How to Have a Kinky Halloween

Halloween is the time for witches, ghosts and pumpkins. It is the time when the veil between our world and the Otherworld is thin, allowing in spirits of the dead to dance among the living.

Halloween is also a time for dressing up, trick or treating, and costume parties. For adults, it is time where you can create a shadowy persona and become your alter ego.

Halloween is also a time for getting kinky with your partner (or even hosting a “kink” party) if you are into that. Or maybe just a bit curious?

If so, here are some ideas on how to have a Kinky Halloween!

Share Your Fantasies

First of all your will want to share your kinky fantasies with your partner. Check out this quickie article by Dr. Ava for some tips on how to do that.

Types of Activities

There are lots of different types of activities you can try out for a Kinky Halloween. The first thing that comes to mind is sexual roleplaying.

Sexual roleplay, according to Wikipedia, “is roleplay that has a strong erotic element. It may involve two or more people who act out roles in a sexual fantasy and may be a form of foreplay and be sexually arousing. Many people regard sexual roleplay as a means of overcoming sexual inhibitions.” https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sexual_roleplay

Sexual roleplaying in a kinky scenario could be anything from dressing up to play doctor and nurse, naughty school girl (or boy) and teacher, to Vampire and victim, Pirate and wench, or play “office” as a Boss and slutty secretary. Basically, your imagination is the only limit.

Check out my article: The ABCs of Roleplaying at Slutty Girl Problems for more ideas.

The ABCs of Sex – Roleplaying

Bondage and Restraints

When most people think of kinky sex, bondage and restraints come to mind. Bondage can be anything from mental bondage and telling your partner not to move, to hold down your lovers wrists as you fuck them, to using bondage cuffs or tying elaborate knots to hold your lover down.

The most important aspect to bondage is safety. See my Sex Restraints Safety for Couples article here for safety tips-

Sex Restraints Safety for Couples

Fifty Shades

Perhaps you are keen on Creating Your Own Fifty Shades Sexperience-

Creating Your Own 50 Shades Sexperience

During the scene you may want to experiment with dominance and submission, whips and floggers, blindfolds, and other sex toys made famous by the movie.

BDSM Sex Toys for a Kinky Halloween

Speaking of sex toys, here are some of my favorite for creating a Kinky Halloween.

Crimson Tied

The Crimson Tied bondage accessories by XR Brands is part of the Master Series collection and is a sexy red and black embossed line of bondage gear suitable for fetish Fashionistas. The line features blindfolds, cuffs, gags, whips, spankers, nipple clamps, cock rings, and anal plugs. I especially love the Crimson Tied Sub Collar.

Want it all? Check out the Ultimate Bondage Kit.

Skull and Bones

The Ouch! Skull and Bones brand by Shots Toys is new this season and is pretty cool. This line features black leather accessories with grey studded metal skulls and heavy metal spikes. This line has you covered with whips, ball gags, masks, an assortment of bracelets, cuffs and elaborate collars. Again the collars and beasty wrist bands are definitely worth checking out and I also love this skull crop!

Mistress Isabella

The Mistress Isabella Signature Collection is another new brand by XR Brands, featuring hand-picked BDSM tools by infamous Dominatrix Isabella Sinclaire. The collection features exceptionally crafted tools of the trade, personally by this sought after Dominatrix reflecting her style, sophistication, skill, and class, perfectly suited for the hardcore Domme and male submissive combo. The collection has a ll the usual suspects (cuffs, collars, leashes, bondage rope, cane, flogger, ball gag, Wartenburg wheel) as well as some seriously nasty bdsm devices including penis sounds, an Estim wand, penis and ball stretcher, inflatable enema plug, anal speculum and more. Definitely for serious players.

Vampire Gloves & Nails

No kinky Halloween would be complete without Vampire nails and gloves. These sensation play toys looks devious and feel delicious. They are great fun to play with a sure to scare your lover into submission.

Fantasy BDSM Masks

I couldn’t help but add these sexy, cute leather masks: Bad Kitten, Bad Bunny and Naughty Kittie. These would be perfect for role playing, dressing up in costume, or animal play scenes. Or just a kinky way to express your Halloween style!

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I hope you enjoyed this collection of ideas, articles and bdsm toy accessories you can play with this season to make yours the Kinkiest Halloween ever.

Boo!

Have a Happy and Kinky Halloween!

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Domina Doll is a Passion, Pleasure, and Empowerment Expert, a Sex Witch, Magic Manifesting Alchemist. Her passion is teaching women how to harness their sexual superpowers so they can manifest their desires using sexual energy and sex magic. Her work has been published both online and in print including Cosmo, Sexpert.com, Bustle, YourTango, Slutty Girl Problems, Thought Catalog, and Women's Health. She is the author of: "Jillin' Off: A Girl's Guide to Solo Sex" and Lovehoney's Official Passion, Pleasure & Empowerment Expert, a sex educator who writes how to articles to help people have better pleasure-filled sex lives. Domina has trained in several holistic modalities including Sacred Tantra Sexuality, Ancient Taoist Sexual Empowerment, Metaphysics, Magic, Kundalini, Moon Magic, Jungian & Goddess Archetypes, Sex Magic and Manifesting, and is a Certified Sex Coach.

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