Sunday, September 13, 2026

Saying “NEXT”: When Fired From A Sex Writing Job…

Saying “NEXT”: When Fired From A Sex Writing Job, When Losing Your Fuck-Buddy, To Life In General I lost a job today (well, by the...

The Wild Girls Club, Part 2, Tales From New York to...

I've always been a fan of Anka Radakovich, since she wrote her groundbreaking sex column for Details magazine. (She was doing Carrie Bradshaw's job...
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The Question Of The Non-De Plume For The Erotic Writer

We writers of smut often get a very bad rap. First of all, we scribble sex stories. Secondly, it’s often assumed we jerk or...

Writing for Different Genres Could Make You a Better Writer

Writing for Different Genres Could Make You a Better Writer In the past two weeks I have been humbled/lucky or maybe my talent won out...

Sex Writing: How to Write Naughty Dialogue

The Art of Writing Dirty Dialogue for Erotica Writers What somebody says can be just as interesting and downright disgustingly perverted (in a good way)...

Dr. Diana’s Seven Secrets for Sensational Sex: Love in the Time...

Excerpt from Love in the Time of Corona: Advice from a Sex Therapist for Couples in Quarantine by Dr. Ava Cadell It’s my pleasure to share...

Figuring What You Are Worth, and Sticking To It

In quite a few of these sex writing columns, I've either skirted past what a writer should charge for his or her time and...

5 Ideas For The Erotica Writer’s Writing Routine

And Now Back To Our Regularly Scheduled Masturbation: 5 Ideas For The Erotica Writer’s Writing Routine I can’t tell you when/where and how to write...

Should You Take That Writing Gig? Five Red Flags Your Potential...

Part of the freelance writer life, at least mine, un-agented as I am and writing across lots of formats and genres (it’s not all...

What Did You Say?-Making Money Via Audio Books

Just as eBook came to print, audio comes to eBook (and yes, print) as both another way to enjoy a story or 300-page tome...