BDSM Was Sexier Than I Had Expected
BDSM was the last thing on my mind when I met my husband.
Dave and I had been neighbours for ten years before we started...
REVIEW OF: SEX, EGO AND LOVE WRITTEN BY GREGOR RETI
Reviewed by Dr. Ava Cadell
Gregor Retihas, Author, Global Speaker and Anthropologist, had an explosive life, meeting God at 13 years old when he almost...
Self-Publishing & Erotica: The Cold Hard Facts-Part 3
Ok, so here it is. Sorry, it took me three columns to get here, but the stuff I laid out in part 1 and...
Sex Writing: When Does The Rewriting Stop?
Although Hemingway is quoted as having said: “The only kind of writing is rewriting,” there does come a time when you need to say...
BE NICE
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Ok kids, it's story-time. Sit right down here at Uncle Ralphie's knee and let me regale you of yet...
Should You Take That Writing Gig? Five Red Flags Your Potential...
Part of the freelance writer life, at least mine, un-agented as I am and writing across lots of formats and genres (it’s not all...
Top 5 Tips To Learn About Writing When You Have Lots...
And suddenly, I am flush with money and work.
This is the way I’ve often found it in the freelance writing game. I can go...
Anne Rice Tribute
Anne Rice died on December 11th, at the age of 80. Known chiefly or at least initially, from her “Vampire Chronicles” (starting with the...
To journal or not to journal? What’s Your Preference?
Here we fall onto another one of those areas I can’t rightly advise you on from any true personal experience. I don’t journal. I...
5 Ideas For The Erotica Writer’s Writing Routine
And Now Back To Our Regularly Scheduled Masturbation: 5 Ideas For The Erotica Writer’s Writing Routine
I can’t tell you when/where and how to write...





















