4 Gift Ideas To Spice Up Your Sex Life

The couple or husband and wife have special time together by having sex or make love on a bed at bedroom. It’s the first time for the lover. They’re so exciting. He comes too soon, he feels failure

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While there are many charming and distinctive ways to express your affection for your significant other, you must admit that at some point, you need to take things up a notch, especially if you know that their desires call for it. In such a case, it’s easy to assume that giving jewelry or customized whiskey decanters won’t cut it.  

Perhaps it’s time you consider looking for gift ideas to spice up your sex life. Whether you’re newlyweds, engaged, casually dating or in a complicated relationship, it won’t hurt to think of ways to satisfy your partner’s needs (and yours, too, nonetheless!) 

Bringing excitement and satisfaction to your intimate life and choosing the perfect sensual gifts call for imagination, playfulness and a commitment to pleasure. If you’re looking for a sexy little something you and your other half will enjoy, you’ve come to the right place. Below is a roundup of a few gift ideas you can try to spice things up in the bedroom:

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  1. Sex Toys For Beginners 

Brace yourself for the excitement and satisfaction that await as you embark on the beautiful journey of sexual pleasure and sensual discovery. The realm of sex toys for beginners is vast and offers an array of options, from female vibrators to dildos and butt plugs, leaving you spoilt for choices. 

When choosing a sex toy, reflect on what pleases you during masturbation or sexual activity without using toys. Is it penetration or clitoral stimulation? Look for a toy that complements your desires, preferably beginning with a smaller, budget-friendly option.  

Dildos and vibrators are commonly used sex toys for women, with vibrators often being the preferred choice for many. They can be enjoyed alone or used with a partner for added clitoral stimulation. For a more compact option, try a clitoral stimulator. This small sex toy concentrates on delivering non-penetrative pleasure to the clitoris, making it ideal for couples’ play or solo enjoyment. 

2.  Sensual Massage Oils And Candles 

For those occasions when you seek a slower, more sensual build-up to sex, a massage is an excellent choice. The gift of tender, intimate touch is a powerful expression of closeness, particularly when enhanced by using a rich, luxurious massage oil

If physical affection is your partner’s primary love language, they’ll surely appreciate a relaxing and intimate massage with the oil from a scented candle. One perfect option is the soybean and jojoba oil blend melted from the heat of the candle, which will leave the skin soft and ready to touch. This warm-up method before lovemaking is an excellent way to switch up your routine and experiment with more effective foreplay. 

A bath bomb infused with aphrodisiac ingredients and scented with the relaxing fragrances of lavender, sage and jasmine essential oils can also be a sensual and enjoyable gift. The bath bomb is designed to ignite sexual desire and soothe and relax the body, whether enjoyed solo or shared with a partner. It’s a great way to stimulate the senses and set the mood for intimacy. 

3.  Sultry Lingerie Sets 

Lingerie is a sensual gift that symbolises your affection and sends a clear message of your intentions for an intimate moment. After giving it, you’ll be daydreaming of when your partner will surprise you for a steamy night at home. Imagine entering your dimmed bedroom with your alluring partner waiting for you in their sultriest lingerie – that’ll spice things up instantly.  

For couples who prefer a subtler approach to sexual exploration, lingerie can be the perfect entry point. It’s an attractive and low-pressure option that allows you to experiment with something new simply by slipping it on rather than having to navigate the use of unfamiliar sex toys. 

Consider your partner’s personal taste when shopping for lingerie sets. Do they prefer lacy or racy or lean towards something simpler and more classic? Think of what makes them feel confident and beautiful. You can also ask your partner what they like and are comfortable with. Remember, good communication is essential in any relationship, especially in the bedroom. 

4.  Kinky Bedroom Games 

If you’re looking to bring excitement back into the bedroom, why not try some fun and kinky games you can play with your partner? The foundation of a successful experience with sexy games for couples lies in mutual trust and a shared interest in exploring your sexual desires together. 

Kinky bedroom games can vary greatly depending on personal preferences, but some popular options include role-playing, bondage, sex dice and strip games. Another option is to try out a sex-themed board or card game. It’s essential to communicate with your partner about what interests you, and establish clear boundaries before trying any new activities. 

Final Words 

Choosing the best gift ideas to spice up your sex life doesn’t have to be difficult when you look at it as an adventure. Consider it an opportunity to know yourself and your partner better, so you can both be sated and happy in bed. Although sex life isn’t everything in a relationship, it’s a significant portion that can make or break your bond. 

 Jennifer Jones 

Jennifer Jones, a certified sex and relationship coach, has helped countless individuals and couples enhance their intimate lives through education, communication, and practical skills. In addition to private coaching sessions, Jennifer regularly speaks at events and workshops, sharing her expertise on topics ranging from consent and communication to pleasure-based sex education.

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Tamara Bell holds a BS in Business Management. She is the founder of the Home Pleasure Party Plan Association, LLC., where she helps party plan business owners grow their business. She is the owner of a Love Coaching practice in Yuma, AZ, where she has been educating women and couples on ways to enhance their relationship for over 28 years. She has participated as a V-Day vendor for 10 years, helping colleges raise money for various non-profit organizations. Tamara has presented at the University of Pacific in Stockton’s Women’s Conference for the past 8 years educating students, educators and faculty on various issues relating to sex, romance and relationships. Her understanding of love and romance has enabled her marriage to reach its 34-year mark. She is also a Death Doula, after loosing her husband she wanted to help others dealing with a loss. Tamara is available for public speaking, media, product endorsements, and one on one private sessions. For a private session with Tamara the options are in person, phone, Skype, or email.


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