to learn about modern day sex education and their own sexual expression. She consults individuals and couples to their most orgasmic experiences through results driven consultations. Visit here at- https://shademediallc.com/ & https://debrashade.com/

The Power of the Clitoris

model of a clitoris devised by the Sydney artist Alli Sebastian Wolf The GlandThe power is in the Clitoris. Its ability to be responsive in so many different pleasurable ways make it the most powerful part of the anatomy according to many. The...

What is happening to your body during orgasm

You know the feeling… butterflies, waves of pleasure, toes curling, involuntary noises and a racing heart? All these things are happening during orgasms. But have you ever thought, what is happening with your body? What is the brain doing? What role is...

KINK or FETISH

KINK or FETISH You may have asked yourself this a time or two. What is the difference between a Kink and a Fetish? At its face a fetish is defined as a form of sexual desire of which an item, part of the...

Build Up Your Stamina: Exercise for Better Orgasms

We use muscles when we have sex that we typically don’t use in our day to day lives. If you tend to be huffing and puffing during play (not sexy!), you may want to consider preparing your body for better sex by building stamina....

Dating Tips & The Art of Flirting

Hello luvs! Happy holidays to you and yours. I am so excited to be wrapping up this year on the topic of dating. Dating has morphed into many things over the last year or so and I am hoping you have been keeping...

Games You Shouldn’t Play

You’ve beat the odds and have landed a relationship. Chemistry is there, you’re having long conversations and occasionally when you accidentally touch, sparks fly between you. This is the honeymoon phase of a blossoming relationship. It takes work to build a healthy...

12 Sexy Tips on How to Give & Receive the Best Oral Orgasm

Welcome to October! When we begin to bundle up and spend evenings taking long fair-weather walks. A great time of year to get all cozy inside and commit to your orgasm! As an Orgasm Coach I have guided many to their first or...

Approaching Dating During Quarantine

Dating changed drastically during the quarantine.  We went from thinking only the creepers where online to setting up several dating accounts.  We are forced to be lonely or try our hand at love online.  We had to let guards and pieces of us go...

Fingering Toward Orgasm

How Can Fingering Help Vulva Owners Reach Orgasm? Let's talk about an orgasm brought on by vaginal stimulation with fingers. This can result in intense and/or multiple orgasm, and for some, ejaculation. The best method to please a vulva born individual is to...

Why You Should Attend A Cuddle Party

I love, love, love the energy and healing I get from attending a Cuddle Party.  I hear so many different things about the experience and I can firsthand tell you that the experience you have is up to you.  First, no one is having...