I really did not think that folks were still having conversations about a cock shaming. Being too big or too small is how your sexuality is judged. Society has fostered an environment of cock shaming. We see it on TV all the time. The suggestive scenes in cartoons when one character is having a laugh about another’s “anatomy” size.
Penis owners have to know their way around the anatomy of the vulva and vagina. When we are talking about penis giving pleasure for the vulva owner, the anatomy of the vulva shows that one of the most powerful orgasms the ‘Gspot’ orgasm, rests right behind the pelvic bone at the top of the vaginal wall within two to three inches in. The valid studies have proven the average penis is 3.61 inches flaccid and 5.16 inches erect. The largest penis has recently made the world record at 19.1 inches erect! Believe it or not, he reports how problematic his sexual relationships are due to having longest penis.
The measurements are done with an erect penis. If you were to measure, over a three-day period, your erect penis from the base to the tip. Take the average of the three measurements. This is your penis size. We also need to consider, because it matters, your girth. Especially if it is wider than three inches wide. This will allow some vulva owners to feel full and stretched. For folks with a narrow canal, you will need to use care and lube to ease entry and stay shallow. If that won’t work, use your fingers or a toy to stimulate the Gspot, Aspot and cervix. If the person is able to bring their legs all the way up, relaxed in a V position, you can finger the deep spot and cul de sac.
The way to enjoy penetrative sex when the penis is under three inches, is to get in positions that allow for full penetration. As the giver, take your mind off the length, the vagina is 5-7 inches and thrusting straight in, with each stroke being the same, your mate will not cum as there are very little pleasure spaces in the vaginal canal. It is great for you but realize you will need to please your partner. Encourage them to stimulate their clitoris or penis to add more pleasure and raise the possibility of having an orgasm with this sort of penetration.
The shorter penis is also able to provide much pleasure in the right positions. The cowgirl position, when the receiver arranges their opening to sit on the penis and for best pleasure, they can bounce to stroke the various orgasmic spots. They could also grind on the cock like you are working a hula hoop.
Anatomy knowledge about the internal clitoris is that it looks like a symmetric wishbone with two bulbs/glands attached to the “legs” and urethra. Those glands are dubbed the Pspot as a comparison to prostrates. These are the glands that fill with fluid that is ejaculated during orgasm. Shorter penises can stimulate this area and massaging or rubbing against the mound feels amazing.
Quit your cock shaming. It shows ignorance on your part. As well, become one with your cock. It is the only one that you are given. While you can extend it temporarily or in some instances more permanently. Practice your hip movement to a grinding, circle motion, giving more pleasure than thrusting.
Did I leave you with questions? Reach out to me @shadeyontop or my website debrashade.com.
