Friday, April 25, 2025

Naughty Memoirs; Erring On The Side Of Discretion

The subject I am tackling in this installment can add up to quite the sticky wicket when it comes to erotic writing (and God...
writer's block

Shooting Up The Old Mental Enema To Relieve You Of Writer’s...

This is one of the areas of writing (and there are a few, believe me) where I am not very learned. Simply,...

5 Ideas For The Erotica Writer’s Writing Routine

And Now Back To Our Regularly Scheduled Masturbation: 5 Ideas For The Erotica Writer’s Writing Routine I can’t tell you when/where and how to write...

Writing for Different Genres Could Make You a Better Writer

Writing for Different Genres Could Make You a Better Writer In the past two weeks I have been humbled/lucky or maybe my talent won out...

Self-Publishing & Erotica: The Cold Hard Facts-Part 1

Nobody wants your book.   Let’s face it. You write smut, stuff where people, puppies or even big globs of electrically infused jelly-like masses are doing...

Sex Writing: When Does The Rewriting Stop?

Although Hemingway is quoted as having said: “The only kind of writing is rewriting,” there does come a time when you need to say...

It’s A Small World After All, So Shut The Fuck Up...

If I ‘ve told you once, I‘ve told you a thousand times; whatever you do, do not burn a bridge. Plant on a smiley face, be as diplomatic...

To journal or not to journal? What’s Your Preference?

Here we fall onto another one of those areas I can’t rightly advise you on from any true personal experience. I don’t journal. I...

Sex Writing: Where to Publish Your Smut

I went to see Kurt Vonnegut lecture sometime in the mid-’80s. Being one of my all-time favorite authors, you can bet how...

EROTICA OR PORN: THAT IS THE QUESTION…OR IS IT?

picture capture credit: from the 2015 film Fifty Shades of Grey You say tomato, I say, shut the hell up about tomatoes already....