When we think of Romance we don’t tend to think Spiritual.
What are the Two? According to Google:
2. a feeling of excitement and mystery associated with love.
“in search of romance”
2. of, relating to, or affecting the human spirit or soul as opposed to material or physical things.
“I’m responsible for his spiritual welfare.”
When you put the two together, you are spiritually being affected by the spirit or soul on a physical level when you get the feeling of excitement and mystery associated with love.
This 2017 I want those who read this article to close their eyes. Stop, take a deep breath and ask what makes you feel good? Is it material? Is it physical? Do you want to just love someone? The question I think people need to ask themselves is, “Do I love myself?” “Can I handle enjoying myself as I am?”
Life can never be perfect, but it can be harmonized and when we harmonize we even out and feel good. Less stressed. Which leads me to Mindfulness. This way of thinking is living in the present moment. Not in the past not in the future but what can harmonize you RIGHT NOW! I studied so hard to be mindful, being from a family that always thought about the past and the future and never the present Stressed me out. I didn’t realize why I was so full of anxiety, sweaty palms all the time, anxiety attacks.
Now I think about right now what is going on what bills I have to pay, how I can make the day better? Why I am so grumpy? You see when we touch these points, we touch the soul, the spirit. We can then make ourselves happy and our partner or future partner happy. We can love more, give time to feel more and communicate.
Why stress out and make life more stressed than society already places on us. Its exhausting and frankly I hate it. If people were more mindful we could actually be more productive. And have time to be more romantic.
That is the goal to feel love more, to be romantic. Spiritual Romance goes hand in hand and hand. When you begin to open yourself up to fixing you on a harmonious level you can bring out romance in your relationship with you and your partner.
I want to stop jabbering away about my theories and thoughts on how to achieve harmony in your life and I want to pick a card for my Sexpert readers.
This card will represent for the Sexpert community and will guide you to the start of a new way of Romance- Spiritual Romance for January 2017
The Deck I use is from Doreen Virtue From her Romance Angel Oracle Cards.
Here I go!
Ahh… the Reconciliation Card –
How amazing is this – you see, I didn’t pick the card until after I wrote this article! Which I love when the Romance Angels step in and help make this Article really end well! Thank You Angels.
Here is the message:
Someone from your past is returning to your life.
This card indicates that an ex-lover may be reentering your life. The first person you think of is likely who it will be. The purpose of this reconciliation is to achieve healing and closure with respect to your past. You will understand more about yourself and see your relationship patterns more clearly. You’ll also take responsibility for the role you played in the relationship’s drama, which will free you from the tyranny of unforgiveness.
Reconciliations are ultimately about taking care of unfinished business. This card could also possibly mean making peace with a family member or friend. Each relationship is a sacred learning experience, so be open to this reunion’s lessons and blessings. Ultimately, all healings help your love life and every other part of your world.
This goes back into being mindful, listening to yourself and what you need not the other way around. When you are mindful you think of the present moment and the reconciliation card brings the past to move forward in your present moment. Not for the future but RIGHT NOW! As humans we hold onto so much Crap and baggage and in order for us to be truly happy we have to let it all go and as we move forward in the present time we begin to see how we respond to people, how we speak to them, how defensive we get, or maybe how we make assumptions and really never just think “wait I need to talk to the person on how “I” Feel. If any of you know how the first steps in communicating you never want to use “YOU” and we start with” I feel”. We as humans make life more difficult than it is we get hung up on life, what we see on tv or in social media. Life is real and you are real so treat it with real feelings not made up ideas in your head. Life is to be harmonized and you can harmonize unless you reconcile your feelings, your past love and your heart breaks.
Take those feelings and acknowledge them and then nicely throw them away. This will allow you to be Present “Mindful” and make your present relationships better either with yourself or a partner.
Have a Spiritual Romantic 2017!
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