Wednesday, April 29, 2026

Inspired By Your Own Naughty Long-Forgotten Dreck

Presently I’ve been ‘wrastling’ with a book that I’ve tried writing on and off for years. In unearthing what I had for it, I...

EROTICA OR PORN: THAT IS THE QUESTION…OR IS IT?

picture capture credit: from the 2015 film Fifty Shades of Grey You say tomato, I say, shut the hell up about tomatoes already....

REVIEW OF: SEX, EGO AND LOVE WRITTEN BY GREGOR RETI

Reviewed by Dr. Ava Cadell Gregor Retihas, Author, Global Speaker and Anthropologist, had an explosive life, meeting God at 13 years old when he almost...

5 Ideas For The Erotica Writer’s Writing Routine

And Now Back To Our Regularly Scheduled Masturbation: 5 Ideas For The Erotica Writer’s Writing Routine I can’t tell you when/where and how to write...

Free Excerpt: “O Wow – Discovering Your Ultimate Orgasm” By Jenny...

Review of Jenny Block's "O Wow - Discovering Your Ultimate Orgasm" If you've read any of Ms. Block's work on the Huffington Post, Playboy, AskMen...

Soft Morning Erotica

Soft Morning Erotica As the first rays of dawn gently pierce the low-lit ambiance of my sanctuary, I invite you to join me in an...

Sex Writing: When Does The Rewriting Stop?

Although Hemingway is quoted as having said: “The only kind of writing is rewriting,” there does come a time when you need to say...

Go Out And Get That Writing Job, Bucko!

I am the last guy to toot my own horn or even go so far as to let anyone know I exist. This is...

Dr. Diana’s Seven Secrets for Sensational Sex: Love in the Time...

Excerpt from Love in the Time of Corona: Advice from a Sex Therapist for Couples in Quarantine by Dr. Ava Cadell It’s my pleasure to share...

Figuring What You Are Worth, and Sticking To It

In quite a few of these sex writing columns, I've either skirted past what a writer should charge for his or her time and...